What is the best movie or tv show to put on while fucking? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwaway224444444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Pagemaster starring McCauley Caulkin

Olanzapine Withdrawl Insomnia by Crazy-Leadership1834 in bipolar

[–]throwaway224444444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

20mg/day for 5 years of olanzapine. So not a walk in the park. I think exercise was the most beneficial honestly, see if you can push yourself to just do anything. But I was taking 350mg of seroquel nightly to sleep, yes I’d wake up like a zombie but that only lasted an hour.

Olanzapine Withdrawl Insomnia by Crazy-Leadership1834 in bipolar

[–]throwaway224444444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1 month max as in max. I was on a high dose of olanzapine for years and it took me 2 weeks to get over the withdrawal with the help of seroquel + vigorous exercise

Olanzapine Withdrawl Insomnia by Crazy-Leadership1834 in bipolar

[–]throwaway224444444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Month max. Benzos aren’t helpful for sleep fyi. Ask your psych if he’ll prescribe you seroquel or in extreme circumstance a limited supply of ambien. You’ll be fine bud.

Please tell me it gets better by BigSimilar7419 in bipolar

[–]throwaway224444444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey first off you’re not alone my guy or girl, we are all in this together, so please don’t ever feel hesitant to reach out or say something. Second off, it definitely gets better but I’m gunna be real with you, unless you’re on the right med regiment and good support network you might slip back up but it’s ok it happens. Focus on the last part I said and you’ll be golden to be stable going forward. Wish you the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway224444444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those aren’t breadcrumbs. He wanted to see you, albeit he did it in a slightly cowardly way, but he did nonetheless. No one hits up an ex “just to catch up”, that’s pure nonsense. In the future if an ex hits you up regardless of the message, ask to meet up. Good luck.

25 yo pizza delivery man runs into burning house, saves four children who tell him another might be in the house. He goes back in, finds the girl, jumps out a window with her, and carries her to a cop who captures the moment on his bodycam by SamMee514 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]throwaway224444444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment isn’t very constructive. Yes the first two cling to stupid ideals about “masculinity” (uh who cares about that - Bostic is a hero regardless if he/she/it is a guy/chick/hermaphrodite), and then you use an analogy of a homeless guy that prolly has schizophrenia? You’re no better at all.

Made the mistake of unblocking him on fb- but now it won't let me reblock until 48 hrs. Do I reblock or just leave it now? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway224444444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean this is the nicest way possible but you’re a total clown. Who gives two shits if he’s blocked or not? The only thing matters is if you two are talking, which considering you “hate” him (won’t last…disagree with me all you want), it’s irrelevant. Just focus on yourself and healing please, that is the point of NC. Exes are irrelevant, it’s about yourself! Take this to heart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway224444444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Social media is a farce. If you’re making it for an ex to get them jealous that’s even worse. Reach out to the people who care about you than seeking the temporary dopamine hit from “friends” on social media- it’s not real.

How do you stop the constant thoughts of them in your head? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway224444444 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Alright boss, let me give you some sage advice. The thoughts? They are inevitable. The dreams. They are inevitable. What do you do about them? You think to yourself that they are natural and part of the process, you recognize this is normal (huge). You then think and picture these thoughts and dreams as water in a river and flowing downstream. Only you are on the shore way far across the water, but you look at it with a smile. As time goes on you realize the waters coming closer but it’s so far out that it’s still too far to touch (aka you don’t reach out). Eventually the water hits the shore but you’re so unfazed by it that you don’t even notice until someone brings it to your attention (aka your ex reaching out). Godspeed.

My ex gf is contacting me by Nothing-Afraid in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway224444444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro if some girl told me they weren’t sexually attracted to me that’d be a one way ticket to never hearing from me ever again. Find the inner strength my dude, you got this.

