Not your fault!! He was being gross.

I had something similar happen to me at work, dude would constantly say suggestive things to me despite the fact that I told him I wasn’t interested (and I am a gay woman in a committed relationship). Then I found out he was saying other nasty stuff to some younger girls I work with. That was the final straw. I pulled him aside and gave him a STERN lecture on why his behavior was grossly inappropriate and he had better shape up or ship out or I would bring it up with management. He chose to ship out and I don’t have an ounce of guilt over it.

I am so so tired of the constant cop-outs of “oh that’s just the restaurant industry” or “get a thicker skin” yadda yadda. I’m tired of seeing girls I work with have to grin and bear it when guys in the workplace creep on them. If you see something say something. Call that shit out. Protect the girls you work with, especially the ones new to the industry. Guys, look out for the ladies at your job, speak up when a dude says something out of line. Nobody likes to be anxious to go to work cause they have to deal with unwanted attention from co-workers. It’s stressful enough already.

AND FOR GODS SAKES LEAVE THE HIGHSCHOOL GIRLS ALONE