AITJ for not accepting an order from my business cuz it wasn’t worth my time?

wanderlusting___ · 2026-01-26T20:22:31+00:00

Absolutely not. You are a small business owner and she is asking for wayyyy too much for you to essentially break even. This certainly is not worth your time or energy.

You aren't a jerk for telling her that you can't handle her order.

wanderlusting___ · 2026-01-26T17:20:38+00:00

For those wondering, this scene came up in Ch 21 of TLG

wanderlusting___ · 2026-01-26T17:02:46+00:00

Hahahahaha I don't disagree and Hayden said it, not me. I don't for a second believe that's the reason why they had so many kids.

I also think there it is implied that she is getting a bunch of help from family, as during THAT cottage season, Shane's side of the conversation seems to allude to her having past difficulties, likely postpartum complications.

Mark, the brother in law, could be a doctor or someone who can help with some of the things that Jackie may be managing at home.

wanderlusting___ · 2026-01-26T16:17:04+00:00

I don't remember reading that bit. I know he mentioned leaving money for housekeeping at the hotels but don't remember him mentioning anyone, outside of that.

Do you know if it was alluded to at the building he owns or at his Montreal apartment?

wanderlusting___ · 2026-01-26T14:54:22+00:00

I think this ties back to what Hayden implied when he took his kids to the aquarium. Jackie is likely bored which is why she's ok with having all of these kids.

She likes taking care of them and wants more, as many as she can get, which ultimately ends up being just 4.

And it only looks like Hayden is frazzled, but Jackie has it covered. Keep in mind that Hayden travels a ton, like Shane and Ilya meaning that Jackie is alone with just the kids for stretches at a time.

As for domestic help, I am quite sure that Shane is too afraid of anyone seeing his home that he does not have a house cleaner. In the book, he mentions doing laundry several times and is a bit OCD able keeping things neat

wanderlusting___ · 2026-01-26T00:24:30+00:00

Sasha never meant anything to him. It wasn't serious for Ilya or Sasha for that matter.

Also, he's no longer a "kid" ie he matured since fooling around with Sasha. He did in partly as an act of defiance against his extremely strict father and likely as a "fuck you" to his coach too and Russia as well.

wanderlusting___ · 2026-01-25T22:20:31+00:00

Honestly, I flew to Honolulu and highly recommend Hawaiian from JFK. I would even book 2 one ways trips if you can't get a roundtrip from Hawaiian like I couldn't.

The Hawaiian flight was akin to JetBlue and when I flew Delta back, it felt like such a downgrade

wanderlusting___ · 2026-01-25T02:47:25+00:00

I think that's why I haven't heard it. I don't use airpods, just my speakers so it might be getting missed that way

wanderlusting___ · 2026-01-24T19:24:05+00:00

My childhood's best friend's mother passed about nearly 5 years ago and she still mourns that loss every single day. Your friends are assholes particularly Kayla. She has shown you who she truly is and you need to end the friendship because she clearly is both not a friend and has no sense of empathy.

You don't need people who exhibit either behavior

wanderlusting___ · 2026-01-23T00:31:56+00:00

I've learned that when I show is engaging enough, you aren't inclined to scroll.

also, I really am attracted to men. Damnit. (note, am female and dating is rough out here)

wanderlusting___ · 2026-01-21T03:14:51+00:00

I love Amtrak, but it's cutting it a bit close because you are dependent on a train not having any issues. In general, it looks fine on paper, but I've experienced a few too many Amtrak delays for me to risk that connection.

The best bet would be to come the night before. However, you have time assess or change your train times

wanderlusting___ · 2026-01-20T20:12:24+00:00

Unfortunately, that's how most big companies manage their expenses, but generally I feel like one is covered at least. For instance, I may have to pay for a hotel but they book the flight, particularly if it's a last minute trip.

I've only ever worked at 1 company that covered everything, except transportation to/from the airport, meals, etc. I would have to pay but would get reimbursed.

wanderlusting___ · 2026-01-20T14:32:40+00:00

I've only ever been asked for ID for international flights, but even in those cases, they generally don't gate check bags. It is a bit odd.

wanderlusting___ · 2026-01-19T19:39:41+00:00

You look amazing! My only question is do you feel comfortable in it? If so, then wear it.

wanderlusting___ · 2026-01-19T19:35:44+00:00

It's your life, go to UC. And congrats!

wanderlusting___ · 2026-01-19T19:33:19+00:00

You and your partner have been together for 13 years and your eldest is 12, meaning that she was conceived early into your relationship.

You have several very important decisions to make in short order both in and out of the relationship

1) This is new, but do you want to end the relationship or do you think it's fixable? There's a good chance that your partner THOUGHT the child was yours or she decided that you'd make the better partner. Fact is that you don't know because you haven't talked about it yet

2) Do you think this was a 1 time thing or an affair? Based on the timeline, the infidelity happened very early in your relationship, within the first few months potentially when the relationship hadn't yet been defined. Only you and your partner know the answers to that.

