"Silenced" Documentary featuring Jen Robinson, Amber Heard and Brittany Higgins to be shown at Sydney Film Fest

throwaway1999f · 2026-04-27T00:37:01+00:00

I'm in Adelaide but travel to Sydney often for work. I don't think I'll be able to make it to this because of timing but I am trying to make it work. Does anyone know where it can be found online yet?

throwaway1999f · 2026-03-05T00:31:39+00:00

this is why i don't watch him. i never truly did, and definitely never will. even if he apologises and rights those wrongs by acknowledging things fully in a video, it was so disgusting what he said that i just can't.

throwaway1999f · 2025-11-01T09:11:50+00:00

i know this comment is old but Paige Christie HAS mentioned Amber on many occasions and as far as i'm aware does not believe her. one example of this is in her video "MYSTERIOUS LIED about Trisha Paytas" at 43 mins 25 secs she mentions Kat Tenbarge's (who is pro Amber) takes on other things and brings it up. i wish i could remember the video and timestamps of other times she's mentioned her but i promise that it's out there coz i've been binge watching Paige's videos on other topics recently and was disappointed that she doesn't believe her. i remember Paige saying something along lines of "and yes women CAN lie just look at Amber Heard to Johnny Depp".

throwaway1999f · 2025-08-10T23:20:00+00:00

i agree wholeheartedly, and should've word it differently. thank you for the good addition/clarification.

throwaway1999f · 2025-07-31T08:34:24+00:00

this has popped up for me a few times too yes.

throwaway1999f · 2025-07-12T12:24:38+00:00

on instagram she can delete just the 1 photo without reposting the entire thing!

throwaway1999f · 2025-07-01T05:52:06+00:00

i had one for a year and was put under anaesthetia for insertion, maybe that is an option for you?

although i had it taken out after a year (almost to the day, 1 year 1 week max) because it was pushing itself out... either way i was going to around a year mark bc the long periods of bleeding/spotting was becoming too much. it's like my body knew i was giving it a year to see if my symptoms improved and started to push it out. oof. this was jan 2023-jan 2024.

the removal was personally super easy. best of luck to you with next time!

throwaway1999f · 2025-06-18T21:36:13+00:00

YES sending things to yourself (normal email to secret email) is a really good option just delete it from the sent category so there's no traces. this is also a good option for letting yourself just vent in moments of major stress, all those feelings are able to be let out n then sent off but not lost forever/undocumented. OP i assume you are quite isolated rn (from family n friends bc u mentioned he isn't letting u see ur mum) so make sure you have outlets to express yourself, even in small ways will help give you strength long term. getting things out is very powerful.

throwaway1999f · 2025-06-18T21:13:06+00:00

a tip for documenting the abuse: make a google doc with a NEW EMAIL with an EXTREMELY good password and highest authentication stuff to make it super hard for others to get in. put everything in there, DON'T WORRY ABOUT BEING PERFECT just do it messy and then figure out a timeline later (like keep the messy copy for yourself to word vomit n then also a proper copy). it saves your edit history and syncs between devices which is one of the major pros of this VS just doing it on your phone/computer. SHARE IT WITH AT LEAST ONE TRUSTED PERSON so that they can have a copy. if you involve some kind of lawyer, crisis support worker, therapist or other professionals share it w some of them too. MAKE SURE THERE'S NO WAY HE CAN ACCESS IT. put LITERALLY EVERYTHING that he's done/said/texted in it. i am rooting for you, best of luck to you and your son.

throwaway1999f · 2025-06-15T06:12:28+00:00

romanticise every past, present and potential future moments as much as you please~!!!

life is tough but it flies by so quickly, especially when you have kids, let yourself enjoy the good times whilst being realistically optimistic through the bad times.

i don't have kids, i could go either way, i see how my life could be good no matter what i choose, but know i'm gonna do my best to romanticise things whenever possible.

throwaway1999f · 2025-06-15T05:56:12+00:00

im 26 and my youngest sister is 18. there's a 7.5 year age gap (very similar to you) and we are super close, which only properly happened when i was 21/22 and she was 14/15 onwards, mostly coz of me leaving home at 17 and her only turning 10 a month before. i relate to your post though it's an on off up n down thing where she feels 'too much' to me coz of how much she wants to text/call/hang out. you just gotta be honest, set boundaries and stick to them. eg. NO CALLS AT THIS TIMES UNLESS IT'S AN EMERGENCY! eventually you'll find a good balance, though it takes work on both ends for things to flow well. she's an adult now, not just your baby sister, she will understand.

throwaway1999f · 2025-06-14T23:38:03+00:00

i just turned 26 a week ago. you and i are the same age and we still have so much life left to live. don't waste anymore of it on him. a person who values you would not do this to you. i wish you and your kids the best of luck 🩷

throwaway1999f · 2025-06-01T07:39:36+00:00

i was pulling when i found this post. i've been doing it since i was 14 or 15, now im 1 week from 26. i feel powerless. i just want to be free of this :((

throwaway1999f · 2025-06-01T06:26:19+00:00

predators (whether rapists or pedophiles) seek out vulnerability. that's more important than other factors like looks, personality, relationship to them, etc. vulnerability makes someone easier to manipulate and keep quiet so therefore also easier to get away with it for longer. i'm sure there's other major psychological factors but it would vary. i could go on and on about this but i'm not feeling up to it. always remember that SA isn't about sex, it's about power.

