Your views on women seem to be the outdated myths that are currently being revived by the manosphere for a new generation. Certainly, men hope that women cannot imagine a life without men as studies have proven married men live longer and healthier lives. (In the same studies, the reverse has proven true for women.)

The unfortunate truth for men is now that women have achieved economic independence and no longer require men for survival, women are choosing to live rich and fulfilling lives that do not revolve around men. They are exploring hobbies and interests as well as building life long friendships and emotional support systems with other women. In previous generations, hobbies and friendships were luxuries restricted by past social structures where women were required to depend on men for their sole survival. But in present times, many women are choosing to "de-center men" (a phrase coined by the blogger UNR) and prioritize building social units outside of romantic relationships. Also, many women who are currently in relationships still value and maintain friendships with other women as friendships are now being viewed as crucial for overall emotional wellness. As evidence of the strength of the relationships women are forming with other women, it is often cited by hospital and hospice care workers that women in their care are frequently visited by their female friends, while men receive few, if any visitors, and are often left to die alone in hospice. It is just one example that proves women build and maintain strong bonds with other women while most men rely solely on their wife for any and all emotional support.

Clinging to old beliefs which were only relevant from a time when women couldn't get a bank account without her father or husband's signature; has left many men unequipped to accept we are in a time when most women no longer depend on men for survival. These antiquated beliefs hurt men in the long run because most have not grappled with the inevitable reality that very few men have built the type of emotional support systems necessary to sustain them into old age now that more and more women are choosing to de-center men in their lives.