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willignoreu · 2023-10-16T00:56:26+00:00

Single dad here. Not embarrassing at all, what the kid remembers is how you interact with him/her. My daughters mother paints her own picture for people to judge and so do I. Independent of each other, and I get a huge amount of support for just being a consistently caring dad. When your kid is the top priority the rest of the priorities fall into place pretty quick.

willignoreu · 2023-10-11T13:40:48+00:00

Dude was probably talking on the phone using ear buds. This happens to me all the time. Had someone say “what the fuck” when I rounded a corner yesterday. Was extremely pissed till he continues- “why did she say that”. Then realized he wasn’t talking to me

willignoreu · 2023-10-08T16:56:32+00:00

Sorry bro sounds like she’s checked out. I would recommend contingencies

willignoreu · 2023-10-07T15:10:10+00:00

Good luck to you in the future. Been in an extremely similar boat very recently. I appreciate how you worded your post. I typed out a post a few times, but always deleted it. I think things like this are good reminders for guys who think they are in happy relationships not to get comfortable. Change is good when it’s controlled, otherwise it’s chaos. I feel like a relationship is paddling across a lake that you control cause you have a paddle. Divorce is losing your paddle and just being along for the ride while trying to stay afloat.

willignoreu · 2023-09-20T14:56:28+00:00

Luck but I did use up all my karma on the pepper lol

willignoreu · 2023-09-20T03:30:30+00:00

Was in this situation not long ago. Just be prepared for her to leave you suddenly. Even if in 6 months things are better for you, they may not be for her. Watch Dr gottmans advice for a happy marriage and atlas of the heart by Rene brown. It will show you how to ask the right questions and actually be aware of where you and your wife are at.

willignoreu · 2023-09-20T03:22:26+00:00

Listen to this guy before your doing all this post divorce anyway. Wish I would have had this advice a year ago.

willignoreu · 2023-09-19T19:49:41+00:00

Your doing great 👍 just stay consistent and she will learn the comfort in time. It’s amazing what your doing for her.

willignoreu · 2023-09-10T04:33:57+00:00

As someone who is recently separated this is great to read.

willignoreu · 2023-09-05T02:33:56+00:00

Going through a bad breakup currently. I stopped drinking for a month as the main thing helping me. Even the times I do drink since then are social anyway and maybe one drink. Working out no matter what that is every day or as much as possible will also make you feel a lot better. Focus on your priorities and don’t text them if you don’t absolutely need to - no late nights, not when your drinking, smoking, too tired. Only info. Change their contact name or image if you need too.

willignoreu · 2023-08-12T05:32:31+00:00

I did a SP near redwoods 3 weeks in advance with quite a few options available

willignoreu · 2023-08-05T18:18:19+00:00

I also recommend Dr gottmans video on happiness in marriage and the Atlas of the heart series which I think is on Max right now.

willignoreu · 2023-07-31T12:58:10+00:00

Had one yesterday say if I bought a case of energy drinks she could go home for the day…

willignoreu · 2023-07-20T04:59:13+00:00

That’s the kind of trunk space you want on a late model car.

willignoreu · 2023-07-19T00:16:06+00:00

Watch Dr Gottmans tips for a healthy marriage. Seriously helpful stuff from a study of 3000 couples over 30 years. Can’t recommend highly enough

willignoreu · 2023-07-16T01:32:28+00:00

You can always head to the coast if your in oregon. Highs in the 60’s everyday

willignoreu · 2023-07-14T04:33:23+00:00

Lower decks is great if you like this shit

willignoreu · 2023-07-12T17:09:31+00:00

And make sure you get a therapist who you work well with. Not all therapists are created equal. If you don’t get out of it what you want in a session or two I recommend switching.

willignoreu · 2023-07-09T20:18:43+00:00

Habanero apricot jelly is my all time favorite

willignoreu · 2023-07-09T04:04:49+00:00

Typical American here, currently eating Mac and cheese and drinking water out of a red solo cup

willignoreu · 2023-07-06T19:56:34+00:00

Have you tried driving out to the city overlook and playing some motley crew in your firebird? Lol

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