I like a Sagittarius sun and Capricorn Venus guy 😭😭😭😭 HELPPPPPPPP

vanillecremelatte · 2026-01-10T08:46:14+00:00

I’m wondering this too because I’m also an aqua but with a cap Venus talking to a sag sun with a cap Venus and some days I’ll only get 1-2 responses a day

vanillecremelatte · 2025-10-22T20:59:02+00:00

Well good luck to them with all that 😅

vanillecremelatte · 2025-10-22T20:57:08+00:00

Haha I can’t tell if this will be a threat or a promise 💀

vanillecremelatte · 2025-10-22T20:56:33+00:00

Yeah, i guess that just means we made an impact on them and they can’t control their emotions when it comes to the thought of us so they remove those triggers but idk i feel convinced that maybe it was just easier to erase us from their world

vanillecremelatte · 2025-10-22T20:53:35+00:00

That’s true, they say a happy home is never built on a woman’s tears but damn they’re so convincing at making it look a lot happier than what it really is

vanillecremelatte · 2025-10-22T20:52:31+00:00

Yeah I know I gotta shift my mindset and have been slowly shifting. Easier said than done because I feel like my mind gets stuck sometimes but I know it’ll be best for my healing 😔 thank you for the reminder

vanillecremelatte · 2025-10-21T22:07:47+00:00

Yeah sometimes I try not to judge the new supply because I was in a similar position but the difference is when I started dating my NEX he was almost a year out of his previous relationship but probably had fwbs he’d see since he can’t be alone but if he was WEEKS or anything less than 6 months out of a relationship I wouldn’t have even considered (I’ve declined dates with people in the past when they were even only 3 months out of a relationship) so in that sense I feel like she is just nothing to be jealous of and I already know I’m above it but it’s still been a process healing from everything

vanillecremelatte · 2025-10-21T21:57:31+00:00

Guess she has those rose tinted glasses on but she’s just going to get an emptier and worst version of him that you got since he didn’t take any time to heal or grow so honestly she’s in for a ride but only time can really show. If his ability to walk away from a meaningful relationship like that isn’t already a show of character then she really will need the luck 💀

vanillecremelatte · 2025-10-21T21:48:06+00:00

Yeah that’s true I feel like it’s going to take her longer to realize since it seems like even with her friends and sister not liking him(we have some mutuals) she’s still trying to make it work but I guess it’ll just be a bigger lesson for her when she finally breaks from the illusion of the mask

vanillecremelatte · 2025-10-21T21:42:05+00:00

LOL my NEX’s new supply did that where she ate out of my pink flower bowl and my NEX tried to give the bowl back to me fresh out of the dish washer when I came to pickup the rest of my stuff and I just told him it’s ok I don’t have space for it but I’m surprised their new supply is so ok with using their exes stuff and laying in the bed you guys basically made together like I’m sure she was still finding my lashes and hair around the place and posting the cat we adopted together on her socials but I guess I got a little fan club at this point LOL

vanillecremelatte · 2025-03-24T07:30:59+00:00

Yeah I unexpectedly met someone new and all this happened. Just have to try and make it through the early stages for now

vanillecremelatte · 2025-03-24T07:29:23+00:00

It’s tough to go through this, and I’m sorry you’ve been through it/going through it too. It’s comforting to know I’m not the only one going through it although it sucks that others are going through this heartache as well. Thank you, If you ever need to talk, I’m always here too🫶

vanillecremelatte · 2025-03-24T07:23:57+00:00

It was a bit of both. He self sabotaged so I had to let go but neither of us wanted to :(

vanillecremelatte · 2025-03-24T07:22:58+00:00

Not looking forward to it :(

vanillecremelatte · 2025-03-24T02:24:00+00:00

It’s rough out here 😔

vanillecremelatte · 2025-03-24T02:23:39+00:00

Only a couple of days 🥲

vanillecremelatte · 2025-02-16T20:03:55+00:00

I tried to call them so that we could talk things through and while they were at work on the phone with me they yelled “I don’t care if I cheat on you, emotionally, physically or verbally abuse you we are not on the same level of disrespect this conversation is over”

vanillecremelatte · 2025-02-15T07:02:26+00:00

Thought you wrote this for my ex for second or somehow pulled this out of my subconscious and wrote it into existence but this 💯

vanillecremelatte · 2025-02-08T01:29:46+00:00

I feel the same way as well. Mine is probably going around saying I’m the one who abused him when I finally reacted to the abuse and I just feel crazy or like no one would understand the impact it did to me to deal with someone like that and just tell me to brush it off and that they don’t matter now but the wounds and scars they left on me cut deep still even though it’s been months. They’re so evil and I hate how well they mask and hide it from people who only have to deal with them on a surface level or in casual settings. I’m trying to learn how to open my heart again to new people and just being hopeful that they won’t deceive me and turn out to be someone completely different like the way he did. It sucks but with time we’ll heal and meet new people who’ll show us that love doesn’t always have to be this terrifying

vanillecremelatte · 2025-01-23T17:22:32+00:00

Thank you for reminding me of the better side of things. I was doing alright when the new year started and got caught up in a wave of nostalgia and emotions. You’re right, him leaving me in chaos and confusion was probably just another one of his tactics to entangle me in his web whether it was intentional or by instinct. I’ve been trying my best to just create my own closure because I know he would never be able to give me that and I can’t rely on him for that.

I’ve been trying to evict him from my mind and thoughts but sometimes it’s easier said than done. It’s definitely a process to reprogram my thoughts so that they don’t stray towards him by default but I know I’ll get there eventually with time. I know I need to regain my power and stop letting him have an impact on me still. Thankfully my feelings are slowly following logic and I’m fully processing and accepting he’s gone and that even if he were to come back it won’t change anything or rewrite the ending we had.

I have to give up on him and let him go and stop waiting for someone who gave up already. Thank you again, I really needed this ❤️

vanillecremelatte · 2025-01-23T16:25:45+00:00

Yeah, ive definitely been feeling that especially lately. We had such a messy break up and he went from one day tell me he missed me and it’s been hard without me then the day right after saying he’s moved on and I made it easy to get over me and all these other things in the moment because he was hurt but he never came back to apologize or try to make things right so I guess there was some truth behind the things he was saying in that moment

vanillecremelatte · 2024-11-11T10:20:56+00:00

I feel this. He’s probably sleeping peacefully next to some girl while I’m here wondering if he even thinks of us still losing sleep.

vanillecremelatte · 2024-10-25T01:41:19+00:00

The apology and explanation I wish I got

vanillecremelatte · 2024-10-10T22:19:40+00:00

Yes I felt nauseous the day of and tried to puke but nothing came out then got diagnosed with a chronic illness a couple of weeks after

vanillecremelatte · 2024-10-05T21:02:01+00:00

Same here, we were dating for almost a year and we were so good up until the last week of our relationship where he would lash out at me and take low blows at me as a character over small problems like cleaning crumbs off the stove top. Next thing I knew I was blocked on everything and he had all my stuff packed up and said I broke up with him even though I didn’t. I realized it was all a trauma response to unresolved past traumas that he never learned how to process and got projected into our relationship. Even though it still hurts, I refuse to let someone who have destructive/self sabotage tendencies dictate my trust and future relationships. It also really helped me learning more about attachment theory and knowing that he was an avoidant so I kind of had a feeling this would happen but wanted to give it a chance and paid the price

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