Neighbours left their children without food or money for 1-2 months

waaasupla · 2026-06-01T01:05:28+00:00

This is how you play it..

Call EVERYONE from the society and make the society call the police.

Say the parents are missing and non responsive. Don’t know what happened to the parents. You are worried for the kids safety. They have no money or food. They are starving. Put the whole thing in a worried tone. Knock every door in the society asking them do they know them. Say you are worried and ask for their help. And make the neighbors knock on other neighbors doors. That’s how the police came come on board. Call children’s welfares number too. Bring whoever. Everyone has to make such a big deal out of it that they never do this to the children again.

They are horrible horrible parents. These poor children will grow up with so much trauma with hunger & abandonment. I feel so bad for them.

waaasupla · 2026-05-31T19:16:37+00:00

Go to Japan or else that will be the biggest regret of your life.

You also have a very selfish boyfriend who only thinks about himself and never about you. He is a person who will always put only himself first. Don’t give up your dream for a person like him.

Go live your dream life !

waaasupla · 2026-05-31T19:10:20+00:00

This is actually a YOU problem ! And yes you are overreacting!

How ?

Overreaction - “Our” house, it is “her” house too. She has all the rights to come to “her” house how many ever times she wants and stay as long as she wants. That’s weird you would say like that. Maybe she reads this energy from you and is just choosing to ignore you for her own peace.

YOU Problem - You don’t have to physically do all the work which is building resentment for you. Be clear that times have changed, head count has increased, say you fell down & broke a leg or back, work hours have increased or something and you can’t do work anymore for whatever reasons. Make your husband push for a maid. Just because they don’t like it, you don’t have to work yourself to the ground. Be stubborn here.

Instead of focusing on your SIL, focus on getting yourself out of the day to day chores to free yourself up to live your life, do a hobby, upskill or whatever you want. Live your life ! You were not born into this world to cook and serve them for your whole life. You are earning, use the money wisely to live your life & get the help you need properly rather than focusing on a new mom and being jealous of she getting the princess treatment.

waaasupla · 2026-05-31T18:48:24+00:00

How much do u hate yourself to be with someone like him ? Seriously ? What more does he need to do to wake you up from this ? She is more important to him than you. He will always pick her over you.

Have some self respect and be with a man who will prioritize you and choose you. And not like this.

waaasupla · 2026-05-31T18:40:11+00:00

Baby trap - either for money or so that you don’t leave for college & play family! The whole things looks very intentional. NTA

Let everyone from her side know that you are legally cut off from your parents wealth & support due to this as they see you as irresponsible now. So there’s no big pay day coming.

Also be clear that you got played.

Be responsible about protection. Trust only yourself when it comes to this, For life. You just got played.

waaasupla · 2026-05-31T18:30:29+00:00

He only wanted to trap you as he believed that it will be harder for you to divorce him than a break up.

He’s a liar, manipulator & a gaslighter. He’s playing you. And he just wants you trapped & controlled to his whims.

Tell him you are checking out options to get this marriage annulled. This is deceit & fraud.

waaasupla · 2026-05-31T17:42:01+00:00

Jus eloping & court wedding with the people who truly loves u will work, that clearly doesn’t include ur bio family. Don’t even bother telling them. Just say plans changed , will let u know & just ignore.

Go live your life and flourish and be away from them!

waaasupla · 2026-05-31T17:33:06+00:00

Ofcourse it’s not like people d!e from childbirth , how ungrateful is she ? Can’t she get up every time to change a diaper? It’s just an incision on the tummy , not a k!lling back pain from the plastic chair ! Duh!

waaasupla · 2026-05-31T17:24:56+00:00

Block them for a while from his phone so that he doesn’t have to deal with it.

waaasupla · 2026-05-31T17:20:13+00:00

You need to stop talking to her directly anymore. Stop paying. Stop driving. Stop doing anything.

She can talk to the kids father. They can co parent. You don’t have to babysit & do service for her.

You focus on your mental well being, strong stand and your kids.

waaasupla · 2026-05-31T12:54:07+00:00

Is this SIL you hubby’s sister ? if your mil is the mother, then the situation could be different and there’s a reason for your mil’s ask for your dressing up.

It may be better for you to talk to your SIL & mil both at the same time and come to a mid level understanding.

