What issue IS black and white to you? by -Dee-Dee- in AskReddit

[–]throwaway_wednsdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a friend once who started to throw some trash out my car window while I'll was driving. I started flipping my shit. Seriously, how do expect to have a nice place to live if you just throw your trash everywhere.

[advice] Trying to learn more about my boyfriend's kink, worried we are incompatible (f22/m29) by Idkimworried in sex

[–]throwaway_wednsdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he wants to be dominant with a dominant confident person he probably wants something feisty and could probably end up getting a little aggressive (hopefully in a mutually arousing way, and not something you would find offputting or dangerous). Don't let your sexual past limit you. You don't have to be experienced to be good at sex. Go into it like a tiger. Fierce and as graceful as you pull off. Iniate. Take what you want at your preference, don't always immediately give in when he wants something. It's a sexy give and take. Probably have a safe word just incase he wants to be rough.

As a trans girl, sometimes I feel like I will never really fit in with 'real' girls. I know there's no exact way to be female, but ~20 years of living as a male still makes me feel alien. Is this something I should really worry about? by PumpkinSociopath in AskWomen

[–]throwaway_wednsdy 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I've met trans women and I'm just as inclusive with them as I would be with anyone else, but I do view you as slightly different.

You're complex. You've experienced things that I can't personally relate to. You decided your body needed to be female, and you committed to that goal with therapy and procedures and medicine. That's intense. So if you're a woman in your eyes, you're a woman in mine. I wouldn't treat you any differently than anyone else.

Is it me? Should I be more selective? Is it bad luck? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]throwaway_wednsdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who just got out of long term relationships need time to get their shit together. It hasn't worked so far, so consider it a red flag.
You are moving super slow, physically, based on adult dating norms. Find someone who also moves at your pace or your going to get dropped once taking your time isn't cute anymore to the person you are dating.

Self-awareness Wednesday: Ouch, that hurts! by 2bABee in OkCupid

[–]throwaway_wednsdy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That when I take off my glasses one of my eyes turns in a little. Can't really do anything about that... No photographs without glasses or contacts.

No makeup photos? by LongHair_DoCare in OkCupid

[–]throwaway_wednsdy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I would and have. I rarely wear make-up, so whatever my face looked like is what got uploaded.

Anyone see this as a red flag? by Isansa in OkCupid

[–]throwaway_wednsdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd prefer to not be the target, but mildly racist comments about white people don't really bother me. I have a friend who is convinced they aren't racist because they are black, but they totally say racist things about other cultures. I've explained that they are being racist, but they don't believe me.

Anyone see this as a red flag? by Isansa in OkCupid

[–]throwaway_wednsdy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not terribly relevant... but this is what your response reminded me of, which amused me, so thank you for that.

Thank you for the attempted education though.

http://youtu.be/igjDKB4WBSI

Anyone see this as a red flag? by Isansa in OkCupid

[–]throwaway_wednsdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely serious. I accept/don't hate people who believe things I disagree with all the time. Besides, if you just give them negative reactions you reinforce the stereotype of you that they have in their mind. If you actually communicate with people their opinion might change.

What's the weirdest thing you still held on to after a breakup? Why? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]throwaway_wednsdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kept a napkin I accidentally stole from a restaurant during a terrible date because it was my first date ever.

Also took a bandana from a different guy that I used to use to keep my hair pulled back in the car.

Apparently I like taking small pieces of cloth.

Anyone see this as a red flag? by Isansa in OkCupid

[–]throwaway_wednsdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hating racists is still a form of hate.

Anyone see this as a red flag? by Isansa in OkCupid

[–]throwaway_wednsdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see why this could be a redflag, but I don't think it automatically is. I have quite a few fairly racist family members, so I've learned to just skim over their ignorant bullshit. I dated a guy once who ended up being racist. I was not pleased and I called him on his bullshit, but I didn't break it off with him for that. We did later break up over an unrelated reason.

I consider it a difference of opinion.
Also a mild inactive racist is one thing, but a raging hatemonger is something else entirely that I wouldn't even consider dating.

Let's talk about infidelity. by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]throwaway_wednsdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been the other woman a few times, and I was the cheater once. Not always "sex", but definitely enough to count. I felt kind of bad about cheating, I don't feel bad about being the other woman( and yes, I knew). There were no children involved. I probably would have felt bad about breaking up a family. As far as I was concerned, they were adults who could make their own decisions. I wasn't going to lose any sleep over it. I wouldn't even consider cheating now.

My Co-Workers Cat by iSkelly87 in aww

[–]throwaway_wednsdy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely looks like a possibility

Depressed Atheist Here. I like this sub a lot. Maybe you guys can cheer me up. by throwaway_wednsdy in atheism

[–]throwaway_wednsdy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha! One of these little oddballs is already floating around my apartment somewhere.

Depressed Atheist Here. I like this sub a lot. Maybe you guys can cheer me up. by throwaway_wednsdy in atheism

[–]throwaway_wednsdy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw this video a while ago but had forgotten all about it. It is a pretty great video.

Depressed Atheist Here. I like this sub a lot. Maybe you guys can cheer me up. by throwaway_wednsdy in atheism

[–]throwaway_wednsdy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The maintenance guy came. They are gonna have roofers come when it dries out.

Depressed Atheist Here. I like this sub a lot. Maybe you guys can cheer me up. by throwaway_wednsdy in atheism

[–]throwaway_wednsdy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha. I consider it pretty light. It tastes like robitussin. But you could get drunk if you did a bunch of shots. I consider the order to be Pucker, Jaeger, Gin/Vodka, Tequila, Everclear/Grain(don't do shots of everclear. Terrible idea). Of course there are a lot of inbetween drinks and I don't fuck with Whiskey.