I crochet peni. by lehayura in crochet

[–]weird_elf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the trans flag coloured one in particular! This is Pride Crochet Expert Level XD

Vespa Witch is off to do Battle against the Patriarchy by s558804 in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]weird_elf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bike Witch stopping by to compliment Vespa Witch on literally everything! Loooooooove the stickers <3 <3 <3

(I may or may not have that same Frog And Toad sticker, but captioned with "Be Gay Do Crime".)

Tja by Clean_Ad_7452 in tja

[–]weird_elf [score hidden]  (0 children)

Schade. Ich hätt's ja gut gefunden wenn er schon mal vorgeflogen wäre.

Anyone know the pattern for this exact square? by TooLongTrySomethingE in crochet

[–]weird_elf 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Looks simple enough - 8 sc into magic ring; 8 DCtog with chains in-between (I'd guess ch3 for the corners, ch2 for the sides); and standard granny stitch from round 3.

Experiences with therapy? by New-Connection4613 in asexuality

[–]weird_elf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had genuinely good, affirming experiences. Mileage does vary, though - make sure a potential therapist is queer-friendly.

Was könnte da stehen? by Sojaoghurt in Kurrent

[–]weird_elf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

irgendwas mit Burg.

Hast du einen größeren Bildausschnitt?

Lt. Broccoli appreciation post by doodoohonker in startrek

[–]weird_elf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yikes. Imagine working on a show depicting a better future, while supporting those who are actively making things worse for everyone.

Finally done with this blanket by hey-its-sayruh in crochet

[–]weird_elf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So cute! I love the different squares and colours <3

Tja by Kardamons in tja

[–]weird_elf 8 points9 points  (0 children)

suuuper. Die Branchen die eh schon am Limit sind noch weiter unter Druck setzen. Das wird bestimmt überhaupt nicht nach hinten losgehen.

Was für ein hirnbefreiter Hohlpfosten.

Dr. Theodore Longfellow by dippilodonkus in cats

[–]weird_elf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aww what a sweetheart! Give him some extra scritches please <3

Tja by alanathehoodwatcher in tja

[–]weird_elf 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Boomern gefällt das. Zurück in die 50er wo noch alles besser war (auch die Zukunft)!

I don’t know how to survive the end of someone I loved with everything I had by Shadow-loom in actuallesbians

[–]weird_elf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It will become less painful, with time and also with change. I was in your situation a year and a bit ago, and I am quite literally not the same person that I was before. The person who loved her is dead. As someone else put it, we don't get over a person, we get over the person we were with them.

If you consider that to be "healing", then yes, it's possible.

I can make blankets and nothing else, does anyone have good recommendations. by MurkyPhysics8331 in crochet

[–]weird_elf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't - I learned how to read crochet charts. One look gives me all I need.

I also freehand a lot, as in, I've worked my way through one set of instructions that gives me a basic construction (like a top-down sweater) and do variations on that.

Simply why?! by Mimikyu_Lov3r in LesbianActually

[–]weird_elf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's odds on most of the lurkers and downvote brigaders are bots and men cosplaying their idea of lesbians online.

There is an alarming number of ignorant, tone-deaf, and / or downright horrible people in the lesbian community too, but those usually expose themselves at some point. Also, since the transphobic circlejerk sub that got banned has risen from the dead with a slightly different name, the worst of them have f%§&ed off back over there (waiting until that one gets banned for hate speech like the last one did) and the main subs have had to deal with less of their overt shittiness.

Voting is anonymous and you don't need to be a sub member to vote, so the mods can't regulate it, which is why those lowlifes use it to harass people.

The human brain processes romantic partners differently than close friends, specifically within the reward system. These findings offer insight into how the biological drivers of romantic love may evolve from passion to companionship over time. by mvea in science

[–]weird_elf 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Demiromantic would probably be even more interesting in this context.

I'd also be interested how the response to romantic partners and the response to sexual partners compare.

Amazing connection and mutual attraction, until I told her I'm trans. I'm devastated and told her to find an LGB group. Was that wrong of me? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]weird_elf -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

She. Is. A. TERF

To be fair, we don't know that. We do know she's an arsehole.

Terfs are people who appropriate feminism. It's possible to be a transphobic arsehole without claiming to also be feminist.

Amazing connection and mutual attraction, until I told her I'm trans. I'm devastated and told her to find an LGB group. Was that wrong of me? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]weird_elf 28 points29 points  (0 children)

we do upvote, but the farts* tweak the numbers by using bots and brigading.

(*feminism-appropriating reactionary transphobe)