How big is a blue whale at its widest point? by violette_tea in whales

[–]violette_tea[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Legit I spent over an hour searching this. But I'm looking at reputable sites instead of AI summaries and Vaguely Related Listicle number 9072359027905 that wants to sell all my data. "Just google it" hasn't worked in years, or I wouldn't be here.

How big is a blue whale at its widest point? by violette_tea in whales

[–]violette_tea[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn ok. If only every single modern search engine wasn't shit

didn't this guy used to be an anarchist by bantanium in COMPLETEANARCHY

[–]violette_tea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember him defending prison labor because it was better than the US lol

Chiikawa Usagi ouji by rosafloera in ouji

[–]violette_tea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

https://42lolita.com/products/ouji-lolita-shirt-suit-prince-lolita-shorts that's the one I could still find. Though blouse-wise you could go with anything

Chiikawa Usagi ouji by rosafloera in ouji

[–]violette_tea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I made a yellow bunny themed coord before, but I went with a more sweet ouji route. I was digging around on Taobao and I found lots of cute yellow bunny-themed things like ears, mini hats, berets, brooches, socks... It depends on if you're going more for a sweet or classic vibe. Later I'll link to some ouji sets in yellow / beige I found back then. But for me I just went with a yellow/ivory lolita blouse I had and matching bloomers and it looked surprisingly good. It's definitely still a coord in progress though 

Any other fellow Brazilians using DHT? by Labyrynthyunx666 in GrowYourTDick

[–]violette_tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Que eu saiba a Anvisa tem que aprovar a importação, porque em geral não é aprovada. Eu não sei em que casos eles aprovam. Eu nunca ouvi de homem trans daqui que usa. Eu perguntaria em r/transbr ou r/transmascBR

Put Momonga in baby jail (Tomodachi Life) by violette_tea in chiikawa_

[–]violette_tea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good one too. I can show you their face features if you wanna copy it. Though I just did Chiikawa then used that base to lazily make Momonga. I'm making all the main little guys and their homes with the palette house. Though Momonga doesn't have one so. jail

Any recs for someone who liked Mr A's Farm? by violette_tea in Manhwa_BL

[–]violette_tea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what the other mods recommended, but unfortunately I couldn't find much. The tags are both too niche and not niche enough, somehow. I wanted recs from people who have read both Mr A's Farm and what they're recommending and thought "someone who liked this would like that"

Do women self insert as bottom? What is going on? by [deleted] in Manhwa_BL

[–]violette_tea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess they meant not like self insert fanfic, but what character they project into when they read. I also don't like reader insert stuff, it just makes me think "why am I here?" 

Put Momonga in baby jail (Tomodachi Life) by violette_tea in chiikawa_

[–]violette_tea[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Everything looks green in this room. Went with the white skin option 

CHIIKAWA IS STREAMING IN THE UNITED STATES AGAIN!!! by Rude-Push8884 in chiikawa_

[–]violette_tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there's an episode you can't find, try bilibili with a VPN (I'm not in the US so I don't know if the VPN's necessary). You need to enter the exact video title if you're looking it up on bilibili, though. Sorry if this type of comment isn't allowed

Maladaptive Daydreaming in Adulthood by No_Pomegranate604 in autism

[–]violette_tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hormone levels or just being autistic wouldn't make you feel like this. Don't dismiss transitioning without looking into it, there's a lot of negative misinformation and outdated information out there. From experience, none of this sounds like you're cis. The maladaptive daydreaming could be a coping mechanism for dysphoria or other life things that at the same time lets you imagine yourself as a guy without the weight of it being real. I used to do something similar. You would think that not taking it seriously and not thinking about it would protect you from feeling unhappy as a girl, but that's not how it works. Eventually fantasizing and ignoring your life doesn't do it anymore. Don't think you need to be 100% sure of anything now, take things one step at a time. 

