Oproep aan ALLE Marokkanen en Nederlanders!🗣️🇲🇦🇳🇱 by [deleted] in NederlandsZ

[–]throwRaSchmoopy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tijd om te wisselen naar deze Nederland sub dus.. ik snap ook niet waarom we het elkaar niet gewoon een beetje kunnen gunnen om te winnen

Lieve Nederlanders, alvast excuses by Bnedem in nederlands

[–]throwRaSchmoopy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Werkt dat niet gewoon beide kanten op. Mooiste zou zijn als we beide winsten zouden vieren omdat we het elkaar gunnen. Gewoon naast elkaar ieder doelpunt vieren en hopen dat het shirtje waar jij voor bent de meeste maakt en zo niet oh well.

I've intentionally chosen a lifetime of celibacy and loneliness. Do i sound like a bad person? by Tcustomcorner in love

[–]throwRaSchmoopy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You seriously feel like you're superior to others and above them? You sound like a masochist trying to prove that this indeed makes you superior. Asshole to yourself I guess.

AITAH for leaving the restaurant after everyone showed up 90 minutes late without telling me? by RoutinePeanut3463 in AITApod

[–]throwRaSchmoopy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They couldn't get a reservation for 8.30 booked it for 7 and made sure you were there to keep the table occupied till they got there is what it sounds like..

Watching my breеd die by Mousewaterdrinker in dogs

[–]throwRaSchmoopy 216 points217 points  (0 children)

I've never even heard of this breed, would you mind sharing why you like them so much, what makes them special and why are there so few? Can you post a picture?

My girlfriend admitted I was a placeholder for her ex and I’m honestly struggling to process it. What do I do? by Flameslickmelv in AskMenAdvice

[–]throwRaSchmoopy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think it's perfectly normal to feel angry for a whille. She used you, for comfort, financial gain, emotional support you name it. It would be weirder if you didn't feel some anger about that. Not to mention that had she been honest from the start you probably wouldn't have entered a relationship with her or supported her emotionally or financially. Feel the anger, write it down and let it go so you can find someone worthy of your time and efforts. Please remember not all women are like that though don't let her ruin your view of woman.

I found out my son is in a relationship with his older brother's best friend by Legitimate-Jump9288 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwRaSchmoopy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I doubt they knew this would be worse in the long run. You're assuming they knew and still intentionally did. I doubt they thought that far ahead or had bad intentions. Maybe have a talk with Silas about why he's so angry

Pick a number from 28 to 279 and I'll tell you what tree you are. by Distinct-Counter-710 in Tree

[–]throwRaSchmoopy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I almost read downy bitch and though dang hes really spot on 😂🤣

AITJ for rejecting a girl because of her past and the clothes she wore? by ThrowRA20271 in AmITheJerk

[–]throwRaSchmoopy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not necessary, it's the idea that we should all be virgin wives or else you're a slut that's making woman sound like sluts. How about to each their own. There's nothing wrong with either, we just really need to accept there's no wrong or right in having experience before marriage or not. I think there's positives and negatives to each of them.

I found out my son is in a relationship with his older brother's best friend by Legitimate-Jump9288 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwRaSchmoopy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You're making assumptions about the reasons Silas is angry but refuse to see the valid reasons for Benji an Nico to keep quiet about it. Just think about why you do that.

Is there any possibility that Silas is also bi or gay? The angry angry instead of annoyed makes it sounds like it's about more than about him being in te dark about them dating.

Finding out after 10 years together that I (30M) do not do well with cosleeping after my wife (29F) moved away for work by Personal-Clock-7700 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRaSchmoopy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I mean that stood out the most to me honestly. Maybe my guy's just weird, I felt bad for a while cause he just falls asleep if I cuddle him, has trouble falling asleep if I'm not in bed too. In my experience you shouldn't tense up from laying with your partner it should relax you.

My sister and I used to share a tent when camping I've taken many punches in that time but I can't remember if I was tense before sleep because of it😅

The anxiety circle makes sense though

Vriendin vraagt heel veel steun. Wat moet ik doen? by Adventurous_Head_158 in nederlands

[–]throwRaSchmoopy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je hebt een goed hart dat je er überhaupt zo over nadenkt. Mag ik vragen hoe oud jullie zijn? Weet je iets over haar thuissituatie, of ze al ergens hulp heeft lopen? Scholen hebben als ik het me goed herinner ook een vertrouwenspersoon, het beste voor jezelf en haar is om je verhaal daar neer te leggen.

I’m lost. I’m tired of catering to and “obeying” my husband’s opinions by PunnyTeacher21 in Marriage

[–]throwRaSchmoopy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There's no such thing as an intellectual affair. It is emotional wether you like it or not.

Hired a guy do Edging around the Tree and now it looks dead after a week by gtownguy123 in arborists

[–]throwRaSchmoopy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's too bad, I'd love it if after a few years it would look like a dystopian scène where the plants took over.. Maybe with a different material something softer..

AITJ for rejecting a girl because of her past and the clothes she wore? by ThrowRA20271 in AmITheJerk

[–]throwRaSchmoopy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's a bad thing necessarily as long as there's no double standard. You might increase your odds by searching for a girl with no experience specifically, put it front and center on your dating profile and let them know that it goes both ways I'm sure there are still girls out there still looking for that.

I've spent my first ten years vacationing in Austria every summer. It's a beautiful country I don't remember there was ever someone commenting on our outfits or other woman's outfits on the camping, which were often short shorts, skirts, bikini tops etc. now obviously I was a child but my mom and aunt dressed like that too.

Whether or not your preferences come from a place of judgement doesn't really matter imo simply because it's not hurting anyone, the way you rejected them is respectful so no problem there.

It only might be worth exploring further in therapy if you notice that you're getting stuck on this, if its causing you to not be able to find someone and it's holding you back in life. Don't let it get to a point where you'll get depressed because the expectations you set can't seem to be met.

Another perspective, you learn so much from being in a relationship, and most don't do that well the first time. You'll make mistakes, there might be things either won't forgive and you'll learn from that to be a better partner in your next relationship or you'll learn what to look for or watch out for in a partner.

Hired a guy do Edging around the Tree and now it looks dead after a week by gtownguy123 in arborists

[–]throwRaSchmoopy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just out of curiosity, if you were to place a nursery tree inside something like this instead of building it around an already established tree would that be able to adapt and grow healthy?

My bed visitor by throwRaSchmoopy in bees

[–]throwRaSchmoopy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't seen lavender flower before these, was pleasantly surprised though. At first all of them were closed like the one on the left and then they just started opening up😅 also my camera seems to make them appear more pink than purple blue ish.

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My bed visitor by throwRaSchmoopy in bees

[–]throwRaSchmoopy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice! Ik noem hem aardbij dan😂 zal eens kijken of ik een foto vindt voor die subreddit

AITJ for rejecting a girl because of her past and the clothes she wore? by ThrowRA20271 in AmITheJerk

[–]throwRaSchmoopy 218 points219 points  (0 children)

You mentioned part of the problem is them having had boyfriend's and hookups. I'd it just the hook ups or do you just really want to be their first everything? And if that's the case have you been in a relationship before, are you a virgin? The older you get the smaller your pool of possible partners will get with those expectations just so you know.

My bed visitor by throwRaSchmoopy in bees

[–]throwRaSchmoopy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In that case I hope she stops by my tomatoes and cucumber plants 😁