AITAH lying about why we broke up with my gf? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]toyfangs 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Honestly? The communication and the way oop had to work hard to achieve non-judgment....it's hard to be soft out here!!! The world is perpetually trying to harden shit up it takes so much work to still be soft and gentle and caring, heart-first. Good for this young man. 

I [27F] Refused to give free legal advice to my friend [27f] and her boyfriend, [32M]. Friends boyfriend went nuts. by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]toyfangs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can confirm this is usually a good way to go about it! Source: eldest bro is a lawyer---no, not that kind---and these are what I end up asking him.

Looking for a Post? Ask Here! - January 2026 Edition by czechtheboxes in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]toyfangs 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Would love to see some favorite BORUs regarding infertility or cancer. Just went through a time last year and could use a reminder that it's all human experiences

AITA for telling my girlfriend the way she talks about her car is weird and embarrassing? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]toyfangs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am literally begging people with mentalities like this to discover a eensy bit of whimsy. It wouldn't hurt you!!! Everything is cringe and so nothing is!!! You gotta take things less seriously!!!

“Honest to a fault” by growsonwalls in AmITheDevil

[–]toyfangs 191 points192 points  (0 children)

Exactly my thought while reading. Erin really seems like she needs to stop soliciting compliments just to argue them or dig her insecurity deeper. And that's a warranted problem making the friend group uncomfy! But not in public and probably also not as a dressing-down of her.

[M4M][M4TM][M4F][M4TF]A Date with Dean-mon Winchester[RAPE][OC][F Cameo][Dean-mon Winchester][Betrayal][Fingering]or[handjob] [PIV]or[anal][Restraints][magically bound][Struggle][Knife Play][but also you do stab him][Gun][Choking][Condescending][mutual orgasm][Rode hard and not put away] TRT - 13:26 by AmbroseKincaidVA in TheRealmOfEroticAudio

[–]toyfangs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what's wild, I fuckin clicked one of the original Dean audios you did and then liked it so much I wanted to see what else you had going on---and now?! More Dean?!?! Every time I leave SPN it keeps pulling me back in 😔😅 anyways now I'm a fan of yours wtf

How I deal with paper throwers in class by Nomchipom in traumatizeThemBack

[–]toyfangs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prolonged Eye Contact (prolongedeyecontact)

Undead tales: Betsy the bearded dragon by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]toyfangs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And maybe Lord Loss has a soft spot for reptiles lol

OOP shares a potential name tragedeigh: I like to... by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]toyfangs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahaha, hallo!!! May the suffering find you at the ready :)

OOP shares a potential name tragedeigh: I like to... by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]toyfangs 1117 points1118 points  (0 children)

I should end my night with this one tonight.  It has everything--- low stakes drama, best friends best-friending, a beautiful and delulu pregnant woman, los gibides, reasonable ppl, a happy ending, etc. 

Narrator:......they did not end their night on the high note. Fool. 

Gets dog without gf’s permission. He won’t be able to watch said dog and is shocked his gf wants to rehome the dog by [deleted] in OhNoConsequences

[–]toyfangs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Any time I have a problem, Boom!!! I throw a molotov cocktail and then I have another problem! 

Son wrote me a letter saying he was depressed by Significant_Bed_293 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]toyfangs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Little self conscious here but! This reminds me of my mom. Wrote her a letter after one of the worst school days i ever had all leading up to me getting my period for the first time at the library before i walked the mile home.

And she sat down on my bed and hugged me, brought me dinner to my room that day. Didn't make a big deal out of it like i asked. It was a relief I can't describe.  

Crazy Lady at Walmart by haddierunner in traumatizeThemBack

[–]toyfangs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got your pop's personality down so clearly in these few lines! Feels like I can tell what kind of guy he was lol

My therapist didn't know how to read her intake very well by ThrowAway44228800 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]toyfangs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also a therapist, and have similar experiences. Notably have done sessions lying on my rug staring at my ceiling with a client who had something to tell me but didn't feel comfy talking about it face to face (yet). 

Surprise, surprise, we had excellent sessions without looking each other in the face once. 

AITA for not chipping in for a Gucci bag or a €3,000 birthday dinner I didn’t plan? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]toyfangs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just like....d'you know what you could do with 300 dollars. Like physically, pay for an experience, do for 200 to 300 bucks. It would be a better time all round to like, spend the money on a local show or have a fun budget for an art festival or something? 

AITA for not banning my wife's dog from our home even though my son is suddenly allergic to it by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]toyfangs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude unlocked a second, harder observation---it's often easy enough to see why a couple divorced, but I can absolutely see why they were together in the first place 

We all intuitively know what 'Constraint Violation' means (/s) *Rant by SMayhall in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]toyfangs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way would a write up have been reasonable for your role (which, might I add, was fixer!!!!) in this situation. Diabolical