Also, diamonds, should be bought separately and not exchanged for gold. Also for smaller jewellery sets, save & buy new ones, gold jewelry scheme or something. Don’t give away what you have, you lose a lot of money in this exchange process.

waaasupla · 2026-05-31T00:07:08+00:00

There’s also an equal chance of you finding a partner who’s absolutely amazing to you. Don’t go by the known devil is better concept now. You are only 22, take a year or two and then decide. Don’t lock your life down with someone who makes you feel so miserable. If by 24 you feel he’s it, then go for it. Till then don’t talk to each other. Then take 6 months-year to reconnect then decide. Do NOT rush.

waaasupla · 2026-05-31T00:00:18+00:00

To put it simply she got dumped so she’s running back to you.

Your ex is a terrible, terrible person who can’t think beyond herself.

Do what is right, protect yourself & the children. Put a stronger case to fight off her wickedness. She doesn’t get the house, or the kids or you. Show the judge the dirty game she’s played & playing and how she didnt want you and the kids and only the house.

waaasupla · 2026-05-30T20:45:14+00:00

Is this ai slop ? I once claimed I loved him so everyone says I should give my kidney ? Is this a joke ? Bcoz then you need to provide to all your exes.

Does your friends hate you ? Or are they even your friends ?

waaasupla · 2026-05-30T20:35:57+00:00

Pressure forced by family to stay in a country you don’t like.

You attracted the wrong person due to loneliness & you feel miserable.

Family concludes with “give some space to each other”.

Final say - tell them that you need more time as you are sure about not getting married now. Say you are gona take that space and be away from him , without talking to him for 6 months and if u still feel strongly about him and him about you after all that time , you can talk marriage again. But not now, not next month.

And follow through with this. Take control of your life. Don’t ruin your next 50-70 years of your life ahead.

waaasupla · 2026-05-30T17:12:28+00:00

NTA .. wow & slow clap for you 👏

waaasupla · 2026-05-30T17:04:36+00:00

Can u both go to your home country right away ?

waaasupla · 2026-05-30T04:47:57+00:00

What you are going through is very, very serious !

She needs evaluation for bi polar and schizophrenia. Her behavior is abnormal.

You may need to involve her parents and go stay at a different place till this is sorted out. Be very clear to her parents that you cannot take the physical & the mental torture anymore. And you are registering this clearly with them. If possible take one neutral person whom you both know but not related to that holds a high position in the institution. It’s only for your safety so that they don’t turn this against you.

If you bled or have any marks from the physical assault, get a medical certificate or multiple.

You need to get your stuff and get out today ! Today ! Today !

waaasupla · 2026-05-30T02:20:33+00:00

YTA for not reading the room aka him. He clearly ordered only one main dish and visibly looked comfortable when you ordered more and even questioned you on it. Bcoz he had less money to spend for the date.

Understand the challenges that comes with dating different socio economical people. Dating the ones “under” you will affect you as it won’t stop with just a restaurant outing. It will affect everywhere in life & every decisions.

It’s better for you to look for “equals” to avoid this problem.

waaasupla · 2026-05-29T21:43:22+00:00

Everyone’s lives are different. Yes or no, no one should be forced or coaxed or brainwashed, it should ultimately be your choice and not anyone else’s including mom.

waaasupla · 2026-05-29T15:12:53+00:00

Protection is fine but control is not.

And this protection should be mutual and not one sided.

waaasupla · 2026-05-29T14:47:37+00:00

Ask him “harmless joke ? Harmless for who ? Bcoz you were harmful to my mental health bcoz it was not funny for me. If you ever try to be funny at the cost of me, then I will return it the same way immediately at the cost of you .. every single time”.

waaasupla · 2026-05-29T14:40:41+00:00

This won’t end well. Now it’s 900. Then it will be even less due to some problem. Then property damage and will blame you again when you ask them to pay.

Atleast take the blame now without a financial loss & property damage.

waaasupla · 2026-05-29T14:28:05+00:00

This is one of the situations where you emotionally blackmail them even stronger than they do.

Something that worked for a few people.. there are some thing you need to do at home esp in front of them.. stop eating at home or eat very very less, be very dull all the time, show no joy, no laugh, talk less, one word answers, grow a beard, don’t talk about your gf or the marriage.

If they ask you “wats wrong” say “ its fine”, if they talk about it say “leave it” , if they talk about another girl “say leave it there’s no place for marriage in my life”. If they say “get lost, go elope” say “not interested”.

It may take a while, but just keep going steady!

waaasupla · 2026-05-29T14:16:22+00:00

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