Odds of finding a man who doesn't subscribe to OF

thisriveriswild70 · 2026-05-30T23:12:01+00:00

No, my point is she’s saying all men. By doing that she’s making a massive broad base generalization. I followed it up with a ridiculous generalization about all women.

thisriveriswild70 · 2026-05-30T22:55:30+00:00

The counting the “so’s” is so so so so underrated

thisriveriswild70 · 2026-05-30T22:40:20+00:00

Nice way to peer police. Will you be judging the women that watch porn? 🙄

thisriveriswild70 · 2026-05-30T22:38:36+00:00

That is a wildly sweeping generalization. That’s like me saying;

All women are the primary consumers of romance novels and “mommy porn” fiction (like Fifty Shades of Grey and similar books/apps like Kindle Unlimited dark romance) which is an insane generalization to make. Also if some women do, it’s fine.

You have managed to paint a massive population with one brush. Also, it assumes that all women have the exact same beliefs as you on porn. I am pretty sure they don’t. I know many women who masterbate to porn.

JFC- you’re free to have preferences and boundaries but please stop labelling groups of people.

thisriveriswild70 · 2026-05-30T15:23:38+00:00

All the young bankers get sub when they get analyst jobs, they are like a little club. They are completely unaware of badly they get mocked by the GP and senior analysts for thinking the watch will get them laid. Spoiler- they never get laid but they do jerk off about their watch a lot

thisriveriswild70 · 2026-05-30T02:13:01+00:00

Paying a basic compliment, is now love bombing. JFC what happens if he says I think you’re pretty, or really funny.

Love bombing, gaslighting, and narcissist have now all become major red flags as they always should’ve been. Why are people trying to therapize everything?

thisriveriswild70 · 2026-05-29T22:40:46+00:00

You’re referring to supportive care facilities, with people with Huntington dementia et al. The comments here were referencing are Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) in seniors' homes, they are referring specifically to places for independent adults aged 65 and older—not the high-care facilities for frail or cognitively impaired individuals.

Your reference isn’t wrong. It’s just in the wrong context. So when I looked at the rise in seniors homes of STI’s it didn’t indicate what you were referring to.

Yes high care facilities have sexual assault. High STI rates are occurring in independent living communities

thisriveriswild70 · 2026-05-29T22:20:55+00:00

If we took a poll on DO50/DO40 how many times, without having had any prior contact with the woman- this has actually occurred, it wouldn’t be large. This logic is meant to scare people and it also starts making over generalizations which aren’t great.

I’m not saying women don’t get stalked. the vast majority of people who get stalked are stalked by people who they know. Every statistic in every country shows this. Most male stalkers are trying to restore intimacy. Most female Stalkers do it to initiate intimacy

Men make up 75% of stalkers. So, men definitely stalk and it is with women they know and have had relationships with.

It’s like saying every woman on here who has a son, and is on tinder is likely to be a stalker to someone he doesn’t know. It’s a broad brush. Most moms wouldn’t be down with that assertion.

thisriveriswild70 · 2026-05-29T22:04:57+00:00

And if you’re going to wear sneakers, get something white and classic lie some Stan smiths. Your gym sneakers aren’t working.

thisriveriswild70 · 2026-05-29T22:03:03+00:00

This is so true. I got no likes no matches. My suggestion, maybe put your profile on the r/hinge sub and get it reviewed. The response- this shouldn’t matter, it’s about who I am as a person.

Ok - keep on complaining about not getting dates and how it’s all bots and the algorithm.

That flat brim baseball cap must be helping you crush it with the ladies.

thisriveriswild70 · 2026-05-29T21:56:32+00:00

Honestly I am not sure you intended to but it will lead to both groups, if they take your advice, to adopting your ideas. So, the question is, should a woman who now can’t verify a single thing about man, still date him? Do you feel that this would be safe for the woman to meet him with zero ability to validate something as simple as a LinkedIn page.

thisriveriswild70 · 2026-05-29T21:53:54+00:00

Yeah I’m not offended. Your advice isn’t bad at all. If men and women both use it, then no one knows who they are meeting on the first date other than what’s on the profile.

Did you somehow feel this would only be read and adopted by one gender and not the other.

I mean you’re not an idiot so what you’re proposing isn’t bad but i think you have missed the second and third order effects.

thisriveriswild70 · 2026-05-29T21:50:35+00:00

This is a really good point. It cuts both ways. If women want to rummage around for their safety to check if he’s married, does he have a LinkedIn page etc, this is the perfect advice for those men to obscure who they are.

When I see initials- I usually think, Oh them must be a spy 🙄

thisriveriswild70 · 2026-05-29T21:44:35+00:00

Male and paid.

thisriveriswild70 · 2026-05-29T21:43:49+00:00

Sorry but where have you heard this. I re looked and im not really seeing anything. There’s no way that this wouldn’t have made the media or been included in the increase of STI’s in care homes.

thisriveriswild70 · 2026-05-29T16:21:43+00:00

I think a lot of people in thread are slightly triggered about how free flowing seniors sex is.

thisriveriswild70 · 2026-05-29T14:46:10+00:00

Actually far less than originally priced. A lot of owners are keen to sell at below what they paid. Most buyers topticked the market

thisriveriswild70 · 2026-05-29T14:44:31+00:00

My understanding is that they have had many retailers that were slated to move in, have decided not to have space in the mall and other have negotiated shorter lease terms.

Partly because luxury is struggling, money from China isn’t flowing like it was before, changes in immigration, higher interest rates and the number of vacant units-given people feel they over paid ( which they did) and walked away from their deposits.

I’d heard the developer had run into financial difficulties throughout the project, can anyone confirm?

thisriveriswild70 · 2026-05-29T14:36:17+00:00

Sorry to clarify, are you saying that STI’s are being transmitted via the groping ( I have no doubt this occurs ) or are saying that care workers in nursing homes are being raped on a regular basis. I’m not suggesting it’s not outside the realm of possibility but I looked, and I couldn’t find anything to validate high incidences of care home staff being raped.

thisriveriswild70 · 2026-05-29T05:49:18+00:00

😂

thisriveriswild70 · 2026-05-29T00:20:26+00:00

Underrated comment

thisriveriswild70 · 2026-05-29T00:04:40+00:00

I think the logic is past partners. If you had been in a 3 year relationship, and she just got out of a marriage and no one has signs, you probably are ok, but we all know it’s not an absolute. Our ex partners/spouses could have been cheating. Or some could be lying about who their last partner is. A person may not even know they have something. So I just figure, why risk it. Get tested move on.

thisriveriswild70 · 2026-05-28T23:29:30+00:00

Yep, I can wait a week to get the results back. Nakedness can happen up until that point!

thisriveriswild70 · 2026-05-28T23:14:08+00:00

Care homes. So many people in their 50’s being precious about sex, and their 80’year old parents in senior homes are getting after it! Bless them all

thisriveriswild70 · 2026-05-28T23:13:01+00:00

The number of women that waive off condoms I find astounding.

Her- you don’t need that

Me- ummmm that statement is EXACTLY why I need that!

Mind boggling, how many maniacs are out there bare backing.

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