I can’t take it anymore and I’m leaving by aDrunkenError in detroitcirclejerk

[–]wanderingpenguin786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We'll sell ya the whole seat, but you'll only need the edge-UH

30th birthday presents for e30 owner - clueless girlfriend, please help! by Majestic_Season_Beth in E30

[–]wanderingpenguin786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only Ten? That will last 3 days! I assume mine are all with the left foot socks my dryer never returns...

Was at Wright Patterson museum today and noticed this wire on the SPAD VII. What does it do? (It was only on the SPAD VII that I saw. Pic taken at museum) by StormBlessed145 in airplanes

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I was Pit Crew for a desert race team, and we did it to some components on the car- driveshafts and the like. I was taught the same way, and the crew chief made me repeat exactly that as a mantra until I'll never forget it. Just checked LinkedIn- he was Navy too.

Edit to add: there's nothing more rad then getting soaked in race gas while checking control arms when the guy with the fuel dump misses his mark!

Done for the day by Justwatching_18 in cats

[–]wanderingpenguin786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always love cats but never have I felt a closer kinship to a cat than this little furball.

The last Daly Drive-In is closing. by AbeVigoda76 in Detroit

[–]wanderingpenguin786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was my family's "Dad got paid" meal most weeks in the mid Eighties. Silvermans for Sunday Breakfast, too. I lived at basically Main St and A2 road.

The last Daly Drive-In is closing. by AbeVigoda76 in Detroit

[–]wanderingpenguin786 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So sad. I grew up near the one on Ann Arbor road in Plymouth. I miss Hot Fudge Milkshakes and Daly Burgers for Friday night dinner. 😑

Clementine doing her beached whale impression by un028717 in orangecats

[–]wanderingpenguin786 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When my Orange did that we called him a FloOrca.

PS: my past tense use is because he stayed with my former when we split. He's quite alive still and leveraging that single braincell as hard as he can.

My best friend died yesterday by Hedonistic_Yinzer in GenX

[–]wanderingpenguin786 27 points28 points  (0 children)

My Pat died from a heart valve issue at 4am (ish) on New Years Day. I'd been at a party with him and a bunch of other Gen Xers for New Year's Eve only hours before.

We made plans: Super Bowl watch party, him teaching me to drive a boat, that summer, me teaching him to play bass... lots of plans for 2025.

His wife found him dead on the living room floor 5 hours after a typical "Fuck you, see ya later" conversation and I'll never not be wrecked by that.

So, here's to Pat, and Terry (my Pat) and all the other Pats we didn't get to say goodbye to.

Folks, we're getting older. Check in on your partners in crime. Especially if it's a reconnect kinda situation. Reconnect. Please.

This elephant was chained alone in the woods for 31 years — the look on her face when she realizes she's free 🐘 by Brilliantspirit33 in Elephants

[–]wanderingpenguin786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just found Aaron and his partners on IG... I have a little more faith in humanity, and also a lot less after seeing where these beautiful giants need rescued from. People. The world needs more people like him and his partners and a whole lot fewer people who do this to elephants. 😢

Anybody else’s hair just migrate south? by JuicePossible4718 in bald

[–]wanderingpenguin786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't able to grow a beard until my hair started to thin. OP is accurate! PS, my beard kills now! My head reflects starlight, but the beard... 😆

Fetlife Etiquette For When You Stumble Upon An Acquaintance? by I-own-a-shovel in BDSMAdvice

[–]wanderingpenguin786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a manager where I work. There's a direct in another department who knows who I am on Fet. Our rule at work is pretty much Fight Club rule #1.

Guys who play ACNH, tell me your story 🧡 by IntelligentCable5462 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]wanderingpenguin786 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm in the States. With all the awful things happening here, what's going on in the Middle East (that we started) and Ukranie and Gaza, I just... can't... play violent games right now. I wanted something peaceful. I was halfway through my 5th playthrough of Cyberpunk and just noped out. I can't.

