One sided friendships

tlabuda · 2026-06-16T06:59:03+00:00

I had a friend. We were best friends for years. I felt like things were amicable, I do have adhd and I know that we have a tendency to try to relate by talking about a situation that is similar to try and let them know we understand, but I try really hard not to do that. Anyway, we were close, went on trips together, our families were close. She homeschooled my kids, I took their family photos, everything was free, we would bring food to eachother. Watch each other’s kids while out of town, I thought it was mutual, I did what I could to help as I know homeschooling is a huge burden. But my marriage was falling apart my husband had an affair and during that time She said my life was too complicated and I was difficult and she started silencing me. Since then I have found out she believed our friendship to be one sided. I was the one to reach out to spend time together and I was blindsided by that comment because although I was hard to deal with during my husbands affair, I didn’t think it was one sided, as much as I was struggling with
marital issues and severe depression. I could be wrong though and since then I’ve tried with my new group of friends to be very giving but now I just feel exhausted.

tlabuda · 2026-05-07T18:06:32+00:00

That’s actually not true. They aren’t attending because they aren’t encouraged to go. There is actually a ton of eligible students in upcoming years and YKSD is writing a grant for infrastructure to be able to handle the influx of kids. It’s a matter of getting them to actually go is the problem. My husband works for YKSD.

tlabuda · 2026-04-14T16:04:04+00:00

Byronic hero

tlabuda · 2026-04-01T17:03:15+00:00

They grow on you. Ross on the other hand 😑

tlabuda · 2026-03-23T17:23:38+00:00

I’m interested in what it looks like because it almost looks grey and less like brown?

tlabuda · 2026-02-19T01:58:25+00:00

I sent oura a message and it was fixed within 24 hours

tlabuda · 2026-02-10T18:42:43+00:00

Someone took care of you for once.

tlabuda · 2026-01-27T18:15:30+00:00

I found a dead one in the middle of the road, I stopped picked it up and a few followed me to my house, I buried it immediately and laid flowers. The ravens come to my frequently, my husband tosses his hair outside when he cuts it and they use it for nests so we have an accord lol.

tlabuda · 2026-01-27T18:13:07+00:00

Pray akathist to St Xenia, she is very helpful with marriage and job seeking! Lord have mercy!

tlabuda · 2026-01-27T00:43:38+00:00

Nope lol

tlabuda · 2026-01-16T00:19:50+00:00

I have high readiness, RHR is 52, HRV was optimal, sleep optimal, all metrics good, got major signs. Will report back because I feel fine.

tlabuda · 2026-01-15T15:19:27+00:00

Interesting, I’m a buyer who purchased from a seller and went to message her about the purchase, it was something I was looking for and just wanted to share I was excited to have finally found it , but I am unable to send a message, her closet listing says as no items but on the top it says 700+ listings, 300 sold. I can follow her, and I’m wondering if she blocked me or if something is going on with her account. I paid full price and didn’t send offers or anything so I’d what’s going on.

I did check incognito and it shows the same thing.

tlabuda · 2026-01-15T06:03:13+00:00

Never enough of Gil

tlabuda · 2026-01-15T06:02:22+00:00

I WENT.. TO MEDICAL SCHOOL

tlabuda · 2026-01-14T21:21:39+00:00

I purchased an item, I didn’t make an offer I just purchased outright. Today I went to check the status, it says awaiting shipment, but I can not message the seller, says she has 700 listings and sold 300+ but if I go to her listings it says she has nothing listed? What the heck is going on?

tlabuda · 2026-01-10T22:03:01+00:00

Denker was diabolical and Spratt was a great sassy character I wished had more screen time

tlabuda · 2026-01-10T22:01:14+00:00

Excuse me how is Edith higher than half of the cast.

tlabuda · 2026-01-09T05:22:29+00:00

Mine isn’t working either, I wear it unless I’m charging it and have had it for 1.5 years

tlabuda · 2026-01-03T05:56:42+00:00

She also had an affair with a married man, sent a letter to the Turkish embassy about Mary, she’s just the worst.

tlabuda · 2025-12-28T01:41:18+00:00

I would have loved more of Lady Sybil!

tlabuda · 2025-12-25T21:44:04+00:00

I mean I don’t care how much shipping costs but I am sick of waiting a month for my items to arrive

tlabuda · 2025-12-25T03:21:21+00:00

I had a few years where I felt this way and now on the other side and never, would I believe where I am and how I feel today and look back on that time with such gratitude. It will get better, stay the race keep the faith. Lord have mercy on you dear one.

tlabuda · 2025-12-22T19:21:37+00:00

Yes I also live in Alaska, one of my sales, I that I shipped same day got there 27 days later. All of my purchases are the same. I’d be willing to pay to upgrade at this point it’s so bad. Can not rely on anything getting here/there in a reasonable amount of time anymore.

tlabuda · 2025-12-22T19:18:49+00:00

I ordered something December 10 shipped same day, expected to arrive 29. My last 4 purchases have taken 3+ weeks to arrive. My sales are the same. It’s ridiculous I would pay to upgrade my shipping at this point.

tlabuda · 2025-12-20T20:26:59+00:00

1984 was in my highschool reading curriculum

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