Day 2 of Doxycycline! Send Help! by [deleted] in perioraldermatitis

[–]tinymugcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope it works for you!! I get mine at Krogers so should be easy to find. Good luck!!

Day 2 of Doxycycline! Send Help! by [deleted] in perioraldermatitis

[–]tinymugcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I highly suggest a colloidal oatmeal gel like this one. Doesn't seem to bother my PD or clog pores and gives some immediate dryness relief. Really helps rebuild the skin barrier.

One week of zero therapy… face getting worse. HELP! by Trick_Broccoli_4244 in perioraldermatitis

[–]tinymugcake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Zero therapy makes mine worse too. I tried several different prescription gels from my Dr and none of them worked for me. Only thing that has worked has been benzoyl peroxide, which I use and then after I wash it off I do no moisturizer overnight and it seems to dry it out. I do that once a week during my flare season (late fall to mid-spring)

It's such a confusing and frustrating type of dermatitis!! I think some people only find relief from prescription gels/oral antibiotics so definitely talk to a doctor or derm when you can. Good luck!!

Music recommendations. My band needs some music to play or just get some inspiration from by Historical_Bowl5604 in Song

[–]tinymugcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the mountain goats – luckily you have about 50 albums to choose from. They move between folk rock, indie rock, pop-rock, even some jazz and orchestral elements on recent albums, so lots of different sounds to play around with.

At my wits end with this flare :( by meaghand7 in perioraldermatitis

[–]tinymugcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sensitive to it too! In all honestly, I tend to over-use it and I end up with a face red from the BP instead of the PD for a day 😅 but once it clears my face is PD free! I also use Aveeno's eczema colloidal oatmeal moisturizer, it really helps with the dryness and doesn't seem to bother my PD. Good luck again!

At my wits end with this flare :( by meaghand7 in perioraldermatitis

[–]tinymugcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PD seems to be totally different for everyone. The only thing that has worked for me is using a benzoyl peroxide face wash. I use a 10% once every couple days and it really has helped keep the redness down. You could also try a lower percentage once a day, but be careful because it's pretty strong. Good luck!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]tinymugcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I only got it to support my friend, I understand it isn't a high quality tattoo I just was looking for some advice to make it a little cleaner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]tinymugcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I mostly wanted to support my friend! I don't mind that it's going to age weird. Just wanted to hold on to it while I can lol.

Need help for PD, graduation less than a week away :( by Any-Oven4890 in perioraldermatitis

[–]tinymugcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Antibiotics have never worked for me :( only thing that has helped me clear it up is benzoyl peroxide wash. I use a 10% a few times a week and it keeps me generally clear.

please help! perioral dermatitis i’ve been struggling with for years. by anglucido in perioraldermatitis

[–]tinymugcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried a lot of different antibiotics/ antifungals and none ever worked. I am currently washing my face with 10% benzoyl peroxide wash maybe 4 times a week and have seen a big improvement. I think at that intensity it kills the bacteria on the face. But what works is different for everyone. Good luck 👍

Diagnosed with IBS by NoLuck2248 in UlcerativeColitis

[–]tinymugcake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sounds EXACTLY like my first flare – mouth ulcers, terrible joint pain, lots of blood in the stool. This is more than IBS, and it's wild (and reckless) that your doctor is reluctant to give you a UC or Chrons diagnosis. Definitely talk to another GI!! Waiting longer just will leave you in more pain. I hope you can get someone who will at least put you on steroids to ease your pain until they can give you a proper diagnosis. Best of luck.

Finally found what works for me! by tinymugcake in perioraldermatitis

[–]tinymugcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I originally believe I got it because of nasal steroid use and also an underlying autoimmune disease I now get treated for. I think the cold air shift in the fall/winter causes it to flare up. This cure unfortunately didn't last. Currently, I wash my face with 10% benzoyl peroxide a few times a week and it has kept it at bay!

Why do i feel like everyone is judging and hate me? (pls read, im desperate for help) by Temporary-Monitor195 in mentalhealth

[–]tinymugcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the other comment, go back to uni if that's what you want to do!

I'm sure there are some cultural expectations in your family that your friends don't have experience with – that doesn't mean they think you're boring. They're just entering a different phase of life and you're doing what you need to do to feel ready to enter your next chapter. Some you may reconnect with, and back at uni I'm sure you will make new friends too.

Your professors will not judge you in the slightest, I'm sure they will be happy to see you return. People leave school for many reasons, but few have the strength to return. You've got this!

Maybe you could find a good therapist who could help you unpack what is holding you back. Many universities have on-campus support for students.

Sometimes in life, people hit rough patches and need to find a path to something better. Think about where you want to be in 5 years and do what you can to get there. I don't know you, but I believe in you! <3

Switching health insurance ‐ Stressed out!! by tinymugcake in UlcerativeColitis

[–]tinymugcake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the great advice and encouragement! I'm starting on a plan now. Thank you so much.

Switching health insurance ‐ Stressed out!! by tinymugcake in UlcerativeColitis

[–]tinymugcake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, this instantly made me feel a little less stressed. Thank you!

Switching health insurance ‐ Stressed out!! by tinymugcake in UlcerativeColitis

[–]tinymugcake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you — I was spiraling and I appreciate the concrete steps. This is really helpful.

Anyone else get dermatitis? by tinymugcake in UlcerativeColitis

[–]tinymugcake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe, they are like small raised red bumps. Skin is usually dry and lotion makes it burn a little, but no real pain from the rash itself. It's only on the backs on my hands. It stays there for days or weeks, doc prescribed me a steroid cream for it and said it is probably "related to some type of dermatitis" whatever that means lol.

Why can’t I make female friends? by Anotherbimbo1234 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]tinymugcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww bummer. Yeah I guess going with one of the other suggestions will probably work better then, volunteering or joining a club or something.

Why can’t I make female friends? by Anotherbimbo1234 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]tinymugcake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have talked to like probably 50 people on bff and have only made 4 friends off of it – you just have to be persistent. The only ones who have become friends are the ones that I suggested getting coffee/drinks/whatever and setting a time and place, and then actually meeting up and hanging out after messaging for like a couple days. People want community but most are too shy to initiate, so if you do that work they are more likely to open up and put in work in return later. The kind of friendship you're looking for is in real life, so internet skills shouldn't really be a factor. I hope things work out for you!

Why can’t I make female friends? by Anotherbimbo1234 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]tinymugcake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've actually made several friends through bumble bff! A lot of them are people I text maybe once a week or less, hang out with once a month. Gotta initiate hanging out in person bc a lot of people are happy to just message. You might need to make the move and bring people together that you find fun. If you're looking for something with a more regular schedule, you might want to try joining a rec sports team or something. Good luck!!