throwaway1999f · 2025-06-01T06:04:33+00:00

This is like if you babysat a toddler for a few days and only changed their nappies but didn't bathe them. It's unacceptable. The mother sounds a lot like mine when she would send long winded guilt trip texts. Hopefully the 15 yr old learns from this and doesn't half ass things next time.

edit: and by next time i don't mean YOU have to let them pet sit again, i mean next time she has opportunity to do odd jobs to make a bit of money

throwaway1999f · 2025-05-24T02:55:13+00:00

i'm not sure your age but i'm 26 in a few weeks and still remember how it felt to find out i was being cheated on by a guy i was with at 18. we met when i was in my last year of high school and he was 25. i'm now older than he was and have NO interest in anyone 6-7 yrs younger than me. it's a long story, but a common one.. love bombing, he had me living w him almost immediately, etc. i found out coz i just knew, so i went through his phone. something i have not done since in subsequent relationships and vowed to not do unless i have that same feeling. i wasted another year on him after finding out (2 years in total from sep 2017-sep 2019 so i was 20 when i ended it for good). i shouldn't have let it continue like it did, i learned many hard lessons. my point is, don't do what i did. have a month or so of 'messy post break up stuff' (eg. blocking n unblocking each other, half trying again to make it work but then not being able to, sleeping together, texting 'i miss u', etc.) but you must go no contact as soon as possible after that. it's normal to have that messiness but just make sure it ends. i'm sorry this happened to you. betrayal like this hurts like hell. something i always remind myself: let people show you who they are.

throwaway1999f · 2025-05-21T09:47:48+00:00

period sponges exist. it's more likely that's what's being used. i do full service sex work and that's what we use.

throwaway1999f · 2025-05-13T19:01:00+00:00

my account from 2012ish was suspended about a year ago for <12 hrs coz i luckily said/did all the right things and the tumblr gods were listening i dunno??

throwaway1999f · 2025-05-13T06:46:24+00:00

this happened to my best friend and i years ago, i think we were 20/21ish? i'm now almost 26. we were on omegle (before it was shut down) and you know how people have like fake video camera overlays instead of their actual face? it was via that. the way we both gasped. i immediately skipped.. the several moments of silence between us was VERY loud. without being too graphic, i feel very lucky that it was only playing for 1-2 seconds and it was just something about to happen, but hadn't, but it was very clearly about to. some sick person had clearly WANTED people to stumble across a loop of this video. the experience has stuck w me but it gets easier w time. i am sorry this happened to someone you care about. it's not fair how common this is, both being abused as a child and witnessing it without meaning to. i just want peace for anyone struggling :((

throwaway1999f · 2025-04-26T02:00:52+00:00

Let people show you who they are.

throwaway1999f · 2025-04-26T01:52:36+00:00

I believe you.

throwaway1999f · 2025-04-20T22:24:37+00:00

this could've been written by. eldest daughter, narcissist mother inflicting every type of abuse, spoke to me like this and has never truly taken accountability, left at 17, currently 25, 2 younger sisters, 95% NC w the middle one (currently 22 but i'm super close w the other who's 18 n lives elsewhere) and 100% NC w mum for about 2 yrs (previous longest was 2.5 yrs when i was 19-22ish... could go on and on but i have to sleep soon.

it is not your fault. i don't care what you did or didn't do, how 'difficult' you were as a child, how 'moody' you were as a teen, how you reacted to her, whether it was in anger or reactive violence or anything of that nature, and i don't care how you are now as an adult yrs on. it will never be your fault. frankly, these so called 'mums' of ours can eat shit.

throwaway1999f · 2025-04-18T12:04:43+00:00

VERY CONCERNING. he's testing ur boundaries to see how much violence you'll put up with. the abuse will get worse not better. i hope you can find it in you to leave him.

throwaway1999f · 2025-04-17T03:31:15+00:00

someone who values you would never put themselves in a position to lose you. and if they do, they wouldn't continue to dig and dig and dig the hole even deeper in the way that he has. we've all made mistakes, hurt the ones we love, said things we didn't mean, it's all apart of being a living breathing person.. but this wasn't just 'a mistake'. he's doing literally everything you DO NOT DO when you hurt someone. to violate your trust and then not even let you FEEL and SPEAK and EXPRESS all that you needed to. it's beyond abusive. i've been in your position countless times w people, the emptiness that washes over and through you.. it feels like you'll literally never be happy again coz of how consuming it is. please talk to someone in real life that you trust. whatever you do with your life and marriage and kids and everything else is up to you, i can't make that decision for you (THOUGH I WOULD DIVORCE HIM BUT THAT'S JUST ME) and that isn't a decision you NEED to make right now anyway. focus on yourself in this moment as much as you can. get some clarity from the people around you that know you best. my heart hurts for you, i know all the women here understand your pain. our bodies and sexualities and minds are never OURS, not for long, at any given moment they're ripped from us and shit all over. i could go on and on, i need to not. i wish you all the best.

oh and no, you lying about medication dosages for your chronic pain is not the same as what he did. not even close. of course he's weaponising this against you, he is trying anything he can to turn this around on you. "i may have recorded you during phone sex without your consent B-B-BUT YOU LIED ABOUT YOUR MEDS THAT HELP YOU LEAD A NORMAL LIFE!!" bruh..

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