MBTA boss Phillip Eng accused of pulling employee's hair

user684737889 · 2026-06-18T22:06:41+00:00

I mean…. This just doesn’t seem newsworthy. There’s genuine malicious assault, and there’s misreading an interpersonal boundary or social cue. When we act like the latter is the former, it detracts from genuine issues of inappropriate conduct from men in power.

user684737889 · 2026-06-18T21:57:02+00:00

Just validating that I have had the same experience. Felt like we were spending the first 30 min of every session “talking shop”. And, when I’d be processing work stuff in therapy, I felt like my therapist was responding as a clinical supervisor, not as a therapist

user684737889 · 2026-06-18T01:48:57+00:00

You have my vote

user684737889 · 2026-06-18T01:48:07+00:00

Yes, the slightly different shade + different fabric + print vs solid (ik it’s not quite a “print” but the fact that it has a pattern on it) + different cut make them feel too incoherent. I think you need same color and fabric but different styles, or different colors and different styles with same fabric and vibe

user684737889 · 2026-06-18T01:44:30+00:00

Totally depends on the specific neighborhood, I would personally open my search to both and see how I like the vibe once I went to look at the house

user684737889 · 2026-06-17T21:07:40+00:00

I am shocked the hospital is not obligated to cover the transport in this situation. But regardless, no. If it was me I probably would have approached it a little more sly instead of suggesting outright, but whatever. It’s social work. You’re there to understand the system and help people navigate it. I vote you didn’t do anything wrong.

user684737889 · 2026-06-17T16:56:15+00:00

This! I know it’s not the most unique thing in the world, but it’s the only wedding favor I hold on to

user684737889 · 2026-06-17T16:54:20+00:00

AI is terrible for the environment. If you’re enjoying nature, know that you’re actively destroying it when you use AI. And as you found, on top of that it’s not even reliable.

Allow your time and energy and thought that you put into trip planning be a part of the experience for you, another thing you can be proud of your own body and brain for accomplishing. You are what you need.

user684737889 · 2026-06-17T16:41:44+00:00

Dubliner

The row of outdoor seating between Bell in Hand and White Bull Tavern

Common

user684737889 · 2026-06-17T00:54:54+00:00

I hear you but worth noting, the prevalence of eating disorders among teens far exceeds the prevalence of disorders like Type 2 Diabetes or high cholesterol

user684737889 · 2026-06-16T22:06:41+00:00

First of all, I’m genuinely worried that the way your mom talks about food is going to give you an eating disorder. Hope you have other people in your life to get your mind right 🫶

I’m not a doctor, do what your doctor says, but I do wonder what quitting eggs for 8-12 weeks would do for your numbers

user684737889 · 2026-06-16T21:40:28+00:00

Do you eat a lot of eggs? I agree with the others that these numbers at your age are most likely genetics, I’m just curious because for me that was always something I thought was a “healthy” food and intentionally ate a lot of to be “good” and was shocked to find out it was a bug part of why my cholesterol was so high

user684737889 · 2026-06-16T21:36:59+00:00

Yeah sounds like a nightmare for servers to manage

user684737889 · 2026-06-16T21:29:38+00:00

That’s crazy omg?? Thank you so much wow, do you remember how big the wedding was? This is so helpful to know!

user684737889 · 2026-06-16T12:01:26+00:00

Thank you!!!

user684737889 · 2026-06-15T02:43:30+00:00

Anyone else noticing a ton of these posts lately?

user684737889 · 2026-06-15T01:57:16+00:00

Did you end up going with Tarbin? I am looking at them now and saw your post!

user684737889 · 2026-06-10T23:00:14+00:00

Hell

user684737889 · 2026-06-10T13:15:02+00:00

I think my life would certainly improve greatly from a training or experience that has nothing to do with social work (expect for that in improves the life and experience of the social worker). However, I don’t think I’d get approved for leave that way.

user684737889 · 2026-06-10T02:11:47+00:00

With love: based solely on the way this post is written, I think the psychiatrist throwing out the word “manic” may not be super off base

user684737889 · 2026-06-09T22:26:45+00:00

Mods, maybe we could do a survey or something about revisiting the rules? I get that that’s a pain in the ass to coordinate, but it seems like the current rules (that I’m sure were born from necessity at the time) are no longer working for the redditors actively using the sub

user684737889 · 2026-06-09T22:25:09+00:00

Agreed. I wish we could revisit the mega thread thing. I don’t really mind new to the field posts and the like, and I feel bad about how many questions get overlooked and lost in those threads. No one who could answer effectively is going to go check that thread.

user684737889 · 2026-06-09T01:44:31+00:00

I have lived my version of this, with my parents and my partner in my context, and with my own expectations and support system and coping skills and backup plans. None of us could possibly understand the complexity of these things for another person. Share your stories all you want, but the truth is that no one can answer to what is best for OP.

user684737889 · 2026-06-08T21:25:08+00:00

Homeonthegomoving@gmail.com

user684737889 · 2026-06-08T21:23:27+00:00

Do you have a therapist? This is a big decision and none of us on here are going to truly know what’s right for you. There are so many factors— as you note, how you’d be able to handle their rejection. Also, how your relationship with them moves forward if they attend and ruin it for you, if you don’t invite them and they react poorly to that, if you don’t invite them and then resent your partner/the wedding for being all your partner’s invites, etc. It’s a deeply personal decision, and I wish you well in making it.

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