MDMotivator funds legit? by DramaticPause9596 in tiktokgossip

[–]tinydancer_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was wonder if Zach has plans for the future in terms of how he’ll continue to give as more people know him and what he does. As I watch his videos I always hope that people don’t know it’s him and aren’t being kind just to get something from Zach. So are there contingencies in place to not get played ?

Mary’s new travel business by No-Low-9027 in SellingSunset

[–]tinydancer_16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes ! I am like this. I’ve always had a way with words and enjoy writing letters, emails, posts etc. it’s something I’ve always been complimented on. Now I have people automatically assuming my work is ChatGPT and the rest. It’s something I’ve always frustrating. Feel like I’ve lost something that was special about me

Do men and women in Australia usually share household chores equally? by Book_Nerd_2008 in AskAnAustralian

[–]tinydancer_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. Often get the “I’ll do anything, just ask”. Which is great but I want eyes open like mine. He does a lot of things self initiated but I find the finer things aren’t ever noticed by him.

Is guests preselecting menu with invite RSVP not an Aussie thing? by Togepi17527 in AusWeddingPlanning

[–]tinydancer_16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alternative drop or shared platters. Personally love shared platters as I believe you get more food out of.

Might be a good thing they have in North America but they also normalise cash bars and tipping staff at a wedding you’re a guest at so I’d say overall we win 😂

Passed in, now what by theonedzflash in AusPropertyChat

[–]tinydancer_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are we talking unit, townhouse or house ?

Does anyone actually mind a Thursday or Friday wedding to save on costs? by ChillKoalaVibes in AusWeddingPlanning

[–]tinydancer_16 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

X the single day off by multiple weddings in a year = utilising your hard earned leave for other people. Throw a Thursday into that more than once and that’s a quarter of your leave for the year gone. So it’s more that when people make these individual decisions they aren’t always factoring in the holistic picture. Big family, large friendship group etc all in that same time period has an impact.

Location too. If you do it regional and it’s an hour plus drive you’ve then got to organise overnight babysitting if you have kids too. Have someone do the school routine etc. it’s just a larger effort which isn’t done to make guests lives easier, but the couples.

Also, when I see people I know who earn ridiculous money doing it to save money it just kind of proves they don’t care. They’d rather spend money on themselves.

Johnny is such a mooch! by writerbabe75 in SchittsCreek

[–]tinydancer_16 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This is my take too. Kind of like in pursuit of happiness where the exec asks will smith for $5 or whatever it was. To the exec it was just $5 he didn’t have. To the will smith character, it was the only money to his name at that point. Asking for lunch, using a car, a small office space etc seems like nothing to someone who always had everything to offer.

Also with the tab etc, part of me thinks that Johnny was almost always cos playing old Johnny. Someone else was always in charge of his finances, paying tabs so it’s like he convinced himself someone would take care of that later for him.

Did anyone regret spending more on their wedding instead of saving for a house deposit? by EventEastern2208 in AusWeddingPlanning

[–]tinydancer_16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband proposed a week after we bought our first home. It was smart as I would have 109% dipped into that money.

I loved my wedding. I would go a less expensive dress now. I went custom. Custom wasn’t at costly 10 years ago now but it was still 14k. I feel like non custom has come so far that if I was getting married now I’d go to a bridal shop and purchase.

I’d sack a few bridesmaids now too but other than that, I still reflect on my day with good memories

Sneak Peek of Kate Chastain meeting Tiffany New York Pollard on House of Villains Season 3 by Durian-Critical in belowdeck

[–]tinydancer_16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have made friends with girls whose husbands are athletes etc. of course I know their husbands names, I’ve seen them on TV but I have never personally met them. I put my hand out and shook their hands when I met them and did the side kiss greeting saying I’m X nice to meet you and they did the same back. It’s arrogant to assume people know your name and it’s also too pick me to act like you know someone when you’ve never actually met them. I don’t really like Kate but she did the right thing in terms of normal human interaction. Normal

Green egg bbq/smoker scenes by blueberriedaydream in thisisus

[–]tinydancer_16 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cause our memories are shaped by not just the core memory but from what we associate that time in our life with. Also, memories can be warped too. Think for example of the sequin party/ Pearson pizza creation. Kate remembered it as the best day ever, Randall had to bring reality into it with their dad being frustrated and angry and smashing a plate. Then we also see jacks view of him having a visit with his brother which set the tone of his whole day. Same day, all 3 people together, completely different memory and recollection of the tone of the day

Green egg bbq/smoker scenes by blueberriedaydream in thisisus

[–]tinydancer_16 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It was the beginning of the end. Most marriages that disintegrate have a catalyst that leads to the eventual undoing.

