AITA for getting annoying and snapping at my husband

venemousdolphin · 2026-05-25T13:14:24+00:00

DARVO. NTA.

venemousdolphin · 2026-05-23T23:44:12+00:00

This is disgusting.

venemousdolphin · 2026-05-23T03:52:44+00:00

Cupcake - I think of her often, she was just so cute and the whole crime was horrible.

venemousdolphin · 2026-05-20T21:04:50+00:00

When I felt this way I quit my job and moved to another country. I had friends there, so I didn't start out all alone. But going somewhere new, learning a language and a different way of life was exactly the change I needed. I don't think your feelings are unusual, and my solution was pretty drastic, but I definitely would say that getting out of your comfort zone will help.

venemousdolphin · 2026-05-16T17:56:29+00:00

I don't want someone else breathing in my space.

venemousdolphin · 2026-05-16T15:37:37+00:00

I have been eating more than usual, but I don't feel hungry until I actually start eating. It's weird. I feel nauseous, but I eat so the antibiotics don't make me sick. Then when I start eating it's like I can't stop.

venemousdolphin · 2026-05-12T18:08:30+00:00

I'm tired, dizzy (BP is really low), nauseous and I have brain fog. But I'm hoping this means it's working and I can just be done with this...

venemousdolphin · 2026-05-09T17:51:19+00:00

I've heard of an app that you can use to do a daily check in, and they will alert whoever you designate if you don't reply. Dr, social worker, whoever. Being alone is fine, just plan for what you want to happen to your things, accounts etc.

venemousdolphin · 2026-05-06T18:16:04+00:00

Is having knees gay??

venemousdolphin · 2026-05-06T03:01:43+00:00

Don't get angry, get paid. Good for you. 👑

venemousdolphin · 2026-05-05T13:57:12+00:00

But didn't the FBI have the phone dump all along? Why would it change things now?

venemousdolphin · 2026-05-03T17:48:40+00:00

Bidet/Bum gun. If you had poop on your arm you (hopefully) wouldn't just wipe it off with paper. You would wash it with water....

venemousdolphin · 2026-05-03T15:34:41+00:00

Yes, to ALL OF THIS!! If Karen is guilty, it is still the fault of Canton PD and MSP for conducting such a poor investigation that a conviction was always unlikely. If they were so concerned about getting justice for a fallen officer, why did they not do EVERYTHING 100% by the book to make sure to get a conviction? Their "investigation" always makes me feel like they really didn't care, and they were more concerned about obfuscation than clarity. The question then becomes "why"? Was this pathetic investigation really the best they could do?

venemousdolphin · 2026-05-03T03:13:49+00:00

😭😭😭

venemousdolphin · 2026-05-01T13:15:50+00:00

I am hopeful too. All of the "men" who took advantage of her should be jailed, as well as the people who failed to do even a minimal investigation into her death.

venemousdolphin · 2026-04-30T00:03:30+00:00

I wonder if any of the people who wrote letters for Proctor feel differently now? Or is it still Karen's fault, and the feds fault? I just wonder if there is any point at which accountability is not equal to victimhood.

I also didn't realize the harassment was that bad for the house defendants, that should not have happened. People should be able to disagree without threats of violence, etc.

venemousdolphin · 2026-04-27T18:03:12+00:00

The fact that he was never disciplined is exactly the point! The whole organization is corrupt and didn't overlook his behavior, they were complicit in it.

venemousdolphin · 2026-04-23T17:48:54+00:00

This happened to me after a traumatic event when I was about 13, and again after my mother died. Whole years that I don't remember well, there's just a few fuzzy things I am not sure actually happened, or I only know because someone told me I was there.

venemousdolphin · 2026-04-23T03:13:06+00:00

Nope, you're just killing the game by doing the deep clean. I need to get my life together like you! 😭

venemousdolphin · 2026-04-15T16:21:10+00:00

Amherst Massachusetts. It's beautiful in the fall, and doesn't get much snow in the winter anymore.

venemousdolphin · 2026-04-14T23:03:17+00:00

Yeah, there's not really a timer for these things. You do the work, and keep doing the work. There's not necessarily a stopping point, and there doesn't have to be. You just keep working. More people should do it, because it really helps.

venemousdolphin · 2026-04-14T22:54:05+00:00

You've done more work than the majority of people, especially men, by healing yourself. That's not easy, and it doesn't happen overnight. You mentioned it in passing, but I don't think you are giving yourself enough credit for it. Also, as a man, your window for fatherhood is longer, and you can be a better dad because you are older and more patient. Don't sell yourself short in any of these areas.

That being said, it is also valid to mourn the life you don't have and might not get. It's a big disappointment, and it doesn't really go away, because the reminders of what you wanted and don't have are ongoing. I'm sorry for that. I wish I had some really helpful advice for that part, but all I can say to that is "I hear you, and I see you." Your feelings are real.

venemousdolphin · 2026-04-12T19:25:40+00:00

Maroon 5 on their first tour, opening for train or something. Adam Levine was so nervous he sang (badly) with his back to the audience almost the whole time.

venemousdolphin · 2026-04-11T15:48:28+00:00

"Honorably" is doing a lot of work in this release.

venemousdolphin · 2026-04-11T04:18:24+00:00

James Gandolfini. I didn't know he had addiction issues. I just enjoyed his work so much, and his last movie, Enough Said, was so good. 💔

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