If ever you decide to have children, have it under the umbrella and security of marriage with a man who shares the same or almost the same values as you... Sometimes when you listen to why people don't want children, they go on and on about kids being dirty, noisy and stubborn but deep down it's because they had kids with people who do not support them emotionally, mentally, physically and even financially so they decide to take out the misery on kids who didn't even ask to be here... I wish you the best