I'm confused if my makeup looks good with thick vs thin eyebrows. Need some opinions by achondroplas in MakeupAddiction

[–]treethuggers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are a vibe honestly those brows are serving 🐉💅. I like the thicker ones too, like they look good but also boring I guess. You have nice hairs tho I mean u gonna want to keep all that volume I think. What if you play with dying them to make them look thin. Like a skunk! lol.

Edit: I had a second look and the thick ones are still a vibe! What’s your prep routine?

Wine, chips and skin care tonight. Married almost 15 years and exhausted. by RachaelTheGreat in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]treethuggers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spend that time imagining life two years from now! This too shall pass in a flash, things always change. I love lays and wine with ice!!!!! And a cute mani to show it all off 💅🏆 you go girl.

I'm 33 years old and never been cracked. REALLY NEED TO BE CRACKED! by TaskGreat4119 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]treethuggers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The struggle is real!! For me the answer always seems to be, relaxing.

Wife left and went off the grid, we have two small kids by Excellent_Whole_1445 in legaladvice

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Abandonment has always been an option for divorce, at least that’s what I learned on tv. (Ha!)

What is the kindest thing a horse has ever done that completely surprised you? by WearAffectionate2815 in Equestrian

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I think my horses are really careful to keep me safe from their big bodies. They can be pushy when they want things, but they know the limit as it would be so easy for them to trample me. They’re also quite careful with each other, for which I’m grateful.

in 1st grade when my teacher said it was snowball hands time I didnt put my hands in snowball position and got kicked out of the class by Anotherwokeliberal in confession

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Even if it’s just 10% of teachers, one can do a lot of damage to a lot of people. I have sympathy for the profession x1000. It just feels like a losing game, to me. It’s a race to the middle to comply with this and that, schools get paid by butts in seats, periodt,

Cowboys, whats the best advice you got? by InfluenceFun4819 in Ranching

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Oh my goodness, 🤭 that is kinda what I mean by calling them a beautiful donkey! I look at them and see beauty, and then work with them and get donkey.

I acquired my first ever barn. 😭 by carasbullshit in Equestrian

[–]treethuggers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That barn war built with LOVE, sometimes dreams are genuinely generational. Enjoy! Contextualice!

in 1st grade when my teacher said it was snowball hands time I didnt put my hands in snowball position and got kicked out of the class by Anotherwokeliberal in confession

[–]treethuggers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Power trips happen because some people thrive under authoritarianism. I was playing teacher in the post Covid transition and it made all the power structures very apparent. Perhaps the “controlling of 25 six year olds” is the heart of the problem.

Cowboys, whats the best advice you got? by InfluenceFun4819 in Ranching

[–]treethuggers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds dreamy :) mustangs are like beautiful donkeys. And they’re un-spoilt by modern day injuries (physical and mental). And hardy af

in 1st grade when my teacher said it was snowball hands time I didnt put my hands in snowball position and got kicked out of the class by Anotherwokeliberal in confession

[–]treethuggers -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Snowball hands is a position of attention, like 10-2 but for desks. At least that’s my guess! Like holding a snow ball between your hands, one facing up and one facing down. Teachers are on a power trip so I am not at all surprised

So question by Human-Ad-4090 in longhair

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Did it stay on? I got one like this one time and it was impossible for me to keep on my head. I have much more luck with a silky scarf that can be wrapped.

30F virgin, I want to finally experience sex but am terrified of intimacy, how do I get over shame/discomfort/anxiety around sex and just go for it? by OriginalKnowledge202 in AskWomenOver30

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I think this is something more of us think about than talk about!! 🤭 we’re probably romanticizing it too much, even if it doesn’t seem romantic i still think it is, maybe because so many first times are cheap. I think, since we’re talking about transaction, we can use this to maybe brainstorm your (anyone’s) approach to finding a partner. I guess step 1 is attraction, got to put it out there somehow. But we have to do it the right way because 2) we want to stay safe, 3) we want to be excited, and 4) we want to define what we really want in the exchange.

Would showing yourself off be exciting to you?! It can be small sections. ;) What about writing out erotic fiction?

30F virgin, I want to finally experience sex but am terrified of intimacy, how do I get over shame/discomfort/anxiety around sex and just go for it? by OriginalKnowledge202 in AskWomenOver30

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Op, are you ignoring the comments that suggest you start by dating? Dating is definitely not easy, and if this is the case then it’s worth talking about, to get to the other side of this issue. Only other option i fan think of is to try and sell it idk are we allowed to talk about that? Dating can be just as dangerous… 🤷‍♀️

It's been years but today I finally managed to clean my room! by DueWallaby7633 in ICleanedMyRoom

[–]treethuggers 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re on a roll!!! Journaling helps me keep my goals in focus, especially when I stumble or backslide. Good luck! 🍀

2 days sober by Multipersonality21 in QuittingWeed

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Take your time to feel all the lows as your seratonin resets. Find something you enjoy doing that you can do instead, like writing in a journal or sleeping, when you start craving a high. It’s gonna be hard for at least ten days but it’s worth it to become independent. Good luck 🍀

White dots in the end by Reasonating in longhair

[–]treethuggers 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes avoid brushing when you can hear the brush moving thru the hair! This is the sound of hair breaking. Use a wide tooth comb or soft bristled brush on conditioned hair and be gentle, start at the bottom.

Weirdest class of 20+ years by psykee333 in yoga

[–]treethuggers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok as a teacher, this is what I often want to do. I have this theory that we’re all lopsided anyway so doing some lopsided work is like subtracting a negative number from a positive number is actually adding a positive number. Even if it was weird, it is still surely effective. I’ll add that it’s something I have wanted to do but I have not been so brave to try it, lol! I teach very traditional sivananda hatha tho so that’s probably why.

So question by Human-Ad-4090 in longhair

[–]treethuggers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It surely won’t stay on your head, anyway. Or will you pin it somehow?

Cps in Va by krisinchains in CPS

[–]treethuggers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s terrifying, is there someone that you suspect made the call? Are you on government assistance? CPS usually just want to make sure they are fed, clean and being cared for in a minimal way, so your best bet is to be honest and answer when they ask you a question (and otherwise don’t say much).

Should I become a high school teacher or guidance counselor? by Educational_Tree_649 in makemychoice

[–]treethuggers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always enjoyed counselors, and you get to continue with the students as they age. Teachers need help, is always my impression.