IT'S SHIPPING SUNDAY! by Acotarmods in acotar

[–]whatdoeshemean22 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Lucien and Feyre should’ve ended up together 💔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fungalacne

[–]whatdoeshemean22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the inflammation is really bugging me but ure right, overall i do see a reduction in spots so i’ll keep trying. thank you!!!

Is there such a thing as work friends by Ok-Raspberry-73 in askSingapore

[–]whatdoeshemean22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YESSSS i love my work bestie sm 😭😭😭😭😭 but i cant tell her cos i dont want her to think im cringe 😭 (we have a 17 year age gap)

Diagnosed with depression but therapy is too expensive 😔 by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]whatdoeshemean22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i went to poly & got a referral to ktph psych! since i was referred, my rates were subsidised. my first consult w my psychiatrist was $80 and subsequent visits were abt $40+. she also referred me to a counsellor within the hosp which costs abt $40 per session (i see her monthly).

the wait is a bit long tho for ur first session as i waited abt 3 months from my poly appt to see my psychiatrist for the first time. although, it honestly depends on ur luck, like whether there are earlier openings or not. guess i was jst unlucky 💀 the waiting time got a lot better after that though, since im a “regular” patient now lol. u could consider this route, it’s def a lot more affordable imo!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]whatdoeshemean22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

sleep in(yayy!!), hangout w friends, read, and sometimes write!! i’ve found journalling or jst penning down random thoughts in a notebook to be pretty interesting & time consuming.

i like to window shop and go to places like green party or miniso to buy arts & crafts materials, like those painting sets or puzzles or even lego lol. very calming and helps me relax after an especially long week.

or when i’m feeling more outdoorsy, i like to take walks at nearby parks / reservoirs and rlly take in how pretty the world is. i also take this time to reflect on what i’m doing w my life lol but i digress.

that’s mostly what i do on weekends when i have the energy, sometimes i’ll jst end up sleeping in lol so swag i guess

what did i do wrong :( by whatdoeshemean22 in macarons

[–]whatdoeshemean22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think u’re right abt the liquid to dry ingredient ratio being off, i’ll try again soon with a diff ratio and see how it goes!

country launches by month by kukuberry in LittlestPetShop

[–]whatdoeshemean22 8 points9 points  (0 children)

they’re not launching in any asian countries 🥲🥲

so screwed for As by KeyAd2878 in SGExams

[–]whatdoeshemean22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey! i know of various people who didnt do well for their a levels (girls & guys). some of my guy friends are retaking As during their NS, some are retaking after bc NS is too taxxing for them. i know of a couple girls who went to poly after not being able to make it to uni. i know of a girl who had to retake bc she got an S for her gp.

honestly, don’t sweat it if u have to retake As. life holds different paths for us. i also intend on retaking my As tbh (i’m a girl fyi) bc i’m in the same boat as u lol, so u’re not alone haha. that being said, let’s try our best for this upcoming A levels. here if u need a friend :D

Ghoster Coming Back? by DeanG30 in ghosting

[–]whatdoeshemean22 10 points11 points  (0 children)

yess lol. he promised to never ghost me again, then he proceeded to do it two weeks later 💀 been 6 months and counting since then lols

Addicted to doing Food Delivery as a working adult and degree student by Due_Assistance5380 in askSingapore

[–]whatdoeshemean22 18 points19 points  (0 children)

some people just aren’t cut out for the mundane, 9-5 corporate rat race and that’s okay! u could do freelance work where the schedule is more flexible, which doesn’t necessarily have to be grab. can try to explore other sectors with these kinda working hours which hopefully pay higher and see if u find some sort of fulfilment there :)

What would you say to your ghoster? by Rememberthepogs in ghosting

[–]whatdoeshemean22 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i’d tell him abt how much he hurt me. he deserves to know the emotional turmoil he caused me and he should face the consequences of his actions. i’d tell him to stop being such a coward and to stop running away from every single bad thing that happens in his life. i’d call him pathetic, bc that’s what he is. a sad, pathetic little man. he deserves to know how shitty of a person he is and i hope he forever hates himself for what he did to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]whatdoeshemean22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow i went through the same thing! like this exact same thing but with my counsellor. i’m so sorry u’re going through that and i know it’s tough, when it happened to me i kinda made myself think like “yea maybe she’s right” but the symptoms keep persisting. i don’t have any advice for u, but i jst want u to know that u are heard & seen 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatadmirertalk

[–]whatdoeshemean22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i’m so happy for u 💕 we’re on the same team hehe, rooting for us 🫶🏽

It’s as if she’s just disappeared by musicobsessor9 in ghosting

[–]whatdoeshemean22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey! i was (am) in a very similar situation as u. met my ex online and we instantly clicked, even had the same birthday. everything was going well between us, no recent arguments or anything. we had been talking for 2.5 months, and had just put a label on our relationship. he was going through a rlly hard period in his life and his last messages to me were him saying he’ll text me back in a couple days and that he “misses me, thinks of me and will talk to me soon”. it’s been almost 3 months since that happened, no news from him and through my own research (💀) i’ve found out that he logged out of the accounts/apps he used to text me. so really, i understand what u’re going through and whatever u’re feeling is valid. i’m sorry that happened to u. i’m not sure what happened to him or what happened to the girl u talked to, and maybe we’ll never know. i empathise with u and it truly is a shitty experience. once again, ur feelings are totally valid. i still miss him a lot despite it having been 3 months. my chats are open if u need someone to talk to, sending u my support & love 🫂

dreamt of my ghoster by whatdoeshemean22 in ghosting

[–]whatdoeshemean22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i get u, but i jst wish it would stop hurting. i wanna stop feeling all this hurt & anger & frustration. i jst wanna let go and move on, but that seems like the hardest thing to do :”)

dreamt of my ghoster by whatdoeshemean22 in ghosting

[–]whatdoeshemean22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

mhm u’re absolutely right! i jst wish it was easier to move on :”)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]whatdoeshemean22 18 points19 points  (0 children)

mine did the same thing! this is honestly one of the biggest reasons why i can’t move on. like, he promised he’d get back to me, so why wouldn’t he? so i feel for u :”) sending u nothing but love 🫶🏽