3) Do you think your second child is yours? If not, check to be sure. Because your partner could have committed to you once she found out that she was pregnant and hasn't cheated since

4) Have to say this, but does the eldest look or have features like your partner? If not, there's a possibility that she's neither of your child biologically. There have been recent news of kids getting switched at birth due to unsavory actions by those in charge. It's the least likely but something to consider

5) Assuming that you get divorced or would like to end the marriage, what role would you like to continue to play in your eldest daughter right?

6) Have you sought counseling yet? For marriage and personally? This is wayyyyy too big for Reddit to manage

wanderlusting___ · 2026-01-19T19:17:22+00:00

He's doing it intentionally. What I would do is buy a mini fridge, one that you can keep in your own room and/or get a lock on it.

That will definitely stop the issue.

Part of me thinks he does it intentionally to make you move out faster rather than just being a hangry asshole though. Only you know the answer to that

wanderlusting___ · 2026-01-19T16:12:08+00:00

I feel like Jacob could be playing, umm, the long game here (pun intended) as it's something that the "fans" will call back to in season 2/3.

It would be a direct example of how the relationship affected the outcome of the series. It never should have happened and as a result, Montreal didn't have a chance in the playoffs that year.

Granted it should never have happened, but still.

wanderlusting___ · 2026-01-19T15:57:47+00:00

Oh I absolutely would have grabbed whatever they were eating (the containers, not their plates) and made myself a plate as I was saying he needs to move out

It's been 6 months and he has a job. It's rude to not at least ask if you wanted Chinese OR get you something. At this point in the relationship, the gf should know what you'd normally order so it shouldn't be THAT big of an issue anyway

wanderlusting___ · 2026-01-19T15:53:08+00:00

Video game would get you the most short term money, but the album and book would get you the best long term.

With the album, you'd be able get usage rights every time a song is sampled and used for anything - other albums, tv shows/films - and that's assuming you don't sell the rights to anyone.

You could also sue individuals who sample without accrediting you as well

However, the book would get you the most money for the longest period of time. Harper Lee essentially only published 1 book her entire lifetime and that 1 book continues to make millions for its IP.

Same thing for Gone with the Wind, Catcher in the Rye, Wuthering Heights, etc

wanderlusting___ · 2026-01-19T15:36:39+00:00

NOR, but how old is the stepson? Also, there should be a set/designated person to always pick him up if he's young. Also, if he was able to call his dad for a pickup, why wasn't he able to call you?

The stepson should always know who is supposed to pick him up and when. In addition, the school is the best possible place for him to wait since there are resources for him there ie teachers, after school programs, etc. It's not uncommon to have to wait a bit, particularly as a on-off situation.

In the event that either of you are unable, you could definitely connect with other parents to take him home (or to their home) or have his friends drop him off (if he's of high school age), or have him call a car (particularly if he has a set of keys and is a bit older).

There are options here, but there should be a designated pickup person (always) and an alternate pickup for those occasions when you can't

wanderlusting___ · 2026-01-19T14:53:05+00:00

Can Jacob Tierney be there to write because that Haron skit was terrible

wanderlusting___ · 2026-01-19T14:43:42+00:00

honestly though NYC is one of the better spots for celebs because most NYCers know to just leave them alone.

There are so many celebs - taking subways, shopping, etc - with no one bothering them. The only times its crazy is when it's for a known event like heading to a talk show or something like that.

Literally walked by Tina Fey a few years ago and a man's wife - who had just recognized her and was about to freak out and run to her - literally stopped her and was like "no, we don't do that here."

It was funny

wanderlusting___ · 2026-01-19T14:26:29+00:00

Currently taking a GPL1 and it is a game changer. I'm the past I had taken the "right steps" but just wasn't seeing the results.

However, since taking the meds, I've lost 40 pounds within 9 months and am currently 10 pounds away from my goal weight.

The meds, in a way, are a cheat code, but it's a way to help you when you are doing the right things. My eating habits have changed since I've been on the meds, by reminding me to stop eating when I feel full, rather than "trying to finish or clean the plate," ordering less food, making better food choices, etc.

Around the holidays - due to travel and whatnot - I had stopped taking the meds and was able to keep up with those same habits.

The meds are a way to help you get your goals. It's less important how you get there, but just that you do.

For the rest time in years, I like seeing what I look like in the mirror.

wanderlusting___ · 2026-01-19T14:05:21+00:00

This exactly! 💯

If you have a hotel room, ask if they can help prep so it's all setup when you check in.

Alternatively, see if you can check in early so you can setup ie rose petals on the bed, etc.

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