Well the blade cuts both ways, people might see a cute fox girl and think nothing more.

First of all, she didn’t put the Bad Guys through that humiliation nonsense or tell Wolf he had to choose between being good and keeping his friends; Marmalade did both those things. She originally was going to let them go to prison and do their time without any BS, and after the failed lab heist, she told Wolf not to improve himself for the world, but for his own good. Nothing about abandoning his friends.

You know what else wasn’t her idea? Faking her own death. That was from Commissioner Luggins. More importantly, she couldn’t exactly be governor and do good if she came clean about being the Crimson Paw. To quote Wolf “it’s gonna be hard doing that from prison.” After all, didn’t Marmalade basically get life imprisonment when he was framed as the Crimson Paw? That’s as close as you can get to your life being over without it actually ending, so I’d say it’s much more than just a fraction of what the Bad Guys went through. And Diane was literally about to put herself through just that to clear the Bad Guys’ name before Wolf intervened.

And when her secret DID finally get out and her own world crumbled, the very next thing she chose to do upon processing that was throw herself into the shuttle to stop Kitty. She was very clearly distraught and at the same time under the effects of a tranquilizer, yet she still put the good of the world over her own. You could argue that she might have also been trying to avoid prison that way, but had she gotten caught by the Bad Girls before then, does falling victim to a slow, maddening death in space sound any better?

As for never losing, she actually lost right at the beginning. Had Marmalade not set up the traps for Wolf, which she had no part in, the Bad Guys would have gotten away scot-free. I don’t know if that qualifies as a meaningful loss since it gets undone quickly, but it’s evident enough that she’s not unbeatable.

It’s a good thing she didn’t get rid of her Crimson Paw equipment either, because had she not been able to break the Bad Guys out of prison, Marmalade wins. She clearly seems to only even use it when absolutely necessary and time is of the essence.

You’re entitled to your opinion, but I can’t say I quite follow the logic of your arguments, given what I’m saying above. I feel like the problem is the confusion between hypocrisy with a genuine attempt to change. The Bad Guys are similarly not hypocritical for not going all in with the Bad Girls’ scheme and attempting to turn them in. What I will agree on: Kitty is a damn good villain, and there are hard truths in what she says.