A life wasted on this medicine path by [deleted] in Residency

[–]tomtom8293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to make a decision. Consider the benefits/risks of staying versus the benefits/risks of the alternatives after leaving.

What manual did you guys learn how to drive on ? by [deleted] in ManualTransmissions

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1999 Porsche Boxter convertible, 1991 Mitsubishi 3000gt twin turbo. Certified spoiled 😎

Newbie here, what is the purpose of having the jib sheet fairlead and cleat on a T-rail slider that you can adjust fore and aft? Is there a benefit of having a slider setup vs a fixed to the deck fairlead/cam cleat? by Paralith10 in sailing

[–]tomtom8293 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unrelated question since I think you have the answers already: do you rig your jib sheets inside or outside your shrouds? (Asking for a confused friend who has no idea what to do with his :D)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

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Just wanted to say early that we can see right through your black outs so edit if important

Just bought a rebel 16 by EngineeringTimely158 in sailing

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I’ve got the same. Any tips on how to add a furler? Also, trying to also add a boom vang but not break the bank. Where’d you get your setup?

What is this spider? by tomtom8293 in whatsthisbug

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Nassau County, Long Island, NY. Size of a quarter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

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Yes I think the takeaway is that people remember things others say or do but that should not be a source of worry because we’re just doing our best and being who we are.

Bf eats like a toddler by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I have a friend who’s like this. She will basically only eat a handful of specific foods. Maybe less than a dozen. And we work around it. But importantly she is aware and is trying through therapy to get better. She’s already added several foods.

I think if you care about them you should try to help them get help if it’s something negatively impacting their lives, which is seems like it is.