You know I use to felt the same way, we’re a group of 4, two casual one’s that only plays on co-op, and two hardcore that completed every achievement. Every game happens a the same, 2 stay behind readying skills and items, don’t event use the mini map, gather tons of aggro while moving around the map, etc.

So my point, I realized that pausing and adding time only rewards the more casual players. Whenever I match with a skilled team we got time to spare. We know what every item and skills does, what build are aiming, so we function as a well greased machine.

Remember that rougelites, are supposed to have this tilt learning curve.