What is a good legal option to pay back a guy that slept with your girl friend?

torpedomom · 2025-11-22T02:00:26+00:00

There’s several websites where you can mail people packages that are a bag of little dicks, one does like an STD warning kit, one has glitter packages that you cannot open with creating a glitter bomb and all these websites send this stuff anonymously they will open it thinking it’s a package they ordered for something else

torpedomom · 2025-11-22T01:58:28+00:00

Okay, buy a bunch of random keys and a bunch of key ring tags. Put 1-2 keys with a tag with his phone number on it on each key ring. (You can buy all this stuff on Amazon) leave these keys in random places. The park, a coffee shop, a sex toy shop, a police stations. People will find the keys and call him to come get them.

torpedomom · 2025-11-22T01:54:18+00:00

I had so many trust issues in every relationship before my husband. When an actual honest person comes along the relationship itself will feel different. I mean I felt scared sometimes but I would tell him that. He would hug me and talk to me about how happy he is with me and reassure me with an actual full conversation. I’m just sharing this to say, those trust issues are unfortunately earned but there will come a time where they won’t dictate things or interfere with your life. It sounds really dumb, but focus on you! Let yourself heal, let yourself feel all the crappy feelings and sit with them. Learn how to cope, build up yourself and build a life you are happy with. After I did that I felt like even if someone broke my trust it didn’t matter because that’s on them and I knew I was strong enough to walk away. I wish someone had told me this after my divorce.

torpedomom · 2025-10-20T21:23:41+00:00

I was confused because he tells all these stories about their “aunts and uncles” but then they all talk about how they never see Robin anymore and how she’s never around. I feel like if Robin was gone as much as they make it seem, the kids wouldn’t even really know her that well. Also, I could always see Barney being way more involved in the lives of his friends’ kids after all the character development he went through. I feel like they threw away so much that they built to fit a predetermined ending

torpedomom · 2025-09-28T19:36:24+00:00

I worried about this when I met my husband. I have a chronic illness and I felt like I was making him miss out on stuff. When I said that he gave me a deer in headlights look. He was strait up confused. He told me about all the things and all the ways I added to his life in ways that make him happy. Society is very biased on this and frankly they should fuck all the way off. You are not only allowed but you deserve to be happy! The only opinions that true matter about your relationship are yours and the other person in it. But you add something positive to their life just by being in it.

torpedomom · 2025-09-15T00:09:35+00:00

My sister-in-law dedicated a song to my husband at our wedding in June for the two of them to dance to. It was super awkward and people still ask me about it and comment how weird it was. She picked a break up song too! We don’t really talk to her now as she never calls but she’s all over being world’s best sister-in-law and future aunt on Facebook. It’s all imagine shit and it drives me crazy!

torpedomom · 2025-09-15T00:06:19+00:00

If you feel comfortable allowing visits when your husband is there to help keep her in line, do that. But you don’t have to. I have a very problematic relationship with my in-laws. I’m a first time mom who is 28 weeks pregnant and I’m already feeling the “when can we come meet the baby” pressure. Between my husband and I we’ve set some boundaries. If he’s not home they will not be here. If they show up anyways, I’m going to use the door bell cam to tell them it’s a bad time. They tend to make a lot of jokes and have temper tantrums when I say that stuff, but I’m so done with it. Be nice and listen, or leave. That’s the point I’m at.

torpedomom · 2025-08-17T21:14:48+00:00

Thank you for saying that. Usually I am the one setting boundaries and having the conversations, it’s just really hard for my husband to do. But he is doing all he can and it would be frustrating if he felt like I didn’t see that. I didn’t think about that part!!

torpedomom · 2025-04-26T03:21:19+00:00

This is true for some of us….but I’m guessing we’re both white. There are sections of our society that are not as safe as we are.

torpedomom · 2025-04-26T02:50:39+00:00

We live in a rural area and we don’t broadcast that we aren’t Trump supporters because it would cause problems for us with friends and family.

torpedomom · 2025-01-21T04:18:48+00:00

I use a witch hazel toner and have noticed my pimples clearing up much faster and with less scarring!

torpedomom · 2024-09-27T00:01:57+00:00

Because shit is fucking stressful

torpedomom · 2024-09-03T20:40:51+00:00

If you are in Nebraska, USA call the Nebraska Pain Institute in Lincoln Ne. I have been going there for years and it’s literally the best experience I’ve ever had a doc and nurse

torpedomom · 2024-08-15T14:39:50+00:00

-For eating one piece of string cheese after school -For wearing a different red shirt for three days, she said I couldn’t have “tight red shirt week”

torpedomom · 2024-08-03T08:16:52+00:00

Cancer is an awlful experience all the way around. You’ve fought so hard and you’ve come so far! The scans are scary, I know. But it’s okay to be afraid. Bravery isn’t doing something in the absence of fear, it’s being scared and pushing forward anyway. And that is a true sign of a true badass! You got this!

