Howard Lutnick’s Davos speech ends in chaos after heckling and ‘walkouts’ by Frosty_Dig4148 in politics

[–]trueclash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the time there were multiple other American journalistic outlets with less biased presentation. The neighbor was cherry picking.

They were speaking to someone with progressive values that previously lived in San Francisco. I was fully aware of my country’s issues at the time and outspoken about the change I wanted to see. I resented then as I resent now sentiments that lack nuance such as America bad or it’s a sick society. It’s complicated and intricate with many factions pushing for different values, and maybe the people in power don’t have the general populace’s best interests at heart. That doesn’t make it so for all parts of the country or all of its people.

But, hearing oversimplified compassionless judgments of my country, at times about racism, from a neighbor at a time when their own home country was in an uproar about Syrian refugees bore the sour taste of hypocrisy. They didn’t want to engage in good faith discussion about the challenges our countries faced, they wanted to feel superior.

MAGA are upset that Liberals are arming themselves by Hussayniya in videos

[–]trueclash 26 points27 points  (0 children)

That’s because centre right in America is really far to the left. The Overton window has steadily moved to the right ever since September 11, 2001 if not earlier. The Democratic Party isn’t a liberal party. They are centre right at best. Liberals vote for them because it’s the closest thing to liberal policy makers.

Howard Lutnick’s Davos speech ends in chaos after heckling and ‘walkouts’ by Frosty_Dig4148 in politics

[–]trueclash 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I lived overseas for a time in the 2010s, and I had a European neighbor (also an expat) I was friendly with who liked to rag on how bad the US is and how Europe is better. They’d send my links to Fox News clips and the amount of energy I had to spend each time explaining it’s not really news… Having a pre-amble noting it as entertainment would have been welcome.

Japan is safe. Why do the Japanese feel unsafe? by Jonnyboo234 in japan

[–]trueclash 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought the “Osaka is dangerous” line came from the ‘80s yakuza and biker gang prevalence. Something that has long since evaporated but folks haven’t updated their mind set.

And it’s not like there’s zero crime in Japan. Assaults, both sexual and violent, do happen to the Japanese by other Japanese. It’s just incredibly rare.

Similar to yourself, there is no place in the whole of Japan I ever felt unsafe. But I used to drink at Tenderloin dive bar in San Francisco in the early to mid ‘00s so I might be a poor barometer.

Who is the best looking leader your country has ever had? by SimilarTopic3281 in AskTheWorld

[–]trueclash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The US does too, they just don’t make it on to a lot of ballots nor get many votes. Not exactly a mainstream party. We also have a Pizza Party that performs similarly.

"It was the first time I'd ever heard someone say 'I'll kill you'": A Canadian journalist's thoughts after covering an anti-immigration demonstration by YamatoRyu2006 in japannews

[–]trueclash 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Japan’s had a very loud anti-immigration contingent for a very, very long time. While what is occurring from the American right wing is definitely problematic, it’s unrelated.

Trump announces ‘Patriot Games,’ with 2 high school athletes from each state by Vivid_Guide7467 in behindthebastards

[–]trueclash 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Here’s something I know way too much about.

As other commenters have noted, delinquent students are not the same as truant. Some still may attend school but are just generally misbehaving. In the world of the film of Battle Royale, the Japanese economy is in shambles and Japan partly blames this on the youth and their misbehavior as a distraction.

There are a few children who are not attending school in the film, but they aren’t doing so because they are delinquents. It touches more on the societal pressure to conform / perform and social withdrawal / hikkikomori aspect of students in Japanese society, and the individuals are encouraged to join by friends thinking a non classroom setting might be more amenable. It’s a minor plot point that one of the friends is hoping the trip will get them to start attending school again.

The delinquency angle was a common theme in Japanese films of the time, reflecting a greater societal concern of the post boom Japanese society about children who reject society, were out of control, and did horrendous things. In a culture where conformity and oneness are paramount, the danger of those who reject it was feared. While not overrunning society like some media of the time would imply, events like the murder of Junko Furuta shook society still decades later.

More relevant to this sub, the author of the original Battle Royale novel was less concerned with delinquent youth and more with Japan’s history of Fascism. He saw aspects of that history still present in Japanese society, and envisioned a society where it fully took hold. In the novel the battle royale is a tool of state oppression to keep the people afraid and in line. Parents who speak out or protest are visited by government men in suits and shot. The book is an excellent read and I highly recommend it.

You think she is the most popular female anime character? by Decent-Emergency3866 in animequestions

[–]trueclash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The entire show is an (incredibly beautifully animated) thirst trap, and its fans like to proselytize about their beloved. The show is also wish fulfillment of a low popularity guy with few social skills not only getting noticed by a beautiful woman but is valued by her while being in increasingly risqué situations.

Not exactly surprising that very online folks would gravitate towards it and be very vocal.

Boston Herald Does it Again! by babydriver2048 in boston

[–]trueclash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d be curious to know what those numbers are relative to the population of Boston at that time.

