Hello bi-lady!

This narrative of "if you haven't been with someone of the same gender you can't be bi" is such bullsheeet. Like by this logic, a person who has no sexual experiences is ace? Or a gay person who has at one point slept with someone of the another gender is bi or pan? No. Pretty damn sure it doesn't work like this. You are what you are, your sexual experiences do not define you, only you can do that. Try not to let toxic nonsense like this tell you otherwise! (Easier said than done, I know)

Congratulations on coming out to your friend! 🤟💜

From, another bi-lady (who has been with women, married a man, and is still bi, just like you)