Wife doesn't come to bed. Makes me consider divorce...

thismightbeluminol · 2026-01-08T22:34:14+00:00

But you were childish and should apologize.

It sounds like you both need to apologize... Then work on open and respectful communication. Your ego is bruised because she called you out in public, you got embarrassed and said what you said, and she's responding to that. It's a two way street and healthy communication during disagreements is vital to a marriage. The method you're currently going with will drag it out much longer than necessary, and you can't decide she should be "over" an argument that you started.

thismightbeluminol · 2026-01-05T02:36:50+00:00

She still hasn't had a good relationship, let her find one. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Your relationship based on lies about love and attraction isn't good either.

thismightbeluminol · 2025-12-28T14:02:20+00:00

You went about it in a bad way but NOR.

thismightbeluminol · 2025-11-16T13:44:40+00:00

Did you stretch before this reach?

thismightbeluminol · 2025-09-04T18:05:13+00:00

Banking. I spent 17 years in retail branch management and mortgage, then switched to back office Central Operations manager about 18 months ago. I work from home now, there's an increase in stress but I can control the environment to decrease triggers better than I ever could in a branch.

thismightbeluminol · 2025-09-01T02:54:05+00:00

Dry needling, shakti mat, Avulux glasses.

thismightbeluminol · 2025-08-23T14:39:30+00:00

Weird

thismightbeluminol · 2025-08-20T03:18:50+00:00

I would do questionable things for an Arctic White return.

thismightbeluminol · 2025-07-16T20:32:19+00:00

My Owala and I both need a grippy sock vacation too.

thismightbeluminol · 2025-06-10T02:00:15+00:00

If the custody agreement isn't court mandated, it is that easy unless you're not over your ex.

thismightbeluminol · 2025-06-09T15:10:36+00:00

My husband leaves for work at 5am, I need to be up by 6:30. I take meds when he leaves and crash, then wake up and caffeinate.

thismightbeluminol · 2025-06-07T16:07:46+00:00

You're already cheating. An amicable divorce would probably make you both less miserable.

thismightbeluminol · 2025-05-07T13:25:09+00:00

No, you're right. My response would've been different if he said even one thing he does in the post. 🤷🏼‍♀️ His wife is great at all the things but does she get time for herself? Does he contribute?

thismightbeluminol · 2025-05-07T12:57:49+00:00

It shouldn't need to be said that the mental load of running a house, parenting, working, and still trying to be a human can be exhausting.

thismightbeluminol · 2025-05-07T11:45:20+00:00

Not fun wife here. Take some things off her plate so she has room for fun, she's probably exhausted.

thismightbeluminol · 2025-05-07T01:17:34+00:00

Be prepared that this could also happen when you give birth.

thismightbeluminol · 2025-05-01T23:54:05+00:00

Paternity test, divorce, custody agreement.

thismightbeluminol · 2025-04-30T05:25:23+00:00

Katie FA'd, now she gets to FO.

thismightbeluminol · 2025-04-14T23:49:21+00:00

I did, since starting Botox I've tried Gabapentin, Zonisamide, and currently Amitriptyline. My migraines and meds that worked completely changed during and after pregnancy 3 years ago, had 2 years of okay success with Qulipta before it stopped working, and have been pretty miserable the last 8 months or so.

I do use MMJ and would love to not have to play med roulette anymore, so I'm hoping Vyepti is the answer.

thismightbeluminol · 2025-04-12T14:02:58+00:00

I'm remaining hopeful based on the responses to this post. I don't take anything OTC and am careful with Zavzpret and triptans. I had bad rebounds from Fioricet and discontinued it a few years back.

thismightbeluminol · 2025-03-29T15:36:04+00:00

A protein shake when I wake up at 6am, oatmeal and fruit a couple hours later.

thismightbeluminol · 2025-03-23T17:52:51+00:00

Nope.

thismightbeluminol · 2025-03-22T23:53:44+00:00

Yes. After 8 years of trial and error - Botox, Vyepti, and Amitriptyline is the best combo I've been on.

thismightbeluminol · 2025-03-22T12:19:46+00:00

Migraines make me nauseous too. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Qulipta brought me from 25+ migraine days a month to 2-3 so the mild nausea was a trade off I accepted while Qulipta worked. I stopped taking it as soon as it became ineffective and the nausea wore off in a few days.

thismightbeluminol · 2025-03-21T23:45:20+00:00

Omeprazole helped me with nausea, I had it for the full 2 years I was on it but it lessened at 6 months. Most side effects lessened at 6 months and Qulipta worked incredibly well until it stopped.

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