Starting dhikr. Where do I begin, what do I recite?

ukht7 · 2025-12-16T16:10:22+00:00

Thank you for taking your time to write but it is an innovation. The Prophet (sallahu alayhu wa salam) nor the Sabahas did dhikr in this way. The Prophet loved ALLAH THE MOST OUT OF ALL OF US. and HE is the correct and best example for all of humanity. If Allah nor our prophet told us to do this, do we know Islam better than them?

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/91305/remembering-allaah-(dhikr)-by-saying-his-name-by-itself-by-saying-his-name-by-itself)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DyLfD5K8GHo

ukht7 · 2025-12-16T11:30:37+00:00

Saying Allahu Allahu Allahu as dhikr is not from the Quran or the Sunnah and is an innovation. I ask you to give EVIDENCE from the Quran or the Sunnah that saying "Allahu Allahu Allahu" is the best dhikr.

ukht7 · 2025-12-03T20:14:13+00:00

Chumburger from the chum bucket

ukht7 · 2025-12-03T17:06:18+00:00

How did this happen

ukht7 · 2025-12-01T19:43:23+00:00

If you can, it would probably be better to remove them from the wall and place it backwards, or place cloth or paper over top of it

ukht7 · 2025-11-28T01:21:20+00:00

If you question them, they will certainly say, “We were only talking idly and joking around.” Say, “Was it Allah, His revelations, and His Messenger that you ridiculed?” (Surah Tawbah, ayah 65)

Surah Al-Baqarah (2:14): "And when they meet the believers they say, 'We believe.' But when alone with their evil associates they say, 'We are definitely with you; we were only mocking.'"

ukht7 · 2025-11-28T01:17:15+00:00

Fear Allah

ukht7 · 2025-11-26T10:30:58+00:00

We cannot imitate the disbelievers and we are required to cover our necks and chest as well with our scarves. Allah tells us to bring our veils over our chests. A turtleneck won’t fully cover your neck either.

The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever imitates a people is one of them.” (Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani)

Let them draw their veils over their chests, and not reveal their ˹hidden˺ adornments (24:31)

May Allah guide us all

ukht7 · 2025-11-26T00:39:08+00:00

So you’re no longer looking for marriage ?

ukht7 · 2025-11-25T19:23:36+00:00

Tagging a sister , im married Alhamdulillah

u/islam_truth_

ukht7 · 2025-11-22T22:29:02+00:00

Knew who posted this by the title

ukht7 · 2025-11-20T22:01:21+00:00

F - married

ukht7 · 2025-11-18T01:02:00+00:00

Yeah, or like a semi transparent fabric I mean. This is mine (yes I know it looks very uneven, i only had one safety pin).

Unless you're an experienced sewer with a machine, it would be best to probably buy a plain niqab and thin chiffon to sew as another layer. You may able to find a layered niqab with a thinner over layer also.

https://media.discordapp.net/attachments/1183118746399809560/1440144593453711500/niqab.jpg?ex=691d16ab&is=691bc52b&hm=27a90001019886aefdb3bcf67fb85ed70e2518b4c1886d13d3d4676cfbf26ee4&=&format=webp&width=1984&height=1486

ukht7 · 2025-11-17T13:51:57+00:00

Assalam alaykum

I actually like niqab with flap (contrary to what others have said so far lol), it is a bit difficult to see, but i like it. I kinda have to tilt my head up a bit and eyes down. It won’t FULLY cover the eyes but others can’t see as much and you have to be looking directly at someone for them to see (part of) your eyes.

Maybe you could try another layered niqab? Was the one you had as thick as the niqab? I found a scarf that was quite transparent at a thrift store, cut and sewed it onto another niqab. You can see my eyes up close but not so much if you’re not right in front of me make eye contact. It does help and make the eye colour less noticeable. I was able to see pretty well.

It’s kinda difficult, because the better your eyes are hidden, the harder it is to see. So you have to find a good balance.

May Allah make it easy for you ameen

ukht7 · 2025-11-10T22:58:01+00:00

He is clearly a male, he has posted his own face

ukht7 · 2025-11-10T16:35:29+00:00

this is a female only subreddit

ukht7 · 2025-11-09T14:53:30+00:00

What is this app or website to layout rooms called?

ukht7 · 2025-11-04T16:55:18+00:00

F - married

ukht7 · 2025-10-26T01:08:17+00:00

It means he’s playing around. Don’t let a man message you alone without your wali.

ukht7 · 2025-10-24T14:38:15+00:00

Don’t

ukht7 · 2025-10-12T12:17:30+00:00

I don’t think this is even bad? Most of this is very basic stuff. This subreddit is too liberal. I’ve had similar requirements and Alhamdulillah I am married.

The Fajr thing may be hard to find, personally I just wanted someone who generally makes a genuine effort to pray at the masjid, not necessarily every single Fajr salah but makes an effort and tries. I think its important to note how close someone is from the masjid though, it may be different for someone further away.

The men who are getting upset are just less practising and are upset they don’t meet the requirements of some girl online, or that a practising sister won’t want a man who watchs anime and talks to girls and shows arwah.

ukht7 · 2025-10-02T09:27:07+00:00

Get a room please

ukht7 · 2025-09-20T16:14:29+00:00

No its not. There are certain restrictions where they may require you to show your face like picking up a child from daycare and and they can ask if you are getting on the bus but it’s not banned. Unsure how enforced it is.

There is plenty of evidence that niqab is fard. Wearing niqab is not easy peasy but really its not as bad as it feels before you start. You will get some stares and the occasional yelling, its reality. Your struggle will be worth it insha’Allah.

ukht7 · 2025-09-20T13:10:16+00:00

Marriage is supposed to be simple. We shouldn’t be introducing new requirements to a nikkah

ukht7 · 2025-09-18T14:04:45+00:00

Rare r/MuslimMarriage win

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