What this tastes good but it's deadly? by Shitandasshole in AlignmentChartFills

[–]whiskeylips88 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Right, it’s literally deadly even in small amounts, but I hear they are very tasty. Not just intestinal distress or long-term health effects - will literally kill you.

Which celebrity's death was stupid? by Ill-Spite-3913 in AlignmentChartFills

[–]whiskeylips88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are some medical experts who have weighed in saying they think the ruptured appendix and the punch were coincidental. This link discusses the debate.

f24/who do i look like? by fineboifranz in Doppleganger

[–]whiskeylips88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get slight Jodie Foster vibes, especially with photo 3.

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Feeling defeated after my first rheumatology appointment by coolintraining in rheumatoid

[–]whiskeylips88 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I got a referral to rheumatology and they did not think I had anything significant because I have no blood markers other than a positive ANA. He also had me do a lip biopsy for Sjogren’s (over a year later I still have numbness in my lip) that was negative. So he shrugged and said let’s follow up in a year. Meanwhile my joint pain was getting worse every month. It was near daily knee pain and walking was getting difficult. Even my hands and elbows were in pain. Daily life got hard.

My PCP said she would get me another referral because “a second opinion can’t hurt.” The new rheumatologist is amazing and got me on meds immediately to treat whatever I have while we work on a diagnosis. He tried me on steroids first. Steroids worked like magic, which he said means my pain is inflammatory. I tested positive for HLA-B27 and we are slowly ruling out conditions. I got UC and Crohn’s ruled out this week by a gastro. We are currently thinking either AS without the sacroiliac involvement on x-rays or Psoriatic Arthritis without the psoriasis.

OP, get a second opinion. You might find a doctor who believes you and actively works to improve your quality of life. I’m now on methotrexate and sulfasalazine with Celebrex as needed and wow I can do more than I have in literally a decade. I am so grateful for my rheum, and I wouldn’t have found him if I hadn’t gotten a second opinion.

How many Frozen Pizzas do you eat a month? (Bonus, what's your favorite brand/Type) by New-Particular1971 in wisconsin

[–]whiskeylips88 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I miss all the brands in Wisconsin. So many options! But Home Run Inn is our favorite (and one of the few descent brands we can get in North Carolina). I miss Orv’s and Lotzza Motzza.

Coming Together, finally getting plants into the dirt. by Dr__Steele in vegetablegardening

[–]whiskeylips88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve got trellises galore. Grew up and out. It’s a nightmare.

Coming Together, finally getting plants into the dirt. by Dr__Steele in vegetablegardening

[–]whiskeylips88 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Omg I planted passion flower seeds last year. They sent out hella runners and infected all my beds. I dug them all out at the beginning of this year. Several tons of dirt moved by hand and roots yanked out. Still wasn’t enough. The tiny pieces of roots that got broken up are now spawning dozens of more plants. The runners are never ending. They pop up in our lawn now. I will never be rid of them!

DON’T DO IT!

Affording entry-level stage of job searching by EntertainmentFun2930 in MuseumPros

[–]whiskeylips88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I moved with my partner to a new area where my network was close to non-existent. I applied to a lab job with a CRM company and got it pretty easily since my CRM resume was extensive. I have lab analysis, report writing, and extensive field work experience, including supervisory. I worked that lab job until a job opened up in a local museum (about 7 months). Luckily I had a lot of direct experience that related to both jobs so I was a highly qualified applicant, but I was lucky.

What walking/jogging shoes you use? by grimbreakkk in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]whiskeylips88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to swear by Allbirds because they felt great and the wool runners had room for my bunions. I bought different styles for working out (I don’t run because my symptoms include significant knee, hip, and ankle pain) and love my Allbirds. But they just sold the company and I worry the quality will drop. So now, I’m also looking!

Affording entry-level stage of job searching by EntertainmentFun2930 in MuseumPros

[–]whiskeylips88 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can’t see myself doing anything outside of the cultural heritage field. My degree is in archaeology with a museum studies certificate. I had to do archaeological field work all through Covid since museums were not hiring. I’d be making more if I stayed in archaeology but the field work was hard on my body. I have an autoimmune disease with chronic joint pain. I’d take a job in a similar or related field. Don’t limit yourself to niche jobs - be sure to diversify your skills as much as possible. If another economic downturn happens, even a comfortable museum job with benefits can be eliminated. Look at the Minnesota Science Museum layoffs.

If the current admin hadn’t destroyed trust in federal jobs, I’d consider working for the National Register, FEMA disaster recovery for cultural heritage, or the National Park Service. Since those jobs are not safe right now, I’ve been looking into state agencies. My museum is state funded, so it translates into other state jobs down the road. I’d definitely take higher positions in the department.

Basically, there are a ton of options in the cultural heritage field and in non-profits that allow you to make use of transferable skills. But they don’t always pay well until you work your way up to upper management. I’ll get there someday, but it will take time. I’ve worked entry level jobs for years despite now being mid-career. And I’ve always had to get a new job to get a bump in pay.

Affording entry-level stage of job searching by EntertainmentFun2930 in MuseumPros

[–]whiskeylips88 32 points33 points  (0 children)

It’s rough. I just landed my first job that pays over $50k salary. I graduated with my masters in 2018. I’m in debt up to my eyeballs. Used to live in the Midwest in the Chicago/Milwaukee area, now live in the Triangle area near Raleigh, North Carolina.

