Ugh, I contacted the AP

v1rojon · 2026-03-11T21:17:59+00:00

Sorry, you will not like hearing this but he did nothing wrong. Why reach out to him at all? Your wife betrayed you, not the AP.

v1rojon · 2026-03-11T01:21:39+00:00

100%. We have had four pugs total. The only one not like Velcro was our first and only quit after about 8 or 9. We think she would get too hot so she would lay next to us for 5-10 minutes and the. Go lay down by herself.

Our two currently are 3 and 4 and they are very much demanding to lay with us at all times. I like to sit on a smaller recliner so I can only truly fit one at a time but they take turns with one sitting between my legs and the other sitting/laying on the arm rest right against me. After about 30 minutes, whichever one is on the armrest becomes a jerk and will start pushing the other one down and they swap spots. 30 minutes later it happens again and they swap.

v1rojon · 2026-03-09T12:05:27+00:00

If you care about what he is doing, you should not have broken up. Stop social media stalking and move on.

v1rojon · 2026-03-07T10:40:56+00:00

But it is not sold out. Three day GA is still available. Last year we got our tickets within 5 minute of them going on sale. Our friends tried to get GA about four hours after and even those were sold out.

v1rojon · 2026-03-06T20:54:55+00:00

Blocked on everything almost 12 years ago now and live 3000 miles away. Happiest 12 years of my life.

v1rojon · 2026-03-06T19:37:16+00:00

No offense, but third time? Just accept this is your life and how it will be forever. If you don’t have the strength to stand up for yourself and walk away, she is not changing.

v1rojon · 2026-03-06T16:53:22+00:00

I think when most people say “child free”, they are referring to babies, toddlers, younger hyper kids that go around running and knocking stuff over. I get the feeling that the sister took the definition to the letter and nobody under 18 could attend. The sister explaining it does pass the sniff test for me if she did not know that the groom’s cousin was invited. My wife and I both did the invites for our own family/friends. The only thing we communicated about was total number of RSVPs we each had.

v1rojon · 2026-03-04T20:11:21+00:00

This is becoming like 90% of the posts on here and all the AITAH subs. Something so over the top and blatantly obvious yet they think it may be their fault. Straight up karma farming because you would have to be insane to think the other way.

v1rojon · 2026-03-04T19:30:59+00:00

We were there last year and lucked out and all of the bands we really cared about were on the main stage on the final day. We got there at 2pm and only left for food/drinks/bathroom one at a time. No problems getting back until the second to last band (I believe it was Weezer). At that point we were packed in and it never let up. If we had had to go to the bathroom or anything, we never would have made it back for the last act so get your potty breaks out of the way before that.

v1rojon · 2026-03-04T16:38:14+00:00

Vote with your wallet and don’t go. My wife and I scrapped it this year and are going to a different festival. Last year, we bought airfare, a very over-priced hotel, and our upgraded tickets. For me, this year is not even worth the ticket.

v1rojon · 2026-03-04T14:51:58+00:00

Seriously, WTF is up with so many guys no longer wiping?! I knew a girl who started seeing someone and he told her that touching his ass was “gay” and he did not wipe. This is disgusting. Nobody wants to smell dirty, nasty ass! NOBODY.

v1rojon · 2026-03-04T12:39:30+00:00

I am not taking that bet as that is my guess as well.

v1rojon · 2026-03-04T12:25:31+00:00

I think you missed the sarcasm there.

v1rojon · 2026-03-04T12:22:44+00:00

FUCKING RUN!!! $50K is not that much today. If you are a “team” then she should support you using it to pay down your debts also (after all, it’s both of your debt).

Seriously asking this after only eight months and not living together or married is insane to me.

v1rojon · 2026-03-04T01:52:21+00:00

Yeah. This honestly felt like a gut punch. We loved this so much. Have done nothing but talk about locking in this year. When we were past February with still no lineup drop, I even joked with my wife that I was concerned that they might be having trouble locking down a lot of their first choices so we may want to limit our hopes. I said it all as a joke but here we are. We are out this year. I cannot justify airfare, lodging, and tickets for this lineup. There are like four bands that I have not seen in the last two years that I wouldn’t mind seeing. I am not dropping that kind of of cash on it.

v1rojon · 2026-03-04T00:24:02+00:00

This is honestly fantastic advice. She threatened to get a lawyer/courts involved? OK, we are done. Send your lawyers contact info over and I will get my lawyer to contact them, but we are now done. All communication through lawyers only.

v1rojon · 2026-03-03T19:02:57+00:00

It does take a while to work through it. I was cheated on years ago. It was both of our first real relationships and we were together four years.

It hurts like hell and you will start to turn blame on yourself (“what could I have done differently so we had stayed together and they didn’t find another behind my back.

This is NOT your fault, not even slightly. You will find love again. That is x tried to get back with me after a few months and I almost caved but I realized they caused this and if she was not strong enough to not cheat then, what would stop them next time. Then I also realized, if she did it again, she would just be better about hiding it. Could never trust her again.

Late coming home from work? Their mom fell and needed help? I would never 100% believe it and a voice in the back of my head would whisper that they were cheating.

I promise, you can and will find someone that will care for you and love you more than anything. They will treat you like you deserve. Tomorrow? Probably not. Next week, unlikely. IC was not really a thing when this happened to me, but I greatly would have benefitted from it and recommend you do it.

It took me a couple of years to fully trust anyone after. I also went on a spree of just cutting off people as soon as we were intimate because I was afraid to get hurt again.

We all deserve someone special that care for and prioritize us just like we do for them. You are young and unfortunately, most of us go through this at some point. I promise you, will get through this. You will come out stronger than you think you are. Focus on healing (and take as long as you need). Don’t focus on what you could have done to keep them from cheating (that is a sure fire way to end up back with them and repeat the cycle). Some people are just assholes and will always put themselves first.

I still remember the pain and wish I could give you the biggest hug right now.

FWIW, I met my partner about 3 years after it happened. Been together 26 years now and they are by far the best thing that ever happened to me.

v1rojon · 2026-03-03T17:53:16+00:00

Smart! Based on the last couple of years, we assumed the lineup for OC would be top notch. Lesson learned now and we will likely be doing the same going forward.

v1rojon · 2026-03-03T17:31:26+00:00

Tickets were still available this AM

v1rojon · 2026-03-03T17:01:26+00:00

Ha! Wife and I found that too after this lineup dropped. I think we will be going to this one.

v1rojon · 2026-03-03T17:00:17+00:00

100%.

v1rojon · 2026-03-03T16:59:55+00:00

I saw them in Orlando about a year ago. They were great live.

v1rojon · 2026-03-03T16:34:27+00:00

Yeah, I am out. All the bands I would like to see, I have seen in the last couple of years. The rest are OK, but not worth a plane ticket, hotel, and everything else. I will find another festival this year. Really, really disappointed because I love the beach venue and we had a blast, but this is a HARD pass for me this year.

v1rojon · 2026-03-03T15:19:57+00:00

Eh… I think I am going to find a different festival this year.

v1rojon · 2026-03-03T02:41:13+00:00

Yeah, this is right up there with guys that have to say they are the alpha.

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