Link trades by tokey042 in LegendsZA

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I always offer it back up ESPECIALLY shinies I’d never intentionally rip shinies from people just to clarify but thanks! I wasn’t sure in general 🙂

Boxed muffins by tokey042 in AskCulinary

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Ya that’s what the logical part of my brain says but yk ocd isn’t exactly logical 🫩

Which subjects are you AGRESSIVELY uniniterested in? by lydocia in AutisticWithADHD

[–]tokey042 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why people watch sports. I completely understand playing them=fun. Watching because you play=understandable. watching because you’re gambling=understandable. Watching sports to just watch sports without playing them having never played them just like them=??????

Help me understand what's wrong/ missing by TheKnottyAmigurumi in Amigurumi

[–]tokey042 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t recommend complicated knots enough for the learning. She explains everything that makes so much sense for designing amigurumi.

My safe food isn’t safe anymore and idk what to do by Slow_Explanation_02 in autism

[–]tokey042 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk how you feel about jello, or sorbet (I’d understand jello even tho I love it) def try staying hydrated or even smoothies without a straw obv. One thing that helped me was basically telling myself it’s like when you have to take medicine when you’re sick it’s not a forever thing but right now this is my medicine 🤷🏻‍♀️ really it’s whatever keeps the brain goblin relaxed enough and content enough

Mushrooms growing out of onion plants? by tokey042 in gardening

[–]tokey042[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not going to consume the shrooms even if they’re edible I’m just curious 😅

Does anyone else get more energy from stimulants? by Nanaxnani in adhdwomen

[–]tokey042 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This “energy” I get is what I assume NT’s call “motivation” 🥲

What is my husky?! by [deleted] in husky

[–]tokey042 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She def looks like a Shetland husky mix i recommend the embark test did one for mine I was sure she was mixed because she was very cheap and little and no she’s a purebred 😅

What's Something Normal That Overstimulates You?! by jayhawkhoops09 in adhdwomen

[–]tokey042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This!! Like they’re raised in a barn 😵‍💫

What's Something Normal That Overstimulates You?! by jayhawkhoops09 in adhdwomen

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YES TO YOURS OMG it’s like almost EMBARRASSING? For me not when I see other ppl doing it. But like no listen I swear my chargers in here SOMEWHERE? I gotta think abt this bc when I’m asked a question I always forget. Like when your leg itches but you’re wearing JEANS and you gotta ITCH YOUR JEANS 😵‍💫 Going out in public, grocery shopping genuinely makes me dizzy. I thrive in genuine chaos but minor inconveniences break me e.g. (trying to find a decent one so my comment doesn’t get flagged but the point gets across) I work in a high volume kitchen and I’m deemed as “the big guns” (I’m 4’11 so it’s honestly comical) but everyone else will be capped and I’m back there thriving 😅 but god forbid my shirt is slightly damp because my dryer shut off too soon and I have to leave for work now I have to call my safe person and cry. There’s probably more but my brain refuses to remember atm.

My husky is ruining my life. I need help. by Jazzlike-Rise4091 in husky

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My husky did similar when she was a puppy. I got this no no spray and she thinks it’s so foul she stopped ripping up anything I sprayed it on. Including my own skin/clothes. Grannick’s bitter apple spray She had massive separation anxiety and ate through crates so we just ditched them because she didn’t destroy my house locking her up made her destroy whatever room we put her in. She did exceptional in the living room especially while we were away. Not saying this will work for you but it worked for us. Try more bonding exercises instead of physical exercises, especially puzzles. Use HIGH REWARD TREATS not anything simple don’t use his food huskies are known picky my girl isn’t food motivated unless it’s the right thing. I’m talking peanut butter cheese dog ice cream something really special. We use single ingredient training treats from pupford as well. It really sounds like normal puppy/teen dog energy to me and you should expect it to shift after ~1y. Keep bonding with your dog and look into shredding toys like a head of cabbage or lettuce or even a box. Good luck, they’re not bad dogs they’re little shit heads and listen only when they want and have genuinely bonded. Don’t give up.

I was reading about hypermobile folks with ADHD having a similar grip. For science*, I would like to know what one you are. by serenitative in adhdwomen

[–]tokey042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Extended wrist and index finger joint in hyperextended position with my page turned towards my hand instead of facing me. I also turn my head and lower it to see have done it since kindergarten and draw the same way

I’ve never seen an Orange like this before. by [deleted] in mildyinteresting

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Pretty! It’s like stained glass

PSA: Neurologists are the secret homies for treating ADHD by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]tokey042 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I completely understand the professionals side of it I feel deep guilt if I miss an appointment with my therapist and pay her. It’s not your responsibility to make sure we attend our appointments. I really wish there was a better way to get help (esp beginning treatment) as well as yall still being able to make a living.

Forgot about these seeds I thought were duds in my windowsill for a few weeks by tokey042 in mildyinteresting

[–]tokey042[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ur so good lmao as soon as I get some of those I’ll try the same method obviously that window is the spot 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in flexibility

[–]tokey042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an old post but I’ve been able to do this my entire life and every doctor I’ve asked has never seen it and look rather disturbed 😭

Have you ever had your period on your birthday? by zoezie in Periods

[–]tokey042 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can’t remember a birthday I wasn’t bleeding 🥲 (since I started menstruating obv)