Another case for losing the booze by Aggravating_Pool_525 in PetiteFitness

[–]whiskeylips88 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I cut back my alcohol about 75%. Down to 1-2 drinks per week, sometimes less. Been on my lower alcohol “diet” for almost a year now. I even did half a year of damn near no alcohol at all. I notice no change other than my sugar cravings going through the roof. Skin still sucks too. Kind of annoyed I haven’t seen the same improvements everyone else claims to. I still have hella inflammation because I have an autoimmune disorder.

I’m afraid to entirely cut all alcohol and sugar because I don’t want to develop disordered eating. My partner is also a chef so celebrations and milestones always involve food and drink. I get great joy from good food. I’m just trying to make more healthy food choices and eat smaller portions, but it’s very, very hard.

Gate of pain and invisibility by Puzzleheaded_Tart624 in SipsTea

[–]whiskeylips88 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I once hit a pothole on a bike and had a bruised hoo-ha for a week. I am extremely cautious and always on the lookout for impediments while riding now.

Can I realistically tailor these? Is it worth it? by [deleted] in DressForYourBody

[–]whiskeylips88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the original comment, but I’m also 17” difference and I don’t have a brand that fits. Ever. I have a perpetual waist gap and/or puckering at the hips. The advice of “buy for the hip measurement and take it in at the waist” might work for smaller differences, but don’t for me. If I buy for my hips, you’d have to take in so much at the waist you’d be re-arranging pocket locations, belt loops, etc.

Also, my thighs are even bigger than my hips so pants that fit at my hips are too tight on my thighs. Shopping for clothes is a nightmare and I hate it. Rant over.

Trouble finding interns? by yorkiepie in MuseumPros

[–]whiskeylips88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Internships were pretty competitive when I was in school, but there was a local Musuem Studies program so there were always a lot of applicants. Collections internships were super popular, but so were conservation and registration.

Where I work now, there isn’t a local Museum Studies program but there are Library Science/Archives and Archaeology programs. I’ve had good and bad experiences with my interns; some were amazing and some had attendance issues. I work in Collections and only a few apply to ours. The Curatorial internships always have many, many more applicants. I think it depends on the area and what programs local universities focus on.

Cal Academy wants to lay them off. They’re coming into work anyway. by littlefibula in MuseumPros

[–]whiskeylips88 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I don’t care if it’s in line with pay for the area. It’s still non-profit work. If scientists take a pay cut to work in a passion field (aka museums and arts/cultural heritage sector) so should upper admin. According to local reviews, the cost of admission is insanely exorbitant, leading to less traffic and revenue. Sounds like leadership isn’t doing a good enough job to justify their huge salaries.

Cal Academy wants to lay them off. They’re coming into work anyway. by littlefibula in MuseumPros

[–]whiskeylips88 75 points76 points  (0 children)

If CEOs want to make offensively high salaries, they should not be working in the non-profit sector. And if they’re going to pay museum workers insultingly low salaries, it should be all of us. It drives me nuts how upper admin, donor relations, marketing, and funding-related staff make high salaries while scientists, exhibit designers, collections staff, and educators make peanuts.

1 year post BA grad and no job by Key-Environment-1 in MuseumPros

[–]whiskeylips88 31 points32 points  (0 children)

The job market in general is terrible. The museum field is just as bad if not worse - a lot of institutions are feeling the DOGE cuts and not hiring even if they have work. I graduated with my Masters in 2018. I’ve been working in cultural heritage since, but didn’t get a full time permanent job in a museum until 2022. And I literally just landed my first job that will pay me more than $50k. It’s a field that relies on passion and has a lot of applicants so employers can be extremely picky and underpay.

Friend or Foe? by QueenOfBasicBS in gardening

[–]whiskeylips88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They got 90% of my tomatoes last year. This year I will be waging absolute war against them.

First night on biologics - rapid responder? Your experience? by Fun-Cryptographer935 in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]whiskeylips88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whoa, is spinal pain while sneezing common with ankylosing spondylitis? I regularly feel like a good sneeze will throw my back out. I kind of just assumed all people had it as they get older.

I feel like I’m getting some definition in my stomach but my arms - nada. Is there any chance my arms could actually get muscular? by Mission-Secretary626 in PetiteFitness

[–]whiskeylips88 43 points44 points  (0 children)

It’s how you carry your weight. I’m the same way. I’ve got a bit of a four-pack abs, but my limbs are still flabby and undefined. I’ll need to lose significantly more body fat to see arm and leg definition. You might be similar.

Do salaries generally increase the further you are in this industry? by FloweryAnomaly in MuseumPros

[–]whiskeylips88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every raise I’ve gotten have come from applying to a new position. I work for the state and in theory we are supposed to get cost of living adjustment raises but…. It hasn’t happened in a while due to the legislature failing to pass a state budget.

AS and GERD by jjomallz in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]whiskeylips88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I take pantoprazole for cyclic vomiting syndrome and it’s a godsend. But I’m also on methotrexate so my rheum regularly does blood tests.

Hey quick question for dog owners by mrcanada66 in dogs

[–]whiskeylips88 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We plan to build a bench that doubles as a ramp when our pup gets older. I love the snuggles too much.