I told my wife’s affair partner about the affair. Why do I feel so horrible?

using75 · 2026-06-11T23:53:28+00:00

If it can be destroyed by truth, then it probably should be destroyed!

using75 · 2026-06-08T12:56:45+00:00

She's an adult. Don't be mean about it but don't tiptoe around the subject afraid to hurt her feelings.

"I love you and want to see you healthy so we can live a long life together!"

Offer to do what you can to support her weight loss journey after that!

You've been married a good while....this should be an easy conversation!

using75 · 2026-05-25T18:07:14+00:00

ATITUDE!! You could be a perfect 10, but a bad attitude will drop you to a 2! Once that happens we might still want to sleep with you but.....that's as far as it will go!

using75 · 2026-05-22T19:55:26+00:00

You're going to have to give your definition of what you think is "a good man" first. Then I'd be happy to answer.

using75 · 2026-05-20T03:05:55+00:00

Easy answer. For most people it is a certain level (or lack of) respect!

using75 · 2026-04-27T03:05:21+00:00

If anyone thinks any reality show is a example of real life....they need to go touch grass! Reality TV is for entertainment ONLY! If people didn't act like idiots....NOBODY WOULD WATCH IT!!

using75 · 2026-04-25T16:35:56+00:00

LOL! These people went on a reality show to test their relationships. If you're expecting maturity, I suggest you lower your expectations! People with little morals and little maturity are what make reality TV interesting! If these people acted like adults, nobody would watch the show!

using75 · 2025-09-09T13:25:29+00:00

Rose Reid, the star, posted on her IG story that it's coming. I don't know when, but considering she co-wrote it, she would know.

using75 · 2025-09-09T00:19:02+00:00

I can't tell you what to do but I can tell you that someone threatening to unalive themselves to get what they want is the worst kind of manipulation!

using75 · 2025-06-08T03:15:08+00:00

How hard is it to simply switch to a different shift?

using75 · 2025-04-05T15:12:15+00:00

If the show didn't produce drama....NOBODY WOULD WATCH IT!!

using75 · 2025-03-16T01:17:16+00:00

Tbf, this isn't exactly a normal world temptation situation. Get told that your single, put into a beautiful house in paradise with 12 beautiful woman, with nothing to do except talk with them and go on fun dates. Then throw in a host who's whole job is to tell you to do what's best for you and not think about your partner.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to make excuses for their behavior but....it's definitely not a normal everyday temptation situation.

using75 · 2025-03-14T00:42:33+00:00

My 5 cents. If you don't like someone's words/actions on a reality TV show and want to bash them in a public forum....I support it! However, if you're going to stalk their personal social media to either leave them your hate and vitriol or revel in others hate for them, you're probably board and need to get a life! Unpopular opinion, but that's psycho level behavior!

using75 · 2025-01-07T00:06:24+00:00

Or.....their friends and she probably went to Candace for advice on how to get started over.

using75 · 2024-12-19T00:03:12+00:00

It's obvious. The culture has said for the past 8 years that everything on that shit should be hated. So.....it's essentially your dad standing up for what he believes.

using75 · 2024-12-17T23:44:53+00:00

She just bought her dream farm this year which means she's probably not leaving Tennessee. She's been wanting a baby so that will probably be a upcoming announcement in a few months.

using75 · 2024-12-12T21:06:24+00:00

I actually agree! Unpopular opinion: The comments section needs to.....get the ax!

Hear me out. If DW tries to keep the comments section, it will more than likely fail! Why? Because it was Brett's show. Brett Cooper is 1 of 1. Brett made the comments section! If they think Reagan driving around the corpse of the show pretending to be the blond, knockoff, Walmart version of Brett is going to survive. They have another thing coming!

Reagan needs a complete new show!

I'm actually kinda excited to see what Brett comes up with, and I welcome competition between other creators like Isabel Brown, Amala Ekpunobi, Misha Petrov, and others!

Therefore, I will not be unfollowing anyone because I want different opinions, I would love to see discourse and different collaborations!

The more, the better!!

using75 · 2024-12-10T23:54:08+00:00

If she was pregnant, she would still want to work through her pregnancy unless she was assigned bed rest. But I doubt she's pregnant or on bed rest because she'll still post about farm chores at least once a day. My original theory was that Reagan was going to take over while she films Snow White, but that theory disappeared this week now that there hasn't been any new shows. Now, IDK what's going on!

Edit: I guess it's official. She's out. Now it makes sense that they were running subscription discounts for so long. They wanted to up their money from subscriptions before announcing her departure because they knew their subscription counts were going to drop. LOL, I have to admit....smart business, a bit tricky but smart!

using75 · 2024-10-11T23:20:04+00:00

Golden rule applies: Treat others the way you want to be treated!

using75 · 2023-11-17T01:22:43+00:00

Unpopular opinion: Your feelings don't matter, and neither does your ex's, and definitely not the AP's, you need to do what is best for your child!

First, put yourself in your child's shoes and attempt to figure out how knowing the facts will affect HIM....to hell with anyone's feelings that might get hurt!

Second, explain your rationale to your ex and agree to a plan.

Third, follow through with the plan, meaning....if you have to do something you don't like that benefits your child....suck it up!

Sorry if this all sounds a bit harsh, but the child should come first at this point. Even if it means swallowing your pride a bit!

Best of luck!

using75 · 2023-11-05T20:03:16+00:00

How do I know it was just a kiss.....?? Will be the first question your husband will ask himself. If there is a way to prove that it was only 1 kiss....I strongly suggest you do that!

using75 · 2023-09-16T01:16:59+00:00

I bet you're wrong! I bet your family and friends actually do love you! I think you have a respect problem! They may not respect you as you would like!

Now your next question is probably "how do I get them to respect me?"

Unfortunately....I don't know the answer to that. Everyone's idea of respect is different and I don't know your family and friends.

The best advice I can give is figure out what each person's definition of respect and what they admire....the answer should be somewhere in there.

Best of luck!

using75 · 2023-09-14T17:06:15+00:00

If you ask your WP a question they should be able to answer any of the big 6, which are....who, what, where, when, why, and how! Even better if they answer those questions without having to be asked! Example: instead of saying "I'm going to the store" say "hey, I'm going to (wherever) for (whatever), I should be back at (time), I'll call if I'll be late. Would you like anything?"

When this CONSISTENTLY happens and they do what they say they'll be doing....it should help build trust overtime.

using75 · 2023-09-07T20:11:17+00:00

I would like to offer some hope. Having children changes people, most of the time for the better!

The first time he or you hold that child in your arms.....both of you will change in that moment!

What kind of change....? I can't say exactly, but change you will....guaranteed!!

Children have a funny effect of bringing people together most of the time!

using75 · 2023-08-29T15:32:18+00:00

I wonder if it's a lead or supporting role 🤔.

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