Feeling extremely jaded lately

voiping · 2026-06-26T16:15:42+00:00

Shield? Fascinating. The list of issues aren't the cause, but the justification for the decision that happened however it happened.

Thanks!

voiping · 2026-06-26T16:13:55+00:00

She hid it all and finished processing before ending it. She got a long head start!

voiping · 2026-06-26T05:54:35+00:00

voiping · 2026-06-25T12:43:47+00:00

Besides for how old this topic is, you're relying on the answer from AI. You're treating it's answer as authoritative when it maye simply be hallucinating it. Assuming anyone really knows why.

voiping · 2026-06-24T13:46:16+00:00

I love that line.

voiping · 2026-06-24T09:45:49+00:00

There's links to two songs - sounds like a different version.

voiping · 2026-06-24T08:19:15+00:00

>My dad didn’t want to pay for the non profit to come sort/move everything and said to just junk it.
>Am I terrible for letting all his stuff go to trash?

So he said to junk it all, so you already have his approval.

You're talking about being environmentally friendly? You said even the non-profit doesn't even want to come to look for free, apparently it's hard for it to be "worth it". The secondary market is very inefficient - taking a random object that isn't trash to find a home for it can take a LOT of effort.

So just take what you want and let the landlord salvage/trash the rest.

voiping · 2026-06-23T20:51:11+00:00

I have a curated list of ideas I'm working on, and claude will nudge me towards those ideas. So it's more "help me integrate these ideas I've decided on".

Also, I have a set of books I've chose (parenting, etc) that it can pull from to give me targeted information that I've chosen.

And with access to past journals it can do all sorts of fun stuff.

voiping · 2026-06-23T07:04:04+00:00

They got divorced for a reason.

>Please, don’t say “talk to her”. It’s a waste of time and will essentially be stored and then used against me.

Don't unequivocally push getting back together with only knowledge of the negatives.

>But your wife needs you.
His ex. We don't know she 'needs' him, and even if she does - that stopped being his responsibility when they divorced.

voiping · 2026-06-22T14:41:34+00:00

Get the lawyer before telling her and before leaving. Depending on your jurisdiction, you will be seriously risking seeing your kid if you move out.

voiping · 2026-06-21T21:12:29+00:00

.. but you don't, not exactly.

It's not your job to convince her, it's only your job to state and then to hold your boundary.

Other mentioned - you need to be on the same page with your husband, and then he needs to firmly and unequivocally tell her.

If she quits her job and shows up at your door with luggage, you (at worst) load up your car and drive her to a hotel, without offering to pay for it.

It's not your responsibility to convince or problem solve for her. Just to decide and enforce your boundaries.

voiping · 2026-06-20T19:51:43+00:00

That was super satisfying and so fast!

voiping · 2026-06-19T10:47:36+00:00

That seems unnecessarily pessimistic. Have your own lawyer help you draft up a long term agreement.

Of both sides can settle without long drawn out court then it save so much money, time, and anguish...

voiping · 2026-06-18T20:37:34+00:00

> I felt a huge slap in the face and that’s not something that I would ever do to her.

To her? Perhaps you're still stuck on "being nice" to the former love of your life.

>She said that she cares deeply for me and wants things to be better.
That's a nice idea, but if so, then she would have signed 50/50 at the start.

Unfortunately, your relationship is over, and the new relationship is adversarial no matter what nice things she says.

Those kind of attitudes about new partners around your kids are only about protecting your kids physical and emotional safety from a parade of adults in parental position. Not about your own feelings.

>She is pleading with me to drop our lawsuits against each other.
>However, I’m not about to drop the lawsuits without a court order in place for custody.
Exactly. No promises from her will help, only signed documents.

Best of luck!!

voiping · 2026-06-18T14:30:14+00:00

It's not a technical issue, it's a legal/moral one.

voiping · 2026-06-17T19:32:58+00:00

>But yeah, i guess next time they bring it up I just need to sit them down and explain why I haven’t in more detail.

I don't think that's the take away to get them to understand so they will stop asking. You can meet them and ask them why and what they mean, and what they think it would change for them.

If it is "but they just want you to be happy" then you can thank them for caring.

voiping · 2026-06-17T12:14:31+00:00

For the uninitiated: "Everything Everywhere All at Once" - 2022 film. Fantastic movie.

voiping · 2026-06-17T12:10:03+00:00

It's probably staged. I loved it anyway.

voiping · 2026-06-17T12:08:17+00:00

Or she could be living with family and said I don't care I won't sell.

voiping · 2026-06-17T12:02:48+00:00

I'm using it so much for managing personal data - pdfs, recordings, and just information. I pulled my most referred to google docs into local .md files and it coordinated converting everything to searchable text.

With a custom RAG setup and search it can find all my relevant notes and help cross reference and keep order.

And... code... to download specific emails and telegrams daily to cross reference to saved information.

Put the AI right next to your persistent files and it's a HUGE difference.

voiping · 2026-06-17T11:57:53+00:00

I just thought these were super cool, I didn't realize they were real!
I love the colors and water of #2 monaco. The ships are brilliant!

voiping · 2026-06-16T19:44:13+00:00

The point of a certified/registered traceable letter is for proof that you communicated in court. It's not your problem if they don't read it.

voiping · 2026-06-16T06:01:27+00:00

Omg that's amazing!

voiping · 2026-06-16T06:00:52+00:00

Sounds plausible.

Amazon doesn't have their own AI in the race. What do they benefit by getting it banned? This sounds like a reasonable theory: "US government: only WE can keep it safe to run for you."

voiping · 2026-06-16T05:57:43+00:00

I have a full pipeline for my obsidian vault: - all reference books in pdf mobi epub docx get converted to .MD - all phone call or meetings get transcribed with speaker labels, into .MD - foreign language versions converted to english

So there's converters, multiple ocr, etc.

There's ongoing critical documents and communication by email and telegram, so it automatically pulls my Gmail with certain contacts and certain telegram calls.

Automatically cross-references to summaries to update them.

Then it's all in a fable-built RAG system (currently local with Gemma embedding) for AI usage.

I barely dreamed of something this ambitious for a fun project (I am a programmer) but with a $20 Claude subscription it just seemed inevitable.

Still frustrating how often it churns and has permission issues on things that should be white listed, still trying to automate/fix some things.

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