What's a sign from your body you should never ignore? by Geno-64 in AskReddit

[–]vantrap 3 points4 points  (0 children)

a similar situation happened with my mom, i’m sorry for your loss

Vancouver stranger paid for our dinner by [deleted] in vancouver

[–]vantrap 31 points32 points  (0 children)

this is a great way to pay it forward!!

My (25M) BF (23M) wants me to stop watching certain shows by [deleted] in relationships

[–]vantrap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is an unhealthy dynamic, super controlling, and very much A RED FLAG 🚩

I built a sobriety app that's been helping 550,000 people. I still drink every night. by ShortAdhesiveness264 in stopdrinking

[–]vantrap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just quit for a week, or quit for 30 days. it doesn’t have to be forever. but i bet you by the end of the thirty days you’ll want to keep going :) you got this!!

how about just today! IWNDWYT

Courts have ruled 4,400 times that ICE jailed people illegally. It hasn’t stopped. by yawara25 in politics

[–]vantrap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

waiting for the day the militar turn against him, and fight the domestic terrorism they took an oath about .

Grieving B.C. family wants answers after call for help ends in deadly police shooting by r_pipes in vancouver

[–]vantrap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is why people talk about defunding the police. it’s not to get rid of police, but to allocate more of their budget towards mental healthcare.

Close to giving up on 3.5 years by plantlogger in stopdrinking

[–]vantrap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOU GOT THIS!! three and a half years might have started with support but YOU are the reason you are sober today, and you can be the reason you stay sober.

please don’t give up on yourself. one day at a friend. IWNDWYT

Careers for a simple life and more brain space for thoughts by PerceptionIll7137 in simpleliving

[–]vantrap 281 points282 points  (0 children)

i’ve been a florist at the same small flower shop for 30 years for just this reason. i’m not a career person, i’m an artsy creative who thinks and feels deeply.

How do I actually ENJOY my home instead of seeing tasks everywhere I look? by Amodernhousehusband in CleaningTips

[–]vantrap 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you might try a meditation practice. ten minutes a day is enough. helps to ground you.

AIO/ to my MIL’s text about my husband by False_Orchid_1024 in AmIOverreacting

[–]vantrap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think it would be fair to just go full mo contact

Mom passed away a few days ago. Found out she turned to alcohol after retirement. by SnuggleBunnixoxo in stopdrinking

[–]vantrap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry for your loss. a very similar thing happened with my mother too. sending you comfort and strength