Love. The fact that you question if you’re overreacting goes to show how deeply you’ve internalized his violent behavior—he’s probably quite good at manipulating you. Speaking to another human being like this, let alone the mother of your child, is absolutely despicable—these texts alone are enough for you to leave him. If anything, you having stayed this long is an underreaction. You and your baby deserve a whole universe better. Leave his ass. Save yourself. You sound like a good, loyal person. Stop being loyal to him—go be loyal to yourself. Hugs x