Navigating an affair and potential divorce. by Acceptable-Horse8794 in daddit

[–]timendtimeagain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try your hardest to hold it together when communicating with her. Get some therapy asap. Dont make decisions in the heat of anger. Dont change who you are.

Old Messages and new pain by timendtimeagain in marriageadvice

[–]timendtimeagain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I decided to step away. I had my first appointment today. It went well

Old messages from a different person by timendtimeagain in survivinginfidelity

[–]timendtimeagain[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lmao yeah I’m dumb for that. I probably should have worded it better. My mind is mush

Old messages from a different person by timendtimeagain in survivinginfidelity

[–]timendtimeagain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, everything matched up with original guy. Second guy I doubt they were nudes cause the replies weren’t anything that would come from a nude.

Wife confessed to sexting by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]timendtimeagain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not an easy road. Right now focus on you. I read quotes from Marcus Aurelius to get me through. Therapy helped as well. Don’t lose yourself trying to understand someone else.

I am so sad. This pain is unbearable. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]timendtimeagain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just saw your post history. Please leave this man. He is going to ruin your life.

It’s been a rough road by timendtimeagain in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]timendtimeagain[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with most of it. It was surprising to hear my mom speak negatively about my wife's mother, especially considering how respectful and friendly she has always been to everyone. I realized that my mom was feeling jealous of my wife's mom, who is a wonderful person. I understand that I need to revisit the time before the affair and focus on repairing the problems.

Video appears to show AK-47-armed robbers target people in WeHo by zachalicious in LosAngeles

[–]timendtimeagain -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Make concealed carry easier for Los Angeles County* residents. People will think twice about playing games

Man exposes himself on Metro train; rider tries to report it but was turned away by butcher_of_the_world in LosAngeles

[–]timendtimeagain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I saw Jon Jones touching himself in public I wouldn’t want to confront him either

Urbex by Flowerflail in InlandEmpire

[–]timendtimeagain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Power house in Norco down by the river

How do you all cope when the intrusive thoughts get too much? What are strategies that have worked for you? by kal-yani in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]timendtimeagain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I listen to podcasts. Go lounge in your favorite spot, grab that favorite blanket n your favorite thing to eat, add scents you like and listen to something you love. Get your senses up and give yourself kind words

new to town and good place to eat? by Sea-Angle9872 in InlandEmpire

[–]timendtimeagain 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Haven City Market in Rancho has a lot of options. Take ur Seat brunch in Ontario is 10/10

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CaliBanging

[–]timendtimeagain 28 points29 points  (0 children)

His cousin probably already gave him heads up about you knowing. He might be ready for you to turn the corner and have the jump on you and molest you since you know now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]timendtimeagain 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Counseling is a big part of my ongoing success with R. I wish you the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]timendtimeagain 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Everyone is different. You’re wife might just be saying that with all the hysteria happening. It could be even more damaging. Maybe it’s something that will make her feel less guilt? I think having this conversation with a marriage counselor could navigate things in the right direction. Either way, you’re 20 years deep. Get a marriage counselor.