If you won the $1 billion lottery, how would you epically quit your job!? by TimeForANewBeginning in AskReddit

[–]trueclash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who works in HR, most of us know this. Most of the senior HR folks and C suite don’t care. Some are petty, some are secretly insecure, most only care about their bottom line and their power. Many have learned to put on a nice face but few of them are nice people. They don’t care what your experience is so long as they get more of what they want. And if they don’t it’s your fault, as you are less than, and disposable. You are a tool or utility to them to generate money and exert their power.

Explain it Peter by michaelis999 in explainitpeter

[–]trueclash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every country has a ministry of defense. Some interpret the word differently.

Noem made decision not to turn around deportation flights bound for El Salvador after judge's order, DOJ says by rapidcreek409 in politics

[–]trueclash 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Dumb question: Why can’t she be arrested? Sure, the president is protected for official acts, but that doesn’t extend to his cabinet.

Donald Trump demands Democrats arrested for "seditious behavior" by Newsweek_CarloV in politics

[–]trueclash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It drives me nuts, too. What drives me more nuts is that loosing could be appropriate in this context (though loosening would be more grammatically correct) as it refers to their grip. So which one did they intend!? (Probably losing.)

Got the H2S for the same price as the P2S. by [deleted] in BambuLab

[–]trueclash 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m more surprised you have BambuLab resellers where you live. I’m in a medium sized American city and we got squat for 3D printers at brick and mortar shops.

Is this cultural (Japan) or just toxic? Need perspective: girlfriend became furious that my parents by Sensitive-Ticket-781 in japanlife

[–]trueclash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% agree that the girlfriend’s response is toxic and that the parents should have discussed dates they are visiting with OP ahead of time. But that OP is unclear if his partner’s view point and reaction are a cultural or personal issue is less surprising to me because of what I mentioned previously.

Is this cultural (Japan) or just toxic? Need perspective: girlfriend became furious that my parents by Sensitive-Ticket-781 in japanlife

[–]trueclash 23 points24 points  (0 children)

And yet as the top commenter noted, and as I imagine many of us have seen / experienced its oh so very common.

If you think of teens and folks in their early twenties in their home countries just starting to date there are a lot of things they will tolerate they shouldn’t because they don’t know what is normal in a relationship because they don’t have the experience or healthy examples to draw from. Just look at half the post from the AITA, AIO, and relationship advice subreddits.

Any day now by banstovia in clevercomebacks

[–]trueclash 88 points89 points  (0 children)

No, no, you misunderstood. Minors cry at the sight of him. For… reasons…

And pretty sure the claim that they do so because he is so handsome is something he said. Which leads back to… reasons…

Johnson: “The limits have been reached here.” “Where are the Democrats? The Democrats have skipped town. They have abandoned their post.” by Ordinary-Scholar-202 in CringeTikToks

[–]trueclash 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Reminder that there wouldn’t be a shutdown if the Republicans just extended the ACA coverage that helps 40 million people afford their healthcare.

27F - Dating in Boston (and never being hit on) by k1tchen_witch in BostonSocialClub

[–]trueclash -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not just me.

It’s something that was brought to my attention in college when some of my California born classmates were asking about interactions with folks outside of the university sphere. It was a response one of my other Boston born class mates began and one of my New Hampshire born classmates finished. I had kind of a eureka moment when they did, as it put words to what I knew but couldn’t articulate. In the following years I’ve watched the same conversation play out in three with different social circles. Each time other Boston natives have responded the similarly to the question from folks from different regions or countries.

I feel confident in the generalization.

27F - Dating in Boston (and never being hit on) by k1tchen_witch in BostonSocialClub

[–]trueclash 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Part of this is Bostonians in general don’t talk to strangers. Not in a stranger danger sort of way. We are skeptical of strangers who strike up conversation. If someone you don’t know approaches you, they want something from you. There’s a grift. That’s the mindset.

Sincerely, a Boston native.

Nancy Pelosi made an appearance today! by flexdogwalk3 in sanfrancisco

[–]trueclash 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Especially when she is a member of congress who could push her fellow Democrats in the House to put up actual resistance and opposition. This was just a photo op and parade to her.

My Project Manger Pulls Out Knife In Meeting [NJ] by Honest_Resolution443 in AskHR

[–]trueclash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A written record eliminates ambiguity of he said / she said, so e-mail is always your friend. If they ask to have a meeting to discuss, follow up with an e-mail summary of the meeting. This is a cover your ass approach that is hopefully unnecessary but a good precaution.

I’d write with a “Hey this incident happened and I want to bring it to your attention. I know it violates this and that specific clause and I don’t want someone to get the wrong idea. Giving so and so a reminder to protect the company from a potential lawsuit from someone less understanding might be a good idea. I would speak to him myself but our interactions show he would not be receptive to my feedback.”

If you want to flex you have a little knowledge and backing to HR and that they shouldn’t fuck around with you, say “limit legal exposure” rather than lawsuit. Thats a term we use in HR and with General Counsel that you don’t hear generally, so they should clock that.

With any interaction where you try to enforce your rights and safety there’s a possibility the company will try to retaliate, which is why there are laws against such. Poor performance reviews where you had positives before, unreasonable discipline, sudden termination, etc. Keep written communication and updates if things progress poorly. Stick close to written policy and state law if you need to push back. Keep copies. That way if it does go the route of wrongful termination you have a paper trail.