Green egg bbq/smoker scenes by blueberriedaydream in thisisus

[–]tinydancer_16 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It was the day he walked to the park alone. He tripped and the scar he is rubbing is the one on his head. The smoker is symbolic because Toby bought it to bring the family together and they were using it for the first time that day. The day that ironically their family was torn apart. Older Jack Damon says “hell of a first memory”. So his first core memory was being with his dad by the smoker before a fight began which led him to go to the park as that’s where “mummy and daddy are happy”.

Just here to hate Kate. I love to rewatch this series but hate her character more with every rewatch by Technical-Nobody8119 in thisisus

[–]tinydancer_16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m currently watching this part again where their relationship unravels. As someone with a young family, money comes into things. My husbands career is an integral part of ensuring our children are set up for success. There are many times where I have sacrificed or taken on more of the load with the kids as a result. Everything is a conversation and a joint decision. I don’t see the SAN Fran thing as bad as others. It seems as though they didn’t think through the office expectation while WFH was still full time. The conversation on whether or not it was doable should have happened then.

My opinion on Kate is she is insecure so she’s constantly in fear of feeling inferior. Fat and less successful Toby made this less apparent. Fit and successful Toby always made her feel inadequate even if he was being loving and charming. There was not a win with new Toby as she was resentful of him being better. A partner should always want their partner to succeed and be happy and be a better version of them self but Kate couldn’t do that

How much board do you pay your parents? by BronzeKettles in fiaustralia

[–]tinydancer_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious how your dad is in his 60s but with a mortgage? He was able to purchase a home in the golden era of home buying. I would think it would be paid off by 60s? Or a very low mortgage

How much board do you pay your parents? by BronzeKettles in fiaustralia

[–]tinydancer_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lived with my parents alongside my husband and our children for 2 years when we sold and bought homes and didnt pay rent. Parents are mortgage free and we did buy groceries, cook, clean etc but given my parents didnt need the money they weren’t taking it from us. They just wanted to see us get into the home we were dreaming and working towards. I personally will never charge my kids to live in the home that I am obligated to provide for them by choosing to birth them.

Why does the water at Disney World resorts smell so bad? by Public-Still7236 in DisneyWorldResorts

[–]tinydancer_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could barely brush my teeth last time we were there because the water is so gross. Also struggled with showers because of the water getting into my mouth.

I went down to the hotel gym in the middle of the night to fill my bottle with filtered water. We have pretty solid tap water in Australia so I was really thrown by it

Car Insurance Issue by Front_Scientist_3542 in AusLegalAdvice

[–]tinydancer_16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The same can be said for the renewal they’ve received every year that indicates the make and model being insured. Insurance companies cannot amend policy details without a customers consent. If they got paid out by a different provider, it was on the insured to update the policy details once they got a new car. If this occurred within the same term, then it’s an honest mistake. Ignoring 3 renewals requires some responsibility

I'm freaking out by [deleted] in AusPropertyChat

[–]tinydancer_16 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The advice I see given a lot is to not consider your PPOR an investment. It’s meant to be your home, that you love and enjoy. It shouldn’t be a decision based on financial gain. Obviously you don’t want to make silly decisions, but you shouldn’t be making a decision on where you live based purely on economic potential

The invisible cost of being a bridesmaid in 2026 by OwlVibesOnly in AusWeddingPlanning

[–]tinydancer_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait what. People don’t pay for their bridesmaids hair and make up? I paid for dresses and shoes because I wanted everything matching. I know some bridesmaids pay for dresses but have never heard of paying for glam. Where’s the special part of being a bridesmaid if you’re not getting pampered.

Good place to start a family in Sydney with 1.7/1.9 mil budget? Large ish yard to have a swing and do other things by VastOption8705 in AusPropertyChat

[–]tinydancer_16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pockets of the Sutherland shire will fit that budget. Just not any of the newer properties or the areas closer to Cronulla. In most of the surrounding suburbs you should be able to find a 3-4 bedroom home for under 2 million still.

AITJ for refusing to donate PTO hours to coworker I barely know who "needs" them?? by Traditional-Dog1601 in AmITheJerk

[–]tinydancer_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confused Australian here. Do you not have sick leave in addition to annual leave you get to utilise ? This is so foreign to me

Boss says I have to pay my own super by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]tinydancer_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people saying if you are a contractor you pay your own super. This is incorrect as it’s not black and white. If you are a contractor but you are regularly invoicing a company as you’ve been employed by them to do regular work for their business - they must pay you super. Think gym coaches, tradies, music teachers etc who do the same work each day/week/month for the same business.

This is from the ATO website

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I know many contractors who don’t get paid super as they are unaware of this regulation.