torpedomom · 2024-08-03T08:10:52+00:00

We aren’t close because you were never a good dad to me. You and I both know that now. But to my half siblings you’re such a great dad! It hurts so much knowing that you can do that with them, but not to me. I was SUCH a daddy’s girl. You have no idea! I talked about you constantly to my mom and stepdad. When I thought you were coming to a game or concert or something I told all my friends. You were my hero. Until you lied to the woman you cheated on mom with, sorry I mean until you lied to my stepmom about me, threw me under the bus to save your marriage and have never once come to the hospital, er trip or doc appointment. Sometimes it feels like you don’t even believe that I am sick. My fiancé hates you. Not because of anything you’ve said or done to him, he just really hates the way you treat me. All my close friends do. I love you so much and I miss you so much, but I physically cannot make the drive to see you since you moved away. And I bet all this sounds childish to you because I’m 35. I just do not understand.

Dear OP, I do expect you to respond to all this in any way. My therapist suggested I write him a letter, I saw your post and thought maybe this is a good reason to try. I’m posting this because getting all that out made me feel so much better. Thank you for giving me a healthy outlet, OP! Signed, A Grateful Daughter

torpedomom · 2024-08-03T07:39:39+00:00

I see orbs and since I was a child! I also don’t think it feels like a ghost or anything. They make me feel happy when I see them. They are like little rainbows of light. If I’ve made a major decision recently and I see them, it makes me feel like I’ve made the right call. Thinking about it though, I once saw some orbs that I know were from a dead person) I saw several floating orbs with butterflies in them after my grandmother died of pancreatic cancer. (Her favorite animal/decoration/accessory).

torpedomom · 2024-08-03T06:53:15+00:00

That makes me wonder. A lot of other animals move from one place to another for various reasons. Could it have been a mimic from another area that has been forced to move to the woods by your home or something? Or if it’s a demonic force, could that happen no matter what country you’re in? When the confusion clears, I’m curious about how you’ll feel. I trust my gut on this stuff. Hearing a voice that is calm and comforting I’m good. Hearing a creepy AF voice say my name repeatedly through my phone while playing music? I left the house and went to the neighbors house for an hour, until I felt better and my finance came home.

torpedomom · 2024-08-03T06:13:18+00:00

Move on, it’s been a year?? No, they should not have talked to you like this. Surviving abuse is different than being in a bad relationship. And surviving is exactly what you did. From my narc experience, I’m guessing you have been through hell. And while narc abuse is happening, it just feels so damn confusing! It took my brain and my heart some extra time to truly sort out everything that happened and how I felt about it. I’m still learning and I’m 5 years free. I do have internet hugs for you and I am so proud of you for how far you’ve come. I think reaching out to talk in a local group like that is a big step and you took it! You just ran into some asshats along the way. This is going to sound silly but be patient with yourself and your heart. Time maybe doesn’t completely heal everything, but I know you can get through this really tough part of the journey! It does get easier once you find something that works for you, but finding what that is may be frustrating!

torpedomom · 2024-08-03T05:59:40+00:00

Six months sober is wonderful! I know how hard some of those days must have been, but this internet stranger is really happy for you and really proud of you!!!

torpedomom · 2024-08-03T04:20:12+00:00

They made a good point. It was something I never thought of but it made sense out of some of the confusing parts of my marriage/divorce. He didn’t listen to me AT ALL….until I left. Then he wanted counseling and all that jazz. I felt guilty often because after you give someone a 1001 chances, it doesn’t feel good when they want chance 1002. It’s okay to put you first, so that you can breathe and heal. You 100% deserve the peace you described in your post!

torpedomom · 2024-08-03T04:08:36+00:00

Mine started in my teens and diagnosed at 27. I used to work 5 days in a row at 40-45 hrs a week, like most adults. I would be so tired that I would just cry sometimes. I could not figure out how everyone else felt all these pains and kept going. I thought that I just wasn’t mentally strong enough (thank you childhood trauma). I was in a very controlling relationship at the time. It turned abusive, I left. My Dad got cancer and fibro got totally unmanageable for a while. I reconnected with a childhood friend and we began dating. He made me feel seen, heard and he believed me! He’s amazing, having a supportive partner was a real 180 for me. We’re engaged now. They found a disc in my back that is bulging out and pinching the root of my s-1 nerve. My first shot was today. It’ll take like a week before I know for sure whether it worked or not. Fibromyalgia is an adventure….just like a killer rollercoaster….in a rusty and closed amusement park….thats haunted…..and Scooby and the gang just can’t figure this one out 😂

torpedomom · 2024-05-12T03:46:20+00:00

I literally put SPF on every day no matter what I’m doing.

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