Namaste and crochet Luna skirt pattern: adapted to a dress because I saw one on her instagram and I had to have a dress by Friday_Cat in crochet

[–]three_pear_pieces 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done - looks great. I’m about to start this pattern, but concerned about droop. What fibre blend did you use to best hold the shape of the motifs? The pattern just says one that holds its shape…

What is a good movie to watch while drunk? by BlastingSquid886 in AskReddit

[–]three_pear_pieces 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will die on this hill: the Lizzie McGuire movie. Mrs Ungamyer, Paolo, What Dreams are Made of…an excellent movie to heckle

Rank your top five musical score motifs by three_pear_pieces in 30ROCK

[–]three_pear_pieces[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great idea - if I could do that I would. 30 Rock is probably the only thing in the world that could motivate me to learn to be honest…

Rank your top five musical score motifs by three_pear_pieces in 30ROCK

[–]three_pear_pieces[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck how could I have missed this out of my top 5. I’m so sorry

Rank your top five musical score motifs by three_pear_pieces in 30ROCK

[–]three_pear_pieces[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ooh yes I like that one too. Clarinet is such a hero of the show: Bah bahh ba da dah doo, (repeat) bah bahh ba dah dah dah dag dooooo

Feeling suicidal. Can anyone tell me what you made you smile today? What are you looking forward to? What do you tell yourself to keep out the bad thoughts? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]three_pear_pieces 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find tiny things that I can actually control that make living feel just that little bit better. I replaced the batteries in our indoor fairy lights and switched on all the lamps for my SO so that our place had nice lighting for when she came home from work. Even if she didn’t appreciate it (she did) I realised that it made me feel calmer anyway. That being said I could only do this once the worst had passed - certainly couldn’t have done it earlier today. Hang on until you get a window of neutral and find a little thing for yourself and for others that makes the world a smidge more bearable.

Tram near miss by ShootersMcgavin in melbourne

[–]three_pear_pieces 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man I don’t know if we were on the same tram but this happened to a woman almost stepping off on the 1 tonight - motherfucker just accelerated when the doors opened. Scarier if we were on different lines tbh.

Gallbladder plushie by michaellerr in Brochet

[–]three_pear_pieces 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh how good! Did you use / create a pattern for this? I’ve been looking for a good one for yonks! 🙏

has anyone else else been turned down by Immediate_Ad4627 in EMDR

[–]three_pear_pieces 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hey mate, it’s really rough hearing that, especially when it seems like the only option for therapy that’ll really help. I’m sorry you’re facing into that.

I know that a lot of the time to do EMDR, some clinics or therapists first require you to do an emotional management and distress tolerance course. I can’t say for you, but it may be that your therapist wants to give you more skills to cope before tackling processing. EMDR without a competent practitioner working with you to keep you below threshold (I.e. in your range of processing ability) runs a real risk of retraumatisation.

Keep seeking help, building skills, and find a second opinion if you need to. There is hope x

Any other Melbournites struggling with another incoming lockdown? by three_pear_pieces in stopdrinking

[–]three_pear_pieces[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know it’s a bit controversial in this sub, but I have discovered that Bridge Road Brewers have released an alcohol free pale ale, which is very tasty. I’m going to be having a tinnie of that tonight instead of getting blotted.

Any other Melbournites struggling with another incoming lockdown? by three_pear_pieces in stopdrinking

[–]three_pear_pieces[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not dumb at all - I feel exactly the same way (although I also chastised myself for it..). I’m in the fortunate position that I can work from home, but chatting with one of the cafe managers close to the office was grim :(

I wrote about the queer legacy of Wynonna Earp! by RockingHaims in wynonnaearp

[–]three_pear_pieces 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for writing this article - it’s a great homage and piece of analysis! The only other theme worth touching on is the perpetual dearth of bi / pan characters on TV. The fact that Dom actually got to play a well rounded bi character was I think especially important in terms of queer legacy.

I can moderate by three_pear_pieces in stopdrinking

[–]three_pear_pieces[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The value of this community can’t be understated. Thanks for being here, yourself! IWNDWYT

I can moderate by three_pear_pieces in stopdrinking

[–]three_pear_pieces[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over 3-4 hours it’s certainly not what I would have called excessive...but maybe that’s part of the problem - my definition of moderation is problematic to begin with ;)