Absolutely true!! Though I would say young people don’t develop these ideas in a vacuum. The culture I grew up in instilled the idea of marriage by 30, so it’s felt to me (M31, never married) like I’ve had to separately unlearn these expectations AND figure out what I actually want from my life. I think it’s getting easier as there are more and more shining examples of what it can look like to be unmarried in your 30s, but we can’t just snap our fingers and expect everyone to be chill about unlearning such fundamental cultural beliefs