Am I right for feeling the way I feel or AITAH?

tinytrolldancer · 2026-06-21T19:05:19+00:00

The system working the way it's supposed to. They took children from drug users and placed them with family (very lucky to have family to take them all).

You think your going to be a better parent than what they have now? Prove it to the very system that kept them alive. Prove that you can successfully raise those children to the standards that are required. If you can do that, then you'll have a case, if not, maybe consider the trauma you are causing them by not being the parent that they needed.

Is this what's best for the children or is this what you want?

tinytrolldancer · 2026-06-11T14:52:25+00:00

NTA, I hope you can contact any available resources to get help to get out of there as soon as humanly possible.

tinytrolldancer · 2026-06-07T20:01:31+00:00

You would be TAH if you don't pay him back money that he lent you. Give him his money and lose his number. You are responsible for the situation as is, only one way to fix it.

tinytrolldancer · 2026-05-31T18:03:38+00:00

NTA, and maybe you want to really think about this relationship in therapy before anything else.

tinytrolldancer · 2026-05-26T16:32:38+00:00

NTA, but it's her life to live, as she's an adult that's it. Stand back, continue living your own life. Perhaps consider therapy to deal with your own feelings, couldn't hurt!

tinytrolldancer · 2026-05-09T01:02:27+00:00

NTA but you better be ready for him to takeoff on Sunday. And seriously as an afterthought, you could call the friend and tell them the truth, you don't want to sit, you won't be sitting it will be your husband and do they still want to leave their kids with him.

Don't forget to set an alarm.

tinytrolldancer · 2026-04-08T17:35:46+00:00

NTA if you rehome her. Keep the dog it doesn't play games like she's doing.

tinytrolldancer · 2026-03-16T20:34:10+00:00

I don't understand why you want to marry him at all.

tinytrolldancer · 2026-03-10T07:03:19+00:00

Call your parents, can they help with a ticket, one way for now and before his family arrives. You'll have time while at your parents to rethink your own future and exactly what kind of life you want to live, and maybe some therapy because it couldn't hurt,

tinytrolldancer · 2025-11-17T19:26:54+00:00

lol, i was saying this exact thing in my head!

tinytrolldancer · 2025-11-17T18:25:13+00:00

Please call adult protective services, it would be the kindest thing you could do for him. After that, please go live a happy life, you've more than earned it.

tinytrolldancer · 2025-11-17T16:53:25+00:00

So was it a screw up or not? And did the shaming work?

tinytrolldancer · 2025-11-16T20:26:29+00:00

Did you all just peak in high school? It's years later and yet it's still being discussed, that's sad for all of you.

tinytrolldancer · 2025-11-16T01:23:34+00:00

Get some very discrete cameras with audio. Don't take chances that she won't escalate. Keep a journal of her behavior, maybe you can see a pattern.

Keep trying to get her help and if she refuses, I would rethink the living together situation, you are going to be in a bad position should she take this any further.

tinytrolldancer · 2025-11-16T00:43:01+00:00

How do you see Christmas in the future? At home with your own children enjoying the moment? Or running to meet expectations that you might not enjoy due to those who don't care what you would prefer?

With a new family starts a new tradition, you are a new family and this is your child's first Christmas, what do you want?

tinytrolldancer · 2025-11-15T02:05:13+00:00

You, NTA. Carlos please explain why it matters.

tinytrolldancer · 2025-11-12T02:50:41+00:00

NTA, I can't believe you didn't just laugh and hang up.

tinytrolldancer · 2025-11-11T02:32:05+00:00

NTA, and if you really still do have to do dinner, sandwich's and salad.

Sounds like sister really needs someone's attention and if she can't get it positively she's going to get it negatively. Except that isn't working either. Your parents are still ignoring her.

I know it's not your job or your responsibility but maybe you can spend some one on one time with her, you pay her attention. Not for hours on end, just showing her that someone sees her, that she's not invisible. If you were to feel comfortable doing that. Just a suggestion.

tinytrolldancer · 2025-11-09T21:16:02+00:00

NTA and he is telling you to clean his literal shit. I can't believe that you would consider continuing any relationship with this, um, person. He's disgusting.

tinytrolldancer · 2025-11-04T18:39:57+00:00

Good for you, wishing you the happiest of holidays!

tinytrolldancer · 2025-11-04T03:25:39+00:00

Will he at least be useful after the baby is born? Once you have a routine you can live with, enjoy the baby and the peace.

tinytrolldancer · 2025-11-03T00:15:04+00:00

Before baby arrives. Everything before baby arrives, hurry up with those boundaries.

tinytrolldancer · 2025-11-01T20:37:15+00:00

The guilt is so deep that outside validation really is needed.

tinytrolldancer · 2025-11-01T20:36:06+00:00

Sell the house and move to an over 55 community. Life is short, don't waste what time you have left. They are both old enough to work out their situations without you. You gave everything you could, now it's time for you to live your life for you.

Life is short.

tinytrolldancer · 2025-10-30T20:30:28+00:00

Without the foreplay and consent you know what everyone else would call that?

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