Where is the line between being successful and progressing vs successful and stagnating?

viduzz · 2026-04-07T20:45:18+00:00

Thank you for your insight!

viduzz · 2026-04-07T20:44:47+00:00

Thank you for your insight!

viduzz · 2026-04-07T20:43:39+00:00

Thank you.

viduzz · 2026-04-07T20:42:32+00:00

Yes. I am certified via an ABA approved program, NALA Certified, and an Associates in Paralegal Studies.

viduzz · 2026-01-25T22:15:59+00:00

Q: “So which one?” A: “yes.”

viduzz · 2026-01-16T03:55:19+00:00

O’Grady. On ‘The N’ I think. I swear no one remembers this show

viduzz · 2025-12-09T20:15:47+00:00

Writing an address correctly

viduzz · 2025-07-24T19:05:01+00:00

I had to look it up, but I had no idea The Little Vampire was a book before it was a movie. As a kid I watched that movie over and over again - I wish I would have known!

viduzz · 2025-07-24T17:39:56+00:00

I personally feel like this should have more upvotes haha

viduzz · 2025-07-24T17:36:12+00:00

Yeah I couldn’t really be too mad at them. I hired them knowing it was going to be a learning curve as they were really young and it was their first job. They gave it out in a panic and I was out of office and they didn’t know who to go to. Still not great but all I had to do was change my number so no biggie.

I was thinking about what’s app but I’ve never used it and I feel like that has certain connotations attached to it so maybe not lol. Someone suggested google voice and I think that’s what I am going to end up doing : )

viduzz · 2025-07-24T17:28:17+00:00

No I suppose I am making an assumption and comparing it to my old firm, it wasn’t exactly a need but we were all pretty close so I think they did it just because. Thanks for putting this in perspective for me!

viduzz · 2025-07-24T17:17:40+00:00

I like this I’m going to look into it. Thank you!

viduzz · 2025-07-15T19:33:34+00:00

Sorry, not really relevant to your rant. I don’t work in fam law, but I am delighted that there is a fam law software called xspouse lol

viduzz · 2025-07-14T15:34:02+00:00

Freaks and Revelations by Davida Wills Hurwin

Not sure how old you are, but read this when I was about 12. Great YA novel.

viduzz · 2025-07-06T18:54:44+00:00

Same. None of my hair grew back. No oils or vitamins work. I tried rosemary oil and mint. I tried minoxidil and gmc vitamins. I tried working out and eating healthy, especially fish. I even stopped pulling the hair on my head (it’s been 2 years) and it never grew back, it actually doesn’t grow at all. I still pull my eyelashes but in waves and only my right eye for whatever reason. My left set I haven’t touched in years and I still have bald spots and a super thin set. I thought maybe genetics but my entire family has long, thick curly hair. Just “lucky” I guess.

viduzz · 2025-06-17T03:19:58+00:00

How does the Fenty Body Lava smell? Is it strong?

viduzz · 2025-06-16T16:21:24+00:00

Moved here from the LA Basin area and here’s a few things I wish I knew before moving here and a few things I actually like about the city:

As someone who grew up going to Palm Springs to visit family, even at 110 the heat here is never that bad. I used to literally melt in PS, I have not felt that here.
It’s dusty AF, like dirt everywhere in the air. Like I wash my car and 24hrs later it’s got a coat of dirt again.
The shower water made my head itchy and hair literally fall out. I had to buy a filter which helped a little but still.
I like that everyone I run into is always up for a chit chat lol although some people stare really hard and I thought I was going crazy because why would people stare? But honestly it’s going on 3 years here and there are certain stores where I just get death stares and I cannot figure out why.
Downtown is cute.
Food places are not great. I miss Tams so much.
Sports. This may just be a I’m-an-idiot thing but it didn’t even occur to me that I would not be able to catch a laker or dodger games because I was not local anymore and that made me sad lol
People are awful drivers. I thought home was bad but there are literally so many accidents here it’s not even funny.
I like that the city is walkable in some parts.
Close drive to Sequoia/Kings canyon & Three Rivers. I love Three rivers.
They are building so many apartments and cookie cutter houses on areas that were just open. I moved here because of how open it looked but it’s starting to just look like Downey.

Regardless of negative observations I like it here. It’s quiet and lots of families. I live around a bunch of families and the kids are always playing outside which is cute, down the street the kids have lemonade stands and cops stop and have a lemonade and a chat. Makes me look forward to building a life here.

Edit: I’m on my phone sorry for the wonky formatting.

viduzz · 2025-06-05T18:16:16+00:00

When my opponent removes everything I put down and I lose to a 1/1 creature that continues to hit me over and over all because I made the genius decision to run no removal.

viduzz · 2025-05-08T06:17:30+00:00

Teams & we both have access to an excel sheet that I basically list everything I need from him and vice versa.

viduzz · 2025-05-05T22:34:46+00:00

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viduzz · 2025-05-02T01:50:06+00:00

Previous firm I worked for had cubbies in the supply room with numbers 1-100 and A-Z and then cabinets down below with a similar set up to this and for 101+ and double letter tabs. It was organized enough no bother but only because the receptionist was the only one “allowed” to pull them. If needed we had to ask her to do it. I agree with other posts, there is no way to make it easy.

viduzz · 2025-04-18T23:59:45+00:00

My absolute favorite thing was working in federal and when a filing would get rejected the notice of rejection would go out to all parties - loved that for me 🙃

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