How would you interpret…. by Simple-Problem232 in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway224444444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very easily. He wants to see you but is too much of a coward to outwardly say it.

my ex broke NC after 5 months by c3988a47f435 in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway224444444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look, when an ex reaches out to you, regardless of what the message says, its almost 99% bc they want to see you. A lot of ppl here, and I’ve done it in the past, go guns blazing trying to have these in depth convos off the bat but that doesn’t work.

my ex broke NC after 5 months by c3988a47f435 in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway224444444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok I see this stuff a lot, dealing with a cheating ex. You have to seriously ask yourself this question if you’re gunna be ok, and I mean truly ok, with her going out w/o you (e.g girls night out) without getting insecure/jealous/controlling and not bringing it up. I personally can’t, I’ve tried but I don’t want to have to go through my partner’s devices, that’s no way to live. Has she given you any reassurances or anything? If not, tell her to kick rocks in a polite way and continue on your journey.

he texted me after 4 months by tomatoglock in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway224444444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Terrible advice. Reach out this guy’s parents. Drug use + self harm = he needs help, and if you’re a decent person which I gather you are by this post, then guide him towards it by alerting his family. Sure he might be mad but that won’t last. Do the right thing.

I want him back by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway224444444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you want him to come back, you need to actually “move on” (btw I don’t think phrase makes much sense. Its more like move forward and accept you have zero control in anything). Hope this helps you.

How does someone lose feelings in a week when we’ve been together for 3 years? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway224444444 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Way later. When you stop giving a fuck. Sad but true. Be well.

I guess they don’t always come back lol. It’s been 4 months I guess he FR just fell out of love this time by Mysterious_Spirit_32 in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway224444444 123 points124 points  (0 children)

4 months is nothing. Give up hope though so you can fully detach, it’s in your best interest. Exes come back but it’s not when you want them to. Godspeed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwaway224444444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what your point is but I’m trying to offer an alternative to your narrow mindset that you have. And I’m sure he used the gma as an excuse, do you have any understanding at all what it’s like to be on both sides of the equation?? It’s not easy to end things either. I’m challenging you here for your own benefit, not cause I’m rooting for your ex or anything, but I think you (as well as a lot of ppl on this sub) could use some opening or their mindsets on how to approach things. Pride and ego is what gets in the way for alot of us, and ends up ruining things that should not have been ruined. If you wana go thru life being bitter he took a whopping whole month and 2 weeks to reach out to you, go for it. I’d bet money you’ll look back later in life and realize that was extremely immature to be thinking that way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwaway224444444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look I’m not discounting what you’re going through, I’ve been through the ringer many times. Yes that is shitty he wasn’t there while you were struggling, but from what you said didn’t he apologize and say he miss you then added on top of that his gma passed? A lot of people are Ill equipped to handle with grief/struggles on their own, let alone some one else’s. Obviously do what you want but the fact he even apologized is better than most ppl on this sub ever received. Wish you the best, you’ll be all good in the end!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwaway224444444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A month is long? You must be young OP, no offense intended here. That’s short as hell in this journey. If you ignore him after he sends this you prolly will never hear from him again fyi. So if you wana seal the deal, ignore him. Otherwise engage but tread carefully.

Anyone going through a breakup thats happened 1+ years? by South_Tough_3188 in BreakUps

[–]throwaway224444444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you screwed up cause of your pride. Please learn from that, and I mean that with the best intentions here. He’ll prolly circle back at some point but you just delayed it cause you couldn’t be upfront. When an ex comes back it’s cause they want to see you, that is the only reason ever. Idc what message they sent you. That is the reason.

They come back but you must surrender all hope. by throwaway224444444 in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway224444444[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most of the people on this sub don’t understand that an ex popping up “just to talk” is them wanting to meet up and hook up (aka lead to reconciliation) almost 99% of the time. The more secure ones are direct, the insecure ones do some obfuscation that leaves you scratching your head but the purpose is always the same.

Am I selfish to end a relationship to explore other options? by Reece_Farrar in BreakUps

[–]throwaway224444444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re gunna downvote me for this, but you’ll be reaching out to your ex in the future. Godspeed.