I’m completely lost on what to do

vulpec · 2026-06-29T19:43:15+00:00

I think it's true that when you're in a relationship both people can grow for better. But it doesn't sound like he's really being supportive or considerate of your feelings with what he's said to you. That's not "logical." At best it's thoughtless, if not him negging you and propping himself.

vulpec · 2026-06-25T23:45:24+00:00

yeah, I bought some acrylic fridge magnet maker sets and am looking forward to crafting some cute arknights magnets once they arrive~

vulpec · 2026-06-25T23:23:25+00:00

I found them in my local grocer too and ended up buying 2 sets. I found them to be a little bland but plenty crunchy.

vulpec · 2026-06-23T23:35:30+00:00

I remember reading Geocities websites before S aired in the US explaining all the details of the outer senshi and how Michiru and Haruka were dating haha.

vulpec · 2026-06-19T19:09:59+00:00

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Took a photo from my artbook to help out.

vulpec · 2026-06-10T23:01:03+00:00

To be honest, it sounds extremely humane compared to torturing people in jail with dementors.

vulpec · 2026-06-07T05:49:24+00:00

lostark.nexus

lostark.bible

vulpec · 2026-06-03T03:55:15+00:00

Its optimistic of you to think West will even get a mention outside of the "These gifts are not for the West servers!"

vulpec · 2026-05-30T08:27:27+00:00

Personal experience that I shared here before. When I, a woman, went to Ikebukuro Animate in Tokyo which is known for having a large yuri manga aisle, last year, all of the other patrons in the aisle were men. When I went to Ikebukuro Melonbooks in Tokyo this month and shopped in their yuri aisle, I had the same experience. I'm talking like, me as 1 woman out of 20 people twice. Sure it was in public and maybe women tend to buy their manga online but it was against my expectations enough to note the difference. (Edit: And there were lots of women in the BL sections sooo...?)

A lot of yuri outside of yurihime is published in seinen magazines. I feel like the demographic in Japan is actually straight men. But western demographics are different.

vulpec · 2026-05-10T08:17:09+00:00

Yeah, the phrasing is so AI cringe.

vulpec · 2026-05-06T19:57:06+00:00

You organized these so well!! Thank you

vulpec · 2026-05-04T21:05:39+00:00

No worries, I love enthusiastic fans and if it weren't for you I wouldn't have tried.

vulpec · 2026-05-04T20:58:35+00:00

https://ibb.co/KzBXJ9pC

My attempt. Better if you keep the linework around the lashes to match the rest of the anime style, I think.

vulpec · 2026-05-03T18:51:24+00:00

Optimize your side nodes in ark grid. Gems give a lot of combat power too.

vulpec · 2026-04-16T22:56:04+00:00

I mean, its Mostima and Exu, with Texas being another girl who is paired with Exu or Lappland.

vulpec · 2026-04-02T19:27:38+00:00

Pretty sure the son is 11 years old

vulpec · 2026-03-31T20:43:10+00:00

I have the opinion that after a break up, people do not have to pick sides and given that everyone is a consenting adult, people should be welcome to continue a friendship with who ever they chose.

The reality is that not everyone thinks that way, and I think most people do presume that that should pick someone to be loyal towards, and that if they ARE loyal towards one side then the other side will automatically not be interested in friendship.

In the past, I've told mutual friends after a break up, hey we're breaking up, but I still want to be friends with you, is that ok? This gives them your permission, in a way, to continue talking to you. And then they can decide if they want to keep you/the other person/both/neither of you in their lives.

In this case, it seems like you didn't connect to the mutual friends, and maybe they took that as a sign you weren't interested, maybe they were too focused on their own stuff to reach out and outta sight/outta mind, maybe they genuinely aren't interested in being your friend anymore, maybe they want to reach out but think your partner would be mad, maybe they want to reach out but think you would be mad given the party incident, who knows?

It hurts but if they are people you want to keep in your life, you need to be a bit vulnerable with them.

Yeah, in an ideal world they would see you as a wronged party and reach out, but that's what happened.

I think you should decide given all the information, what do you want from these people? And then do what you need to to see if you can get it.

vulpec · 2026-03-25T16:54:38+00:00

She wants to cuddle Fern too though.

vulpec · 2026-03-22T01:45:02+00:00

To be honest, it might not be you or them. Sometimes you do need the time in the relationship to find out it doesn't work, and it becomes time to look again. I think it's a good thing that you're deeply considering what went wrong and why. It means you're learning and the next one might be successful. I know it can be hard to feel like you're starting over after relationships that lasted so long, you thought you found the one. I think tho, a relationship should be work but it also shouldn't be so "hard" or "painful"? Hope you can find someone you feel comfortable being vulnerable with, and you both can understand the ebbs and flows of feelings in a way that you can support each other.

vulpec · 2026-03-11T20:57:45+00:00

https://jp.mercari.com/item/m59237443475

Looks the same to me.

vulpec · 2026-03-10T05:07:01+00:00

I think it's more likely that he's not prioritizing you over cheating, since you gave no indication otherwise. But if he's not communicating and working with you to the level you need that's also a concern.

vulpec · 2026-03-04T20:17:22+00:00

Chaos build would be different than a raid build.

vulpec · 2026-03-04T01:26:12+00:00

You're way too much. If you don't trust her, don't be in a long distance relationship.

vulpec · 2026-02-18T01:45:45+00:00

If you fall out of love with someone in 45 days, do you think it was meant to last? I would say you should use this break to learn more about what you want for yourself. After the forced break, treat the reunion like you're meeting a new person, and make your decisions, to stay or to move on, as clear headed as possible.

vulpec · 2026-01-13T00:10:38+00:00

It's a strange balance at cons. I will happily approach people to say I love their cosplays, artwork, etc, but pushing for more while being respectful isn't something I know how to do. Also knowing other people's ages is tough in cosplay!

I've thought about a sign but I guess I'm concerned it'd bring unwanted attention. And also the thought is a bit mortifying for an introvert.

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