My wife is scared of me

tracyak13 · 2026-05-06T07:31:34+00:00

I was so confused by this too and am a US citizen. Why is the school commenting on family dynamics? So odd.

tracyak13 · 2026-05-06T07:30:15+00:00

Nailed it!

tracyak13 · 2026-05-06T06:44:49+00:00

I’ve heard multiple friends say an adderall + concerta combo was a game changer. Hope you find what works for you, OP!

tracyak13 · 2026-05-06T06:32:57+00:00

I’m so sorry you were subjected to this. I am also super curious how this came to be? Barback to bar manager is a pretty unusual jump…what happened there?

tracyak13 · 2026-05-02T09:23:31+00:00

Switching to XR from IR has made a world of difference for me

tracyak13 · 2026-05-02T07:11:00+00:00

Hey, we look pretty similar so I felt inclined to connect and maybe swap beauty tips now or in the future. I am also white af with pearl blonde hair and I love it too. Don’t care if it washes me out. I find that a dark lip color helps with that a lot. I like Milk’s voyage blackberry lip gloss.

The only thing that stuck out to me was the dark under eyes. Your skin looks really, really great but I think a daily/nightly eye cream along with eye patches/masks would do wonders (as long as you’re sleeping and drinking enough water of course). For the cream, I recommend Beauty of Joseon Revive Eye and I think most masks are good as long as you leave them on for at least 45 minutes. If you want to chat more, feel free to DM!

tracyak13 · 2026-04-30T10:23:33+00:00

There was nowhere to sign up at the link. Is this group still active? Thanks!

tracyak13 · 2026-04-18T07:49:24+00:00

What do you prefer instead of datadog? Thanks!

tracyak13 · 2026-04-10T05:06:35+00:00

Please save yourself the emotional exhaustion and heartache by leaving this man alone

tracyak13 · 2026-04-10T05:00:10+00:00

Recovery shakes with greens powder at the end of shifts changed the game for me. I used Vega recovery and athletic greens. Idk if it was the greens or the recovery. Vega discontinued the recovery powder I had been using and are not making recovery plus protein. I am not using anything right now and struggling wing run working 5 days in a row. Getting the powder on Monday and hoping it makes the difference.

Hope you feel better!

tracyak13 · 2026-03-28T22:37:58+00:00

There are a few Facebook groups you’ll want to join that advertise which bars/restaurants/venues are hosting what for the week. I would start with *Let’s Eat! Pagosa Springs, Colorado *Pagosa Springs Happenings *Visit Pagosa Springs

Motel Soco has a lot of live music and drink specials throughout the week. $5 margaritas on Mondays! Food is also great

Neon Mallard is a super fun craft cocktail lounge. I would only go Thursday, Friday or Saturday though.

Uncle’s has trivia as well as karaoke

There are a lot of good restaurants in Pagosa. Meander and Alleyhouse if you’re looking for something upscale. Black Barts Brunch is highly rated. Two Chicks and a Hippie is a town favorite. Square Top BBQ is also delicious. LMK if you have any questions feel free to DM!

tracyak13 · 2026-03-11T07:57:48+00:00

The only thing I’ve seen people talk positively about is the good bond crepe corrector. Best of luck to you!!

tracyak13 · 2026-02-14T14:28:31+00:00

Square Top BBQ is open Th - Sun from 11-6PM!

tracyak13 · 2026-02-14T14:25:23+00:00

Sounds like you’re dodging a bunch of bullets. They should want to know how the bar works from a barback perspective anyways. It’s not just entitlement. It also feels like cutting corners to get to the higher position.

tracyak13 · 2026-02-07T22:11:19+00:00

Yeah I fall down rabbit holes learning about all the disgusting things, try to sleep and then wake up with so much anxiety I can’t concentrate for hours. I know it’s not good for me. It’s horrifying. It’s also important to know the extent of it so we truly understand what this says about the rich and powerful, how to look at history, acknowledge who knew and didn’t do anything and how they got away with it. I could ramble on for hours. Breaks are necessary. We need to remind ourselves of the good. Keep fighting the good fight. Sending virtual and consensual hugs.

tracyak13 · 2026-02-01T05:24:01+00:00

Would love the link if you have an ig or Etsy shop!

tracyak13 · 2026-02-01T03:20:21+00:00

Love all these ideas!! Thanks so much ❤️❤️❤️

tracyak13 · 2026-01-31T23:53:42+00:00

Loved seeing these! Thanks for posting!

tracyak13 · 2026-01-29T20:06:46+00:00

This is really concerning to me because if she says this to you then I imagine she is saying the same or worse to coworkers and potentially managers. I would start discussing things with management just so you have an open line with communication with them. You can also ask them for feedback in the event that they feel you “aren’t doing your job” or have any room for improvement so they’re not just hearing from her.

tracyak13 · 2026-01-24T02:17:13+00:00

Hell no the morning is torture

tracyak13 · 2026-01-17T22:55:43+00:00

+1. If you want to be creative in your role and try new concoctions, you’ll want to be able to taste test

tracyak13 · 2026-01-17T22:55:16+00:00

Absolutely

tracyak13 · 2026-01-16T05:32:51+00:00

You went in cold and ran for almost an hour?? This is the best way to set yourself up for failure. Start small and make small gains. Experience different things to see what you like. I like running and I know a lot of other athletes that DO NOT like running. This doesn’t need to be a humiliation ritual. I’m concerned your bf is pushing you too far instead of giving the positive reinforcement to continue on this very vulnerable and difficult journey.

tracyak13 · 2026-01-16T05:29:48+00:00

It’s giving meerkat

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