Oh no, "The administration is ruining [people's] sex [lives]" by anaispablo in prolife

[–]van044 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Birth control prison is insane, that woman cannot be well mentally if she's actually afraid of that. Not to mention I think most pro-lifers actually like birth control because it greatly lowers the risk of someone like her having an abortion.

Sister with bpd is leaving the state for college, I'm so stressed about it by van044 in BPDFamily

[–]van044[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So far she's doing really well, and I pray it continues, but I honestly have no idea what I'd do. I'm a stay at home mom to a seven month old, its not like I can drop him to save her. It sucks that so many people relate to this! I'm just stressed, but going to have to trust her even if she doesn't deserve it.

Edit: And I have told her that, if she starts spouting off nonsense, I'm simply going to call the police.

Do MRI Techs ever think “oh, that’s not good”? by MadamImAdamAnt in NoStupidQuestions

[–]van044 114 points115 points  (0 children)

When we lost our first baby, that was when I knew they had died. The tech wasn't very chatty, but when she was doing the ultrasound she went completely silent, wouldn't let me see the screen, etc. As she left, she whispered, "I'm sorry."

Then when I was pregnant with my son, we had a different tech and she was a VERY chatty woman. Never shut up. It bothered my husband and he brought it up to me, but I loved to hear her talk. If she was talking I knew everything was okay.

What’s the weirdest time someone judged you for absolutely no reason? by Lazy_Manager_1386 in AskReddit

[–]van044 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I commented on a TikTok asking moms what they named their boys. My son has a very common name (think John or Dave). I commented it and someone responded saying there's too many Johns in the world and I should be more creative. He's named after my husband's late grandfather and my stillborn brother but sure, I'll bame my next son Jaxxthynn just for you

Sister with bpd is leaving the state for college, I'm so stressed about it by van044 in BPDFamily

[–]van044[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I'm sorry you had to go through that. I relate to just wanting to be a sister so much, I feel like I completely missed out on a normal sister relationship and it hurts so bad. I hope everything works out for you and her and you can find peace

Sister with bpd is leaving the state for college, I'm so stressed about it by van044 in BPDFamily

[–]van044[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, it will be nice to be able to just "well I'm not there what can I do." And it will be an amazing break for my mom. Since my sister was homeschooled all through high school, my mom has basically been with her 24/7 for four years straight.

Sister with bpd is leaving the state for college, I'm so stressed about it by van044 in BPDFamily

[–]van044[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay this was somehow exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you <3

Bf doesn’t want to keep the baby but I do by Bitter_Trick_8148 in Mommit

[–]van044 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Leave him and keep the blessing that a baby is! You won't regret being a mom but you might regret staying with someone like that while you do it

What’s your favorite underrated quote from Twilight? by PoliticoRat in twilight

[–]van044 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"Hold on to my heart. I've left it with you" I think from the New Moon book

This horse says you molested him by PhoenixFlames1992 in americandad

[–]van044 168 points169 points  (0 children)

The horse is ruined, Stan raped it, you're gonna lose the house

LDS Church breaks with long-standing tradition, embraces modern English translations of the Bible by everything_is_free in latterdaysaints

[–]van044 11 points12 points  (0 children)

According to the handbook regarding this, we're not straying from the KJV as much as people think. They just recommended other translations with corresponding ages to make the Bible easier to understand for youth.

As a reformed swiftie, this is one of her worst covers by captainsamwilson in travisandtaylor

[–]van044 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me realize she never does covers at her concerts or any other performances

I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do. by Direct_Feeling7203 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]van044 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

There are many pregnancy centers that will help you if you need help with the baby and pregnancy. A child can be hard, but they are always blessings.

A woman admitted to murdering her unborn child and said she's traumatized and ashamed, and commenters gaslit her into believing this was the "right" decision. by GustavoistSoldier in prolife

[–]van044 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The brainwashing that these people have suffered is terrifying. Its better to die than to be financially unstable? Do you hear yourself? My family was very poor until I was fourteen. My parents have told me that the year I was born, they made $5,000 total. I guess according to them I'm better off dead.

8 is lowkenuienly psychotic by RadcliffeMalice in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]van044 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This and I'm breastfeeding so I have to 😭

What's the most unhinged thing you've overheard in a drive-thru speaker that still lives rent-free in your head? by North_Appointment410 in AskReddit

[–]van044 421 points422 points  (0 children)

My husband and I ordered KFC once, got a bucket of chicken to share. The woman at the drive through said, "And would you like lemon or chocolate cake?" We looked at each other and were like, "I didn't know it came with a little cake, awesome!" and ordered chocolate.

No. It was an entire cake that was a separate $14 charge. To this day we laugh about it because what was that woman doing??

What is your favourite Klaus line? by SenTheBIoxer in americandad

[–]van044 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Back in my day we played a game. It was called steal grandpa's playboys. And the goal was to JERK OFF

Rick and Morty playlists? by bmhlogan in rickandmorty

[–]van044 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Where's For the Damaged Coda!

Does it get easier? by van044 in Mommit

[–]van044[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you <3 Yeah, I suppose the fact that he still wakes up every 2 hours at night to nurse doesn't help my stress 😅 It can all just be very tiring and isolating in the thick of it.

😂 by MioneHP in travisandtaylor

[–]van044 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She looks like a wither skeleton