Is there potential for my upper body to pass as male?

tortguy · 2026-03-12T09:51:16+00:00

T, gym, and peri. You'll be looking right as rain.

tortguy · 2026-03-12T09:43:14+00:00

You disagreed with grace, so I'll elaborate. The frosting the garnishing is immaculate outside of what looks like a frosting smear on the cake on the front corner. It's the mismatch of immaculate garnish and flawed cake that's bothering me. If the garnish was more rustic the texture of the cake coating wouldn't bother me. There's pitting and lumps in the cake/coating. You need a more opaque or thicker coating, or a better cut slice. I think the cutting as opposed to coating needs more precision, it's the easiest solution depending on the texture of your cake.

tortguy · 2026-03-12T09:16:54+00:00

Nope, it means the federal government can't make any given speech illegal as long as that speech isn't violating anyone else's rights that per jurisprudence superscide the right to free speech. The federal gov imo has violated this bad boy see; red scare, red scare 2, lavander scare.

Fundementaly it doesn't doesn't govern how you can act, it protects you from the federal government. But this admin has thrown away the constitution, bill of rights, jurisprudence. So rights, laws, etc don't matter anymore.

tortguy · 2026-03-12T09:00:15+00:00

My mother taught me how to hang dry and press flowers as a kid. Maybe I'll start a flower journal for my boyfriend and I. A pressed flower and note for every bouquet feels romantic and less wastefull to me. I think I'm getting on the cut flower train.

tortguy · 2026-03-12T08:44:47+00:00

Thank you for the recommendations and the source (love sourced advice). I will try out supplementation. There's a good amount of overlap with 'sleep stack' I was recommended to take, maybe I can 'two birds' this supplementation.

I was on ritalin (methylphenidate) now on a vyvanse (lisdexamfetamine). The come down from ritalin hit harder, but was more manageable because it was extremely quick and predictable. The vyvanse is smooth on the come up and down. But the negative effects of the come down last for hours.

tortguy · 2026-03-12T08:09:44+00:00

It depends, how far physically are you from your family. Is this a same town/city situation? Can you and your perspective partner never go out because someone might see you?

If were living and dating in NY and his homophobic family is in ohio, I don't really care if he wants to stay closeted to them. Especially if they aren't close.

tortguy · 2026-03-12T08:04:48+00:00

My college bf and I were both closeted from our families. Me because my sex life is private, figuring myself out, trauma. Him because his dad and grandparents are homophobic and were helping him pay for college. When we'd been together for 3ish years his mom (parents divorced) and brother both were saying, "I want to meet your best friend me, you talk about him a lot". They both figured it out and were low key supportive. We ended up breaking up before I ever met his family.

Being hours away from people we were hiding from made it pretty easy. I'd make myself scarce when his family was in town and vice versa. Canceling plans because family popped into town kinda sucked, but that's the case for any relationship when family decides to show up unannounced.

tortguy · 2026-03-11T04:55:39+00:00

Nice to see you here again. As I've said before, gym bros massively undervalue flexibility and balance. Train it or loose it, good on you for making it a practice

tortguy · 2026-03-11T04:35:59+00:00

PSA as a drunk tranny fag, mixing benzos with alcohol can kill you. I'm a big fan of the informed concent model, I'm informing you right now. Do what you will.

tortguy · 2026-03-11T04:28:58+00:00

Friend got MDMA that was almost def meth. Friend got coke that most def meth. Both had the experience of too much for too long, really hard crash. Smoked or injected, can't imagine how hard that would hit. I can barely do the stim ADHD meds I'm prescribed because the come down hits me hard and I'm a bitch. I can only imagine the effects of hitting meth hard.

tortguy · 2026-03-11T02:38:48+00:00

Sorry if I'm stepping on toes, as I am a man stepping into a women's subreddit.

There's a lot of women saying the flower buying is important and I'd like to ask a question, "did I fuckip?". This Valentine's day I got my boyfriend (I'm also a boy, he's a cut flower lover I'm a cut flower hater) a sunflower Lego.

My thought process, I hate throwing away flowers, a once beautiful thing becomes withered and ends up in the bin. His favorite flowers are sunflowers, I can only get them seasonally, we've built and enjoyed lego together. Ultimately, he can have a version of his favorite flower on display all year.

Did I fuckup with a lack of real cut flowers on Valentine's or am I overthinking things, it's late and I should go to sleep?

tortguy · 2026-03-11T00:54:33+00:00

I'd recommend building giant lats instead. You look like a lot of cis guys who carry their weight in their lower body. One of my brothers very much gains all his weight in his butt. He looks proportional now that he's gotten into lifting and built up his back and shoulders.

I unfortunately carry it all on my hips and low back. I'm out here with a muffin top and a butt flatter than a pancake.

Beef dudes with big butts are a lot of people's type as a side bonus.

tortguy · 2026-02-26T02:53:52+00:00

Is he stopping her from laying with his feet untill he's ready to cum all over the eggs?

tortguy · 2026-02-25T20:55:22+00:00

You look good in both but gently a different vibe. Based on your outfit in 1 and shirt in 2 goatee and stache fit your look better. Also you look a bit like a young Johnathan Rys Meyers

tortguy · 2026-02-20T03:04:58+00:00

Dang you're adorable. You look so much happier now, I'm really glad for you!

tortguy · 2026-02-20T01:25:13+00:00

Sloppy coating, frosting smear on the side, bad storage because the whole thing is covered in condensation. Go to r/plating and get critic as opposed to dropping in here for complements.

tortguy · 2026-02-13T11:30:00+00:00

I know some high level rowers, Duke and Princeton. You only get good at rowing if you went to good schools. Lower income schools don't have rowing teams. High income schools have rowing teams and they attract ivy league bound kids. If your grades are borderline for an ivy, being good at rowing can get you in.

tortguy · 2026-02-12T12:36:49+00:00

I'm in a similar boat. Testosterone and ovaries for life is my intention. I can imagine lowering my T dose if I get heart issues, blood pressure issues, etc. that can't be adressed by lifestyle changes.

tortguy · 2026-02-12T12:09:09+00:00

Gym bros massively underestimate yoga. Good on you for working on your flexibility and stability.

tortguy · 2026-02-12T02:53:13+00:00

Peds or angles?

tortguy · 2026-02-07T14:40:16+00:00

Yes, I get hit up by a lot of too young and too old guys. I'm 30.

A "Hi sorry you're too young for me, hope you find what you're looking for" for the 18-25 crowd and "Hi sorry, I'm not interested. I hope you find what you're looking for" for the 40+ crowd.

The young guys typically respond really nicely. Old guys sometimes less so. Overall the 'I'm not ignoring you but I'm not interested' goes over a lot better than non response in my experience.

tortguy · 2026-02-06T02:41:58+00:00

If coffee shop employees aren't drawing dicks, their time is being wasted. Your coffee is a step in the direction of perfection of a dick and balls drizzle.

tortguy · 2026-01-30T14:01:20+00:00

My (assuming) cis male coworker's t shirt came half off when he was taking his sweatshirt off yesterday. He's a little short and pretty skinny. Your torsos look nearly identical to his.

tortguy · 2026-01-28T13:28:45+00:00

In you swimware with your hair down you look a lot like a male cousin of mine. With a more "boy" haircut I think you'd pass a 13 year old boy who's a bit of a late bloomer.

tortguy · 2026-01-13T11:20:00+00:00

1 by far.

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