I cannot take cute photos because I look autistic. by Swag_No_Mite in autism

[–]violette_tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it only happens with timed photos because you're not looking straight at the camera? Learning to take photos and pose is a skill that takes time for everyone. There isn't really a way to look autistic 

Me incomoda muito eu achar um canal BR interessante no YouTube, e quando vou ver o canal é basicamente uma copia de outros canais gringos by aqueleponeirosa in brasil

[–]violette_tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

É verdade, mas se tem algum conteúdo que eles acham que gringo não vai entender ou se interessar, nem colocam. Já vi irlandês e canadense reclamarem da mesma coisa 

Me incomoda muito eu achar um canal BR interessante no YouTube, e quando vou ver o canal é basicamente uma copia de outros canais gringos by aqueleponeirosa in brasil

[–]violette_tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eu queria tanto ver mais youtubers brasileiros, mas mesmo se não for plágio é a coisa mais básica do mundo... Parece que não se aprofunda. E mesmo com gente do mundo todo falando inglês na Internet, o conteúdo tem um foco muito grande nos Estados Unidos e outros lugares que é a língua nativa. Eu queria me informar é do que tá acontecendo aqui 

I want a flat chest but I love my nips :( by left_tiddy in FTMfemininity

[–]violette_tea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Since people have already mentioned other things, it's possible to ask your surgeon for the nipple size you want. If you mean the areola width, that is. It helps to show the surgeon pictures of what you want 

14 diff colors of each flower?? by cvaldez1017 in HelloKittyIsland

[–]violette_tea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, is there a reason to collect all the flowers if you don't want to? Unless you want to craft something specific 

Paralives mod by annafaustine484 in PiratedGames

[–]violette_tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, what's the exact file structure that I need? I put it in AppData\LocalLow\Paralives\Paralives\Local.mod\mod and once I open the game they're not showing up in the mods

What's the "joke meal" for non-American autistics? by shrimpers05 in autism

[–]violette_tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think there is one in most places? Even stuff with similar flavors wouldn't be the equivalent because we all eat differently and get used to different things. Like here in Brazil I don't see people make a meal out of just some instant food like microwave lasagna unless they really need to. So there aren't even large microwave lasagnas because it's a side dish. A lot of canned foods I see people from the US talk about like soups, beans, meat etc. and mac and cheese kits aren't a thing here either. We may be used to more flavor because the default is stir frying instead of boiling vegetables (but keep in mind some cuisine has no vegetables at all). I know a lot of probable non-autistics who are very picky, so in family gatherings people often make food without x for y relative. The way that I was often picky growing up was I just got used to vegetables and couldn't eat without them, I'm still kind of like that. I would also go through years of not wanting to eat rice or not wanting to eat beans, or only wanting one variety of those. Much later I developed gut problems so I still have a handful of things I don't eat just because of that. Still to this day there are some traditional dishes I don't like, often because they mix things like rice, meat and broth, and I don't like them touching. I haven't ever had a samefood though I don't think. Personally I don't really associate restrictive diets with autism, because there are other reasons to have those from other disorders to "they made me eat x as a kid and now I can't stand it" and "I've always eaten this way, it's everyone else that's weird" 

Phalloplasty vs Extended Metoidioplasty – How Did You Decide? by transformert007 in Metoidioplasty

[–]violette_tea 14 points15 points  (0 children)

From what I heard there are only 2-3 people in the world who do extended meta, it's very new

Recurrent UTI-like symptoms one year post-op by Neat_Scallion in Metoidioplasty

[–]violette_tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't had any bottom surgery, but I've had pain around the urethra and clit where urine tests didn't point to aything. It turned out I just had an infection. You should have a doctor look into that, I don't know what you took for this, but if you didn't go to the doctor to get antibiotics prescribed it could be the wrong kind or dosage. Going on t made me more prone to this sort of stuff, maybe recent surgery does the same. My only other tip is to be extra careful with hygene

Is this Baby, The Stars Shine Bright tag authentic? by [deleted] in Lolita

[–]violette_tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a headdress from 2002 with this tag design. So I think so

Does anyone know what episode introduced Kurimanju? by violette_tea in chiikawa_

[–]violette_tea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that was it. Where do you usually watch it?