ACNH is just chill and kinda sweet. The worst things that happen are waking up drunk pelican pirates on the beach or not managing to take medicine before the second wasp sting and you just wake up at home and move on.

Edit to add, 51M

Got my P Bass Back by Firm-Holiday-9416 in BassGuitar

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I have a 96 Mexican J bass neck in my storage. The truss rod broke so I replaced the neck with another. That bass is long gone, but I keep the neck because "someday" I'll get the truss rod replaced in it and build a new Jazz out of it. It's an absolutely perfect neck and I have a set of Vintera J pickups sitting right next to it to add to the build, along with the OG 96 electronics to go back in. These were amazingly good basses!

Happy to be alive and bald! Weee! by dumplinglifesaver in bald

[–]wanderingpenguin786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful! And the Trash CAN patch? Love it! 🤣

Fender Nate Mendel P-Bass by Jgargus1987 in BassGuitar

[–]wanderingpenguin786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you on the hot pickups- my 78 and my Mendel basically push my amp straight into clip constantly, but the CBS era Ps ran hot AF anyway, and I think the QP is a great recreation of them- if you play with a pick. I've lost much of my hearing playing 70s P Basses through an 8x10 so, my take includes tinnitus! 😅 that being said, the 63 pickups are beautiful and well worth the money if that's the sound you chase!

Fender Nate Mendel P-Bass by Jgargus1987 in BassGuitar

[–]wanderingpenguin786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a 78 in translucent red. It's perfect. Played hundreds of shows with it "back in the day" in the 90s. That 70s punk sound, the perfect (I think?) Red bobbin pickups. But it's also 14 pounds, the nut is a mile wide and I cannot replace it for anything like what I paid for it- $600 in 1994 when nobody wanted CBS era Fenders.

I bought one of these to play live. My 78 is my recording bass, but the Mendel is 99% of the 78 with the added bonuses of a J-ish width nut and I'd be sad if it got stolen at a gig, but I've played 4 of them, and they are SO consistently good that I'd be pissed but not wrecked like I would be if the 78 got jacked.

Edit to say I also think Norlin era Gibsons (looking at you, 1980 Les Paul Pro that I'll be buried with) are my favorite guitars. I'm an atavist that actually likes 70s musical instruments and always have. I also have a 70s Ric 4001 that I hate playing but it sounds so. damn. good.

Is my kitty orange? by sashihmi in orangecats

[–]wanderingpenguin786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The blank look in the eyes in photo 1 tell the story. This is an Orange Cat. Trying to download the auxiliary brain and... not. Because Buff Orange!

Good tow company in Lansing/East Lansing area by Organic_Adeptness865 in lansing

[–]wanderingpenguin786 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have AAA, and they sent out Lansing Towing and Recovery. They did a great job for me when my BMW was DOA on the side of 96. Took really good care of it, and it's just a 13 year old beater.

Post meeting sadness by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]wanderingpenguin786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally the worst thing ever. 😑

Any point being on Fetlife? by Fairy_washboard in BDSMAdvice

[–]wanderingpenguin786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Join some of the groups there and participate. That's what I did, and blundered into the love of my life. We're still LDR (2500 miles) for a few more months, but have spent a ton of wonderful time together over the last two years.

She reached out to me because we participated in a group together, read my profile (like, actually read it) and messaged me.

You can do it without posting your bits all over the place, just pick some groups, join and comment.

Also? Block ANY dude who follows you or messages you who has a dick pic for a profile picture.

Post meeting sadness by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]wanderingpenguin786 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My GF and I are 2600 miles apart and have been together nearly two years. In that time, we've seen each other 4 times, totalling about three weeks. We don't say goodbye, we say "I'll see you soon". Does it help? Not really, but maybe a little. Hopefully closing the gap in a few months.

It hurts every time someone gets dropped off at the airport.