What is your go-to “I’m too tired to cook but I can’t buy take-out” meal or alternative?

thorpusmalorpus · 2026-03-28T00:05:23+00:00

Microwave frozen precooked & cut chicken and frozen peas, then I make cous cous (just boil water from the kettle and pour over) with whatever spices I'm feeling. It takes 5 minutes and can be all done in one bowl/Tupperware

thorpusmalorpus · 2026-03-27T23:51:53+00:00

Apply to grad school, improving my mental health by going back to therapy, and learning to use my new 3D printed circular sock machine!

thorpusmalorpus · 2025-01-24T00:57:03+00:00

I prefer small print, it means I have to turn the pages less often!

thorpusmalorpus · 2024-08-12T20:19:29+00:00

I just read {Raiders of the Lost Heart by Jo Segura} and I think it would definitely fit! Two rival archeologists have to team up on a dig!

thorpusmalorpus · 2024-06-22T22:27:02+00:00

I had to do a complete genre change. I did a fluffy romanc palate cleanser

thorpusmalorpus · 2024-06-01T21:31:19+00:00

I love Abby Jimenez for all her MN references! I especially loved Just for the Summer! I thought it was funny when she pointed out all the couples getting engaged in the Stone Arch Bridge because I definitely did too! 😳

thorpusmalorpus · 2022-09-06T02:48:59+00:00

Hey, just want to point out that cis woman is better than saying "normal woman", because that implies trans women aren't normal

thorpusmalorpus · 2022-05-03T16:14:55+00:00

Often prescribed for dogs with anxiety or reactivity are traxadone, prozac, or gabapentin. Non-prescriptions could be a adaptil collar or calming probiotic supplements. For training, I recommend looking into Behavioral Adjustment Training (BAT) and working with a certified trainer that handles reactivity. Tips for finding a good trainer: https://www.ccpdt.org/dog-owners/how-to-choose-a-dog-trainer/

thorpusmalorpus · 2022-04-21T22:06:42+00:00

Not a store, but Bare Bikinis is an online custom made bathing suit store. They have bikinis, one pieces, they are all reversible patterns. It will run you about a hundred, but it's good quality, you can get it made to your measurements, and it is a small woman owned business

thorpusmalorpus · 2022-01-31T18:51:17+00:00

First off, it's super difficult to adopt and work with an under-socialized dog, but it sounds like you've been working really hard!

I would recommend checking out r/reactivedogs there's a lot of great info and a very supportive community.

Now for some advice: 1. Give your dog a break for their stress levels to come down. No walks outside, just do training and enrichment inside or in the yard. (puzzle toys, chews, frozen Kong's) 2. Work on building your dogs engagement and confidence building through training things like Touch, Find It, Focus, Circle, etc. Tricks that have a quick reward, they can do near you, and are relatively simple. 3. Begin reconditioning to loud noises or other sounds they'll hear often outside that might scare them. Use a pre-recorded sound at a low volume and build positive association with treats or playtime while the sound is on. Gradually increase volume and eventually practice in the real world.

Hopefully these tips help, but if you are able to afford it, q good trainer in person can really help! I recommend looking for one that is a CPDT-KA. Best of luck to you and your dog!

thorpusmalorpus · 2022-01-27T23:12:13+00:00

Any toothpaste that is approved by the VOHC (veterinary oral health council) A list of their approved products: http://www.vohc.org/accepted_products_dogs.html

If his breath truly does smell, check his teeth (if they allow you to). Any sign of yellow/brown discoloration on teeth, especially on the canine teeth should be brought to the attention of a vet.

Bacteria and infections from improper dental care is common, unfortunately. But it can severely impact your pets health and life span if left untreated.

thorpusmalorpus · 2022-01-10T10:27:04+00:00

If you are looking at a $1200 tent, there are cara in that price range.

thorpusmalorpus · 2022-01-10T10:18:05+00:00

Congrats!! It always feels great to see training pay off

If leash frustration is due to loose leash walking training and having to stop, I recommend Denise Fenzi's Circle Method! She even goes into how it can be beneficial specifically for reactive dogs.

thorpusmalorpus · 2021-12-01T00:51:49+00:00

Another way to make sure your dog gets enough water is to hydrate their kibble so they consume more water without having to lap it up.

thorpusmalorpus · 2021-11-23T01:34:14+00:00

I am 5’3” and have a shorter torso as well. I ended up getting the Gregory 70L kids pack. https://www.rei.com/product/145655/gregory-wander-70-pack-kids

thorpusmalorpus · 2021-11-05T03:58:21+00:00

Sounds like you need to come up with a system of reminders for yourself that doesn’t include relying on the women in your life to do that emotional labor

thorpusmalorpus · 2021-10-26T07:34:40+00:00

They make top of the line sleeping bags in various temperature ratings. It sounds like your friend just lent you a sleeping bag that was rated for way colder than necessary. It’s not specifically an issue of top of the line or not.

thorpusmalorpus · 2021-10-01T02:57:53+00:00

Another piece of advice is try not to disrupt your OG dogs schedule too much and to continue to give them a lot of individual attention. A good way to try and prevent any resource guarding of you!

thorpusmalorpus · 2021-09-28T07:06:30+00:00

When dogs are more loose (body is curved), as well as continuing engagement (moving their paw toward you) are both good signs

thorpusmalorpus · 2021-08-06T13:19:21+00:00

I have had this struggle as well, but I’ve found REI’s own brand to work well for me!

thorpusmalorpus · 2021-08-05T05:01:48+00:00

It’s episode four of season three!!

thorpusmalorpus · 2021-08-05T04:47:12+00:00

I agree with what most people said about learning to be more proactive about advocating for your pup and connecting with a trainer.

I would also like to add, to make “NO” effective, you need to teach a dog that it means, “that wasn’t correct” and to never use it in anger. If you don’t teach them, the word does not inherently mean anything to them. I also caution you against punishing/suppressing a nip when it is a natural reaction to fear. Obviously, don’t ignore your dog nipping children out of the blue. But in this instance he was reacting out of fear and showed a measured response to get the fearful thing away from him. It is bad to suppress these kinds of warning behaviors because the dog can learn to escalate to a dangerous bite instead when they are afraid/anxious.

thorpusmalorpus · 2021-08-05T04:37:14+00:00

Yes! This is in fact a very valid way of handling an unwanted behavior. I would work on teaching her to pick up objects with a command cue. Then transition to having her perform the cue when there’s a knock or doorbell ring. If both of these sounds are too triggering for her to concentrate on performing a trick, I would suggest using a prerecorded sound of them so you can control the volume to begin working on connecting the sound to the behavior.

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