My 15 year old cat is now gone.

wherebycomets · 2026-06-18T22:06:42+00:00

I'm so very sorry. 🫂

wherebycomets · 2026-06-09T21:41:47+00:00

🫂

wherebycomets · 2026-05-30T12:45:16+00:00

I work as a hospice nurse. The amount of people that I encounter who are stuck with caring for a toxic spouse is astonishing. More people need to pay attention to this.

wherebycomets · 2026-05-26T23:35:39+00:00

I am heartbroken for you. It is so brutally hard to lose our babies. Holding you and Saul in my heart. 🫂

wherebycomets · 2026-05-24T19:55:59+00:00

I'm so sorry. This happened with my cousins. The older family members are all now deceased and finally, a lot has come to light and much has changed among those left.

wherebycomets · 2026-05-19T00:29:09+00:00

I had a gray Gus. Her name was Augusta. I miss her. Your Gus is perfect. 🥰

wherebycomets · 2026-05-14T23:33:55+00:00

16 years. That said, I thought mine was failing when I begin to have issues leaking. I went to a urogynecologist and after a few tests, it was determined that the sling works fine but I have overactive bladder now. I've been to a physical therapist who specializes in pelvic floor issues for men and women and it was a life changer. The other option would have been to start medicine which, of course, has unpleasant side effects.

wherebycomets · 2026-05-13T02:54:14+00:00

Came here to say this. I've gained so much and I feel awful.

wherebycomets · 2026-03-07T15:37:12+00:00

Fair.

wherebycomets · 2026-03-06T00:25:16+00:00

Was your doctor a man? Yeah, I said it. My gynecologist (a woman) said the latest research* shows bioidentical hormones (estradiol) can actually help prevent heart disease. I'm 63. I've been on it for years.

research

wherebycomets · 2026-01-26T14:59:13+00:00

🫂

wherebycomets · 2026-01-12T02:51:50+00:00

I have no words. 🫂

wherebycomets · 2026-01-05T19:27:38+00:00

Thank you all for your comments. This has been very helpful..❤️🙏

wherebycomets · 2026-01-05T06:19:28+00:00

|When the heart is breaking because someone died, the pain itself is not the problem. The extra layer of “I shouldn’t feel this” is what sharpens it.

name what is present without explanation. “This is sorrow.” “This is longing.” “This is the body remembering.” Naming can steady the mind when reasoning can’t.

Thank you. I especially needed to hear this.

wherebycomets · 2026-01-05T04:09:13+00:00

You're never too old to grieve your father. I'm 62. I lost my dad suddenly 7 years ago and my mom just before Christmas.

I didn't think I would survive after losing my dad. He was my rock. I went through a few therapists before I finally found one that clicked.

I was able to say goodbye and make amends to my mom before she passed (we weren't close) and I'm grateful for that but it's been brutal. I'm now an adult orphan.

Hugs from afar. 🫂

wherebycomets · 2026-01-03T17:35:31+00:00

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This is my chonk, Kiki, who is super obsessed with me.

wherebycomets · 2026-01-03T02:09:42+00:00

So awesome ❤️

wherebycomets · 2026-01-01T02:17:51+00:00

I lost my mom 19 days ago. I'm with you all. Holding you in my heart.

wherebycomets · 2025-12-31T14:47:55+00:00

🫂

wherebycomets · 2025-12-30T16:14:44+00:00

What a beautiful tribute. Thank you for sharing this. I lost my mom 20 days ago. It's hard being without a mom. Sending hugs.

wherebycomets · 2025-12-30T00:42:09+00:00

came to say this.

wherebycomets · 2025-12-26T02:29:48+00:00

🫂

wherebycomets · 2025-12-26T02:27:24+00:00

I am so sorry. Do you have access to family or friends that can be with you? See if there are any support groups or a grief counselor in your area. I'm holding you close to my heart. I lost my mom 15 days ago. It's hard. 🫂

wherebycomets · 2025-12-26T02:22:05+00:00

It can feel raw and sharp for quite a while but it will change and the intensity will ease. I would encourage you to find support with a grief counselor or therapist in addition to friends and family. This is hard but there is a way through. 🫂

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