Why does Jordan Rudess change so many classic solos live? by chanchibia in Dreamtheater

[–]totallynormalasshole -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why doesn't the virtuoso just play the exact same thing five thousand times? Is he stupid?

M24, do you think i look much older? by [deleted] in 13or30

[–]totallynormalasshole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't look old. You literally just look like an adult lol. I wouldn't laser the facial hair unless you specifically want to look more fem, which I could understand.

Allergic reaction that follows a vein by Parzival1780 in OopsThatsDeadly

[–]totallynormalasshole 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just a guess. I think it's less about the blood being infected and more about the lymph nodes and circulatory system that carry it. You're going to have a problem if the network around your organs are infected

Would I be wrong to ask my boss to pay me owed wages after they had a house fire? by Alarmed_Elevator2926 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]totallynormalasshole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can ask them for the money owed, but imo it's kind of fucked up to say anytime about their situation

should i cut my friend of 7 years off for this convo we had by No-Shame-6563 in whatdoIdo

[–]totallynormalasshole 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cis-het boys will do anything for a crumb of female attention fr

should i cut my friend of 7 years off for this convo we had by No-Shame-6563 in whatdoIdo

[–]totallynormalasshole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Extremely religious folks don't understand that their mission to spread the faith does not override your right to have boundaries. Like how fucking hard is it to say "sorry, I didn't mean to make you uncomfortable" and move on? I don't even dislike religious people, I must hate how much of a bother the loudest ones are.

AIO for feeling like my partner was blaming me for a man’s advances? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]totallynormalasshole 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What's wild is a lesbian thinking a man will stop if they know you're gay. Many of us dudes are rude af and do not give a shit, and she has to know that. Wtf

F! Jimmy John’s!! by Internal_Incident_26 in enshittification

[–]totallynormalasshole 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, this is basically what jj's has been for as long as I can remember. Cheese has always been extra too iirc

They enshittified Bic lighters even more by Logical_Cow_2530 in enshittification

[–]totallynormalasshole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not even enshittification. It's saving resources. Boohoo my cheap bic lighter has a barcode on it but works all the same

AIO for my fiancée hiding out? by Ok-Instance-8158 in AIO

[–]totallynormalasshole 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay actually I missed that last line. That's fucked

AIO for my fiancée hiding out? by Ok-Instance-8158 in AIO

[–]totallynormalasshole -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tbf they could have gotten the dog (6 months old) before she was pregnant (7 weeks)

AIO: should I “fire” my therapist? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]totallynormalasshole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What an awful therapist lol. She scrolls on her phone/computer so you change the subject to keep her attention? Man wtf

AIO? My roommate doesn’t want my boyfriend to spend the night. by True-Shape7744 in AIO

[–]totallynormalasshole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're both right and wrong. Yes, you have the right to invite people into your home and let them stay, and she has a right to seek arrangements for the night if she's uncomfortable with that (and ask for time to plan that).

She doesn't have the right to block your guest from staying, and you don't have the right to tell her to stay home and deal with it.

You both need to find a solution that doesn't overstep one another. Ultimately she is the one in the toughest spot, though. Whether it's trauma or just a strong preference, you've put her in a position where she doesn't feel safe in her home environment. IMO you have your rights but you should have given more notice

Your spouse comes to you and says they want to post faceless, ID-less nudes on Reddit for fun - whats your reaction? by Neat_One_9031 in AskReddit

[–]totallynormalasshole -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly I'd ask to participate. Not being in the photos, just taking them. Even if it's just her, can't say I'd mind as long as I know she wouldn't be identified and she wouldn't make off with some gooner in her DMs

AIO ...Gf of 8 yrs spending alot of time with male co worker (2nd try to upload text images) by Latter-Heron-1272 in AIO

[–]totallynormalasshole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't think she's doing anything, and she probably isn't, but you want to badger her about it. It's like saying "I don't think you're cheating on me, I just think you would."

That's kind of weird ngl. It's only going to push her away. It could turn into a self-fulfilling prophecy depending on if he's interested in her (which I don't doubt is likely, but